We've read all the angles of this before. Women are talking about healthy sexuality and men clearly don't want to listen. Men want the same gross things that we know they want and have always wanted.

Men and women are different so maybe men are programmed to be more visual and disgusting - that doesn't change the fact that it's not healthy. Perhaps if they thought with their dicks less then maybe they could understand what healthy sexuality is.

Some of the biggest offenders here, let's face it, are incels. They aren't connecting with women. They aren't getting any sex. They're very hateful and this leads them down the path of unhealthy sexuality even further if they weren't already there in the first place.

I see a lot of good people online calling out incels for who they are. They're easy to identify based on the things they say and rightfully outed in most places. It's not enough that they're banned in some places.

There are men who 'get it' and there are men who don't 'get it.'

Obviously, we're only interested in the men who 'get it' but the men who don't 'get it' - they might not get any consideration for very valid reasons, but they still create a lot of problems in society and they kind of need to be dealt with.

Beyond calling out men for being incels, and beyond doing the things that we're already doing, what needs to be done to get men to understand what healthy sexuality is?