Is approaching girls even worth it?

bandsupjay · 2022-08-15T18:17:35+00:00

Yup. Build confidence or just be confident. Either getting use to being around girls or get their numbers for lays. Lose your ego if you have one

YamiYugi23 · 2022-08-15T19:59:00+00:00

Yes

The first 20 cold approaches I was scared and would run away after getting their Snapchat and never ask for their name or make small talk

Recently I’ve made up small talk of 10 mins in my last 5 approach and even had dinner with one of the girls I cold approached I haven’t got laid yet but I made so much progress

First couldn’t even speak to a women I don’t know

Secondly couldn’t even make small talk after I did homie how to approach

Thirdly I didn’t know how to set up dates/dinners till now

Next will hopefully be bringing a girl home

The first time I asked a girl I failed on it didn’t even give her any day and she was like I’ll let you know when I’m free and never did the next girl I asked for availability etc each time I’ve been getting further and further progress

Last time I even Had a girl walk me home but so some reason I never invited her in and I regret till this day but I won’t make that mistake next time

It’s a learning game

PrettyLittlePenguin · 2022-08-15T17:54:21+00:00

No, you should approach guys. Enjoy.

King_WeeWee · 2022-08-15T18:46:49+00:00

Yea because you build your social skills and get comfortable with rejection. If you don't your ego will be as fragile as Mr. Glass's bones.

whiplash81 · 2022-08-15T20:11:52+00:00

No girl is going to show up at your home and start talking to you.

So if your goal is to meet women, you're going to have to approach them.

Lucazzz14 · 2022-08-15T17:58:19+00:00

Do you want to date?

RokuroMonsuta · 2022-08-15T18:07:50+00:00

No, you should never approach a girl unless she has a penis.

dobbs1997 · 2022-08-15T19:02:34+00:00

Lol just don’t do it man…we all know you don’t wanna holla at these chicks.

koseabjitt · 2022-08-15T17:56:01+00:00

no it's not . just get blackpilled & leave these stuff to people like me.

leave the planet as well , please.

Admirable-Crab5594 · 2022-08-15T19:20:08+00:00

Nothing to loose mate; if you are lucky, you might score something. But it's always good to talk to random girls to keep your skill game up. Don't expect anything; approach them wherever you are.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-08-15T18:20:42+00:00

Only if you want to get laid someday.

WTFyow · 2022-08-15T20:51:40+00:00

No run away 🫣 same results every time.

Only you can decide if it is, if you enjoy yourself I don’t see why not, especially if the opportunity presents itself :-) I like to let things happen

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-15T17:54:04+00:00

Well the answer is depends on what your goal is.

Think_History_5682 · 2022-08-15T21:01:02+00:00

You have to be at peace with rejection. Women have a ridiculous amount of anxiety about men. So a stranger coming up to them sets off me too alarm bells so I would say approaching them. For romantic reasons no. But talk them up about whatever your doing together is OK.... It's a skill and you need to be sneaky about it gain their trust by being friendly. Then before you part invite them to something or ask if you can send them. An invite..

logicallyillogical · 2022-08-15T21:29:51+00:00

“I want to have sex and/or maybe find a meaningful relationship. Is it worth talking to girls or do they just magically appear?”

Wtf kind of question is this. OP go take a timeout.

Particular-Bad-5470 · 2022-08-15T22:00:25+00:00

no it's not worth it. build yourself and get rich then then you'll get the girls

yeahthatslifedarling · 2022-08-15T22:03:19+00:00

It's better than nothing, proly not optimal

below298 · 2022-08-15T21:04:36+00:00

It's your life, but as a 30 year old man not having luck with women, I don't.

All I want is a wife one day, and I'm sure that's much more achievable with women outside the USA who are serious about settling down.

PervsEyeView69 · 2022-08-15T18:11:35+00:00

Only if her attention is obviously on you .. like you constantly catch her staring at you & its always followed by a smile .. her actions & the look she gives you will automatically say “come here & introduce yourself”

Fossi1 · 2022-08-15T22:29:42+00:00

Not with that attitude

lostmymuse · 2022-08-15T20:37:09+00:00

Yes. I love myself every time it goes well. You NEVER KNOW what could happen.

DeJuanBallard · 2022-08-15T20:56:19+00:00

SpoozeysmOkes · 2022-08-15T21:14:17+00:00

quiet_subliminal · 2022-08-15T21:22:37+00:00

Definitely, it builds you up, gives you more confidence in yourself, it makes you feel more comfortable around them. Plus even if you get rejected it teaches you more how to handle it and be more understanding.

No_Fan6078 · 2022-08-15T21:25:19+00:00

depending on your goals, but if you want to have more confidence or be more successful in dating or seduction, you know what someone said once " the practice make the master", so of course is worthy is you want to find someone who love you and care about you.

JohnnyMnec · 2022-08-15T21:30:37+00:00

Let's break your question down.

Is meeting a lot of girls worth it? Definitely. You have a much better probability to find the one(s) that you connect with if you meet a lot of girls. This always applies irrespective of the relationship you want (casual, serious, etc.).
How do you meet a lot of girls then? Well, you need to do some kind of approach. But the good news is this depends on you. If you don't want to randomly talk to girls that you see in the street, go talk to the ones that are in the place that you hang out. If you don't have and cannot find such a place, you can find some kind of activity. Just find a place where you can more comfortably talk to girls that come there.

Robingabe0917 · 2022-08-15T21:47:36+00:00

It’s worth it, but is definitely a challenge. Dating apps don’t work. I been trying to do this but all the girls I talk to are married or in a relationship.. so it’s not working for me yet

kensei_ocelot · 2022-08-15T21:58:26+00:00

KiiMaezyr · 2022-08-15T22:43:35+00:00

No, leave mo fa me

konsm1 · 2022-08-15T22:49:21+00:00

I have lost all hope too

daring_innovator · 2022-08-15T22:52:42+00:00

Yes, because you evolve into a more experienced and sociable person which I see that for guys who never approach girls do not currently possess and do not know they’re falling behind. The more experiences you have with women- the better. You can learn what works with them and what doesn’t.

Also, by approaching often you harden your personality from the rejections and you quickly mature your game so that it becomes spectacular with the next woman.

fortheweirdshit2 · 2022-08-15T22:55:19+00:00

Only if your goal is to meet women.

Title	Is approaching girls even worth it?
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Date	August 15, 2022 5:53 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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