I (28F) recently started seeing a man (40-something) that is very committed to the redpill mindset. He watches Fresh N Fit religiously which I initially thought was a joke until he clarified that it was over the top but rooted in his belief system. He recommended justpearlythings as a jumping off point for me but after listening to her show I felt like she said things for the sake of shock value and found it very off putting. I haven’t been able to find any podcasts or reading materials regarding what i should be doing, just lots of men hollering about how women deserve less. This is pretty jarring since I’ve never subscribed to this ideology before. I’ve always considered myself to be liberal, fiercely independent, and a feminist. Always taken care of myself, never asked for help or relied on anyone else. My mom was a single mom and I’m an only child, so I’ve never been around a man that thinks this way. I’m very open to new ideas and especially to the idea of being soft in a hard world. Mostly, I just want to be educated and be given the opportunity to understand without getting screamed at. Do you have any recommendations on materials where women are the intended audience?