Confidence is one of the most common things that women have persistently stated as most attractive in a man. While this could be true, like other qualities women find attractive in men, it is incredibly vague. Confidence could mean different things to different people, and could be interpreted in different ways.

One person may be more attracted to guys who are mellow, soft-spoke, and easy going and perceive that as clear social confidence that they would be attracted to. Another person may find someone who is more excited and lively in showing a range of expressions while they are socializing. For the lack of the question, I want you to imagine certain factors are other equal such as appearance, things that are being said (at principle, not how its being carried out), lifestyle/income, morals, and context.

While this is heavily based on how your personal experiences compare with what type of guys that you do see, I suspect that there is usually a preference for one or the other. While meeting a guy for the first few times, would you feel gravitate more to a guy who appears at ease and calm, or someone who provides a more high energy atmosphere? Does it vary depending on what you are looking for, or is it usually consistent?