What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into?

xvszero · 2024-02-06T14:08:17+00:00

Thinking sex before marriage makes women less valuable partners. To be fair to myself I thought this about men too but because I'm a man I was way more judgmental about women.

Vandal865 · 2024-02-06T14:53:42+00:00

The classic 80/20 rule. God that rabbit hole fucked me up for a good long while.

It's the idea that 80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of men, implying that they would cheat on their partners or not even bother with having non "Chad" partners in favor of the top 20%, usually based purely on physical traits.

The debunked ok-cupid study is the root cause of this belief imo. When I still believed in it, it wreaked havoc on my self-esteem to the point of suicidal ideation.

Personal experience in the real world pretty quickly debunked this theory in my mind.

sturgeo123 · 2024-02-06T18:15:26+00:00

That showing emotions and love towards a woman will make her lose interest.

Aware_Illustrator_81 · 2024-02-06T23:00:21+00:00

For me it was “Alpha fucks, Beta Bucks” so much so that I put myself into some risky situations just to prove to myself that I was “Alpha”. Beforehand when I was dating, I’d use to think of I wasn’t sleeping with them before or by a certain timeframe, that I was just being used for my money and time (despite having not much money lol) and that they didn’t like me or felt that I was ugly, but just enjoyed not being lonely, so I was the target to alleviate that.

I’ve learned that life is more complicated, then just a simple formula, and that there’s lots of reasons that a women will or won’t sleep with you that have nothing to do with how attractive, wealthy and charismatic you are. Sure these do matter to an extent, however there’s plenty of other reasons why or why not it’ll happen, so why base my self-worth off of this?

As time went on I came to realize that this was a really juvenile way to view dating, and that even if I slept with a bunch of women, that it would just become this infinite number. Corny and generic as it may sound I had to learn that I had to love myself, and stop basing my worth in external factors. I’m still on that journey but I’m happier!!

Xade_Yt · 2024-02-06T18:34:49+00:00

me realizing that not only is feminism not about hating men, but it is actually beneficial to men too

BlackOrb23 · 2024-02-06T18:08:53+00:00

Basically they all buy into this weird confirmation bias ritual and refuse to think critically.

A good example is the Destiny-Mélina situation. RP bros are saying it’s an example confirming RP theory about women leaving guys when they find someone better - completely ignoring the fact that the guy she’s leaving Destiny for is some strange unestablished eboy whereas Destiny is a millionaire.

Ifhes · 2024-02-06T20:39:18+00:00

Not a lot of Room to build things to be remembered in history when your sex is being thoroughly oppressed in every sense and you can only be remembered if you come from a extremely privileged family.

eatfleshdrinkblood · 2024-02-07T04:55:45+00:00

The 80/20 rule

Men have no value and are only loved by what the provide

Women are all are a hypergamous hive mind

And that women lie

I still struggle with all of this at times tbh, but I’m not as bad as what I once was. Edit: there’s way more I believed in but these are the biggest

-AlwaysBored- · 2024-02-08T06:36:11+00:00

To any exredpillers who shared their experience here, Im proud of you for doing the work and deprogramming this sort of hateful shit. Wishing you the best!

Findingmyway91 · 2024-02-08T03:23:14+00:00

That a man’s value increases with age and a woman’s decreases

No-Mango7806 · 2024-02-08T08:46:59+00:00

The pair bonding bs

DangerStarfish · 2024-02-06T13:33:56+00:00

These are my actual thoughts... Working on them, as far as trying to . Find evidence to the contrary to these intrusive misogynistic notions..but hey... If you're asking, I'm sharing.

-There's no point in showing romantic interest in a woman. She's going to attempt to monetize my interest.

-Women don't even like men in general. They just find us occasionally useful. But generally disposable after their requests are fulfilled.

-I don't approach women, because they believe all men are rapists. I'd rather not risk my freedom, time, or money. On taking the chance of getting falsely accused, or having my reputation damaged because of a misunderstanding.

-I don't spend time with women in private. She could falsely accuse me of something. It doesn't have to be sexual... Hell she could tell a bunch of people I farted and it was rank. Even if I never farted at all. She could say literally anything to my peers and they'd eat it up because "believe all women." We gotta believe 'em all, even if their testimony has inconsistencies.

-Women don't actually like sex or sexual things as a topic. They just like to utilize quid pro quo, to get guys to do stuff for them.

I'm hesitant to enter relationships or friendships with women, because all too often, it's expected that my autonomy, boundaries, personal space, and emotional privacy, has to end, wherever the women's emotions begin.
most woman has at least 2-5 guys on the bench, waiting for her to put them in play. For whatever. Doesn't have to be sex.. but sometimes it sex.... I've been the "other guy" enough times to where, I'm like, Almost biased to believe there are wayy more women cheating than men are. Men just get caught more often.
Most women truly believe that it's okay to commit domestic abuse so long as the man is the victim.

-Women believe consent only applies to them. And don't care about whether or not a boy or a man consents to what she's doing to him. She doesn't care if he doesn't want her to touch him. And because he's male, she thinks "he's tough he can handle it." Or "he should be thankful that I'm touching him at all"

-Women claim to be more clean and hygienic than men, yet the messes in women's public restrooms have more frequent messes, and the messes are far worse than the men's bathrooms.

heterosexual Women don't really want relationships, marriage, or genuine connections, they want child support and alimony.

-women truly believe they have a monopoly on parenting, so much so, that most men's restrooms, do not have baby changing stations in the men's bathroom at all.

-Urinals are sexist. Especially if a large restaurant has 5 of them, and only 1 normal toilet. What if 2 men or more have to poop? No one cares.. So us dudes have to literally, wait in line, because we have to poop but there's only 1 poop disposal unit. So men gotta risk shitting ourselves because of corporate greed. And sexism.

-Women don't actually want men to be vulnerable, she wants ammunition to verbally abuse you by inaccurately referencing your deep dark stuff , she wants to effect you emotionally how she sees fit. When she's mad she is gonna bring up your issues.

-The guy in her life that she's usually telling her husband or boyfriend not to be concerned about, is usually the guy she leaves him.for or cheats on him with. Shoulders to cry on and quickly become dicks to ride on.

... I think.. that pretty much sums it up.

OptimalExpression540 · 2024-02-06T11:57:36+00:00

🤔

xXXxIZeusIxXXx · 2024-02-07T08:55:27+00:00

Dat looks matter

Oswamano · 2024-02-09T18:11:29+00:00

Thinking I had to jump through all these hoops and say the right things and dress the right way and overall not really be myself to get a girl.

Met my current girlfriend on an MMO(ff14), we were friends for a while first before we got serious and I was 110% just myself around her.

Title	What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into?
Author	forgotten-login
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Date	February 6, 2024 11:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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