What Movie do you guys recommend for a first date ?

MO_drps_knwldg · 2021-12-24T03:43:56+00:00

‘Don’t go to a movie on a first date’ is what you should see.

kanyesbathroommirror · 2021-12-24T04:39:24+00:00

Movies are mediocre first dates. They're expensive and they don't give you any opportunity to build rapport. Do something interactive instead.

I_TittyFuck_Doves · 2021-12-24T05:19:28+00:00

None, unless you’re watching it back at your/her place. If that then pick an ironically shitty movie or just a really funny one. You want something you can talk during where understanding the plot doesn’t require listening to every line.

I.e. the wedding singer

AbjectScar3729 · 2021-12-24T04:08:24+00:00

I think you should ask her what she likes. But i suggest not to go to movies for the first date. Go for a walk, coffee before at least.

Benbig_ppdover · 2021-12-24T06:15:35+00:00

Go ice skating, 8 ball, walks, share an ice cream, beach, laser tag, gym, hikes, anything that will increase adrenaline and takes effort. Will make her enjoy the activity and at the same time, you. Go get it bro

RecognitionAny6477 · 2021-12-24T05:46:09+00:00

Movies are the worst first date idea.

Acceptable-Ad-880 · 2021-12-24T03:44:05+00:00

definitely a comedy or rom com. gets the laughs going and makes an easy comfortable environment

Soberskate9696 · 2021-12-24T07:48:08+00:00

Borat

HORAMAN76 · 2021-12-24T05:56:39+00:00

Himalayan Salt: Return of Big Chungus

its_like_bong_bong · 2021-12-24T14:16:07+00:00

A Serbian Film. Don’t take her to watch this on a first date.

stevothecrab · 2021-12-24T03:55:03+00:00

Yeah comedy, Romcom, something like that. Alien would be fine. Or The Hills Have Eyes. That kinda thing… Nothing with Jason Statham in…

Fullsebas · 2021-12-24T04:35:11+00:00

Beetlejuice

kassra25 · 2021-12-24T05:12:26+00:00

No Time to Die

WheelIntelligent1354 · 2021-12-24T07:07:55+00:00

Go to your place and hold a rewatch of something both of you enjoy. Most chicks LOVE Harry Potter for some reason.

GyukatsuTeppanyaki · 2021-12-24T13:19:28+00:00

i agree with alot of people here about going to the movies being on a first date being a bad idea. But it’s honestly not the worst idea. I went to the movies with my crush back then, cold cinema plus it being summer meant we didn’t bring jackets. So we ended up snuggling in the cinema. 9 years later, we are still together.

ThatDandySpace · 2021-12-24T08:12:29+00:00

Well if you're insisting on a movies. I suggest PornHub. Both of you can share your experience, taste & build rapport 👀...

KlausFenrir · 2021-12-24T08:45:08+00:00

None. Movies on a first date sucks

2021-12-24T06:49:17+00:00

The Suicide Squad (2021). Watched it at home on a pirated website. She loved it

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-12-24T09:34:48+00:00

Lmao looking at the don’t go to movie on the first date comments.

Done it. It works. The only part I find bad is the whole making a move on her. Things get weird sometimes.

I do premium movies for women I really like.

Make an event out of it. If you meet there on time then bounce afterwards... yeah you’re doing it wrong.

Find out what movies she likes. You can interact plenty and the movie gives a nice break from analyzing, having to act etc. You can even talk about the movie after.

Also dates are expensive. You go to eat... expensive. You go to events... expensive. You go to a fair, carnival... expensive. Dating period is expensive.

Even free shit (some museums etc) costs and will also be filled with people. Cheaper shit you will be busy dealing with chaos and other shit rather than paying attention to her.

I’ve been on dates to museums that it was clear people went to make out, feel each other up, grind, trying to fuck etc. Yes at a museum. Cause a hotel is expensive. I’ve been in crowded museums. People shoving etc, being loud yada yada.

See how that goes over with the girl you’re with 😂.

ThePrince43 · 2021-12-24T10:17:21+00:00

Do not watch a movie, go try food at a new and interesting restaurant, an escape room, disc golf, mini putt, something where you can actually interact with her. If you can’t talk and have conversations with her then you’re not getting anywhere

yuseek17 · 2021-12-24T10:35:59+00:00

The Hating Game

IMakeMedicineSick · 2021-12-24T10:48:02+00:00

Not movies

raimp97 · 2021-12-24T12:04:11+00:00

The Room(https://youtu.be/wOKW0PeHVDE)

Lime505 · 2021-12-24T13:19:51+00:00

Don't watch a movie!! Sitting there in silence for 2 hours isn't exactly getting to know them. Go somewhere you can talk without feeling awkward and stifled. Though I say this as a guy who's never really dated, I've just sort if fell into relationships.

ChewieLvr · 2021-12-24T14:35:41+00:00

My boyfriend played for me Cannonball Run and we have been together since !! Is she can laugh at the stupid stuff they you have found a keeper

dodged_that_one · 2021-12-24T16:42:40+00:00

Lord of the Rings: Fellowship of the Ring extended edition. We too can shit-test.

2021-12-24T04:44:32+00:00

If you’re just trying to smash, have you come to your place and put on the worst movie imaginable.

If you want to build something for a first date. Do a coffee date or ice cream. Pay for her. Don’t be boring and hope a second date ensues.

maxkapital · 2021-12-24T04:24:39+00:00

Can’t go wrong with Love on netflix by gaspar noe. Eccentric romcom. She’ll love it.

