Filter 1: Not severely physically or mentally deformed (e.g. you dont have down syndrome and you aren't missing a limb, you dont have shizophrenia, you arent a dwarf, etc.)

Filter 2: neurotypicality -> if you are not neurotypical (you have mild autism) that automatically places you in the creep zone (not even the friend zone you are legit in the CREEP zone).

Filter 3: you are taller than the woman judging you

Notes: Alot of people tend to think incorrectly that women are extremely shallow and only go for looks. That is true for online dating definitely. But if you meet the above criteria you dont need online dating, you just take the normal "warm appraoch" where you use the benefits of being neurotypical to socially conform, find friendship groups and social circles and as a result, end up meeting women with common interests, etc. and wham! starts of a relationship. Red pill is amazingly succesful for people who meet the above criteria.

In another note, the 2nd filter of being neurotpyical, the only way to compensate for being neurodiverse is to be incredibly physically attractive. Even in that case, the ability to maintian employment and have friends and do general life work is still significiantly impacted by your neurodiversity.