Cultural_Berry_9503 · 2021-12-24T04:40:53+00:00

This is the end. Great comedy movie

beaworldchild · 2021-12-24T04:50:08+00:00

why don’t you just ask her what kinds of movies she likes and if there’s anything she’d want to see with you/anything on her watch list? not everyone likes romcoms. she might be a horror buff. have a conversation and then agree on it together.

JustJuggles · 2021-12-24T05:05:47+00:00

Thunder force, it’s on Netflix and absolutely hilarious

The_James_Bond · 2021-12-24T07:35:09+00:00

A movie is a terrible idea for a first date.

Amateur.

earthwalker7 · 2021-12-24T11:13:45+00:00

Debbie does Dallas

Dawido090 · 2021-12-24T13:16:29+00:00

No movie you virgin

hyxhufchy66666666 · 2021-12-24T16:39:10+00:00

If you’re friends the movies are fine. Any other female you wanna avoid the movies. 1. You can’t talk so you’re just “hanging out” which is friend shit. 2. It shows you’re boring and unoriginal and women hate men like this. 3. If you’re ugly and a girl is going on a pity date this screams predator behavior so unless you wanna be mentally labeled a rapist don’t do this. 4. Yeah there’s more but bottom line it’s not a good idea.

Kidpoker86 · 2021-12-24T05:41:10+00:00

Don Jon. I have seen it like 7 times now. It always work ;)

Sigma_Wolf77 · 2021-12-24T03:37:23+00:00

The lake house.

Bullock and Reeves

LoneWolfRyan · 2021-12-24T05:23:18+00:00

in59seconds on youtube has a video that answers your question. not an exact movie but hopefully it points you in the right direction

Delicatestatesmen · 2021-12-24T06:09:13+00:00

One time I went on a movie date with a really attractive women. She picked the movie and suggested a movie which is never a good idea fellas. Anyways the movie started out really good I thought it was a romantic a couple in movie holding hands and dating etc, so I was like wow shes like romantic stuff. All of a sudden a bunch of people start running down the street in movie and are being shot. It was a movie about the armanian genocide. Fast forward 2 hours later of terror and sadness the movie finally ended. I literally died, I remember just walking to my car and driving off, I mean the mood was totally ruined. Of course no second date from either of us.

Lukas2771 · 2021-12-24T06:09:15+00:00

I recommend scary movies for early dates (however not the first date). When she gets scared she’ll likely cuddle up next to you and it’s also an excuse for you to make more contact with her if you get scared (or you can just act scared). There will be a lot more contact than just a comedy or regular movie

Transurfer_ · 2021-12-24T06:37:24+00:00

American pie

GhoulChaser · 2021-12-24T07:32:55+00:00

Don’t spend money period. Go out on a walk and talk at a park or something. If she hasn’t invested in you you shouldn’t financially invest in her.

Portnolandia · 2021-12-24T07:45:48+00:00

Lotr

HOPE-FM · 2021-12-24T08:44:43+00:00

I do not recommend going to the movies on the first date.....Anyhoo pick a horror movie, the goal is to elicit strong emotions, and horror movies are the best....... and make sure to go to multiple places not movies then home...... plan ahead and lead her.
Wish you luck on your date ;)
Mohammad

stanthemilkman88 · 2021-12-24T09:05:38+00:00

I would recommend not watching a movie on the first date.

stanthemilkman88 · 2021-12-24T09:06:21+00:00

Found My no first date movie people

SmartPuppyy · 2021-12-24T09:11:44+00:00

Jurrasic Park.

Shadow__Account · 2021-12-24T09:11:55+00:00

Stay at home, pick something terrible, the worst thing that you can do is actually pick a good movie. When either you or her are actually enjoying the movie that will kill all fooling around. You should start escalating like 5 mins into the movie when you are both comfortable, Nothing worse with that process being shut down by an actual good movie, where she is non receptive because she is into the movie or when you get complacent with not escalating and have a comfort zone safe alternative of just watching the movie. Been there too many times, now I put on the worst nonsense so you can just talk through the movie and flirt/ escalate.

simplyargha · 2021-12-24T09:20:46+00:00

Wes Anderson's The Grand Budapest Hotel.

Ahmed104 · 2021-12-24T09:25:15+00:00

what about going to a library a quite one ?

dancarrino · 2021-12-24T11:14:47+00:00

Movies aren’t a great option for a 1st date.. why don’t you take her like bowling or even karting? Then you can talk about the activity..

kiaeej · 2021-12-24T13:02:00+00:00

Netflix and chill

swifferhash · 2021-12-24T13:07:48+00:00

For that reason of no direct eye contact, I also don’t recommend arcades either for first dates. You spend your time looking for a game to play and you’re not really getting to know them, just knowing they suck at skeeball.

Try mini golf and whoever does worse on a hole can ask any question they want so y’all can riff off each other

2021-12-24T13:14:08+00:00

Im sure you read the comments sayin “movie bad” but Itll be a great first impression if its something crafty ! Idk if u got soem cash but personally my favorites were buying some used golf balls, a goodwill club, and taking her to swing somewhere! Like a lake or park. Another is getting some spray paint n hutting the skate park !

The_CptXl · 2021-12-24T13:44:49+00:00

Dont go to a movie as your first date. Instant L

damnation333 · 2021-12-24T13:54:29+00:00

Go Bowling instead.

AstralValProjection · 2021-12-24T14:07:20+00:00

365 Days

Wazzzock · 2021-12-24T14:24:57+00:00

Fast & furious

RickyRiccardos · 2021-12-24T14:47:41+00:00

Schindler’s list, nymphomaniac, saw 3

ElectricStings · 2021-12-24T14:49:19+00:00

Movies are the most unsociable thing you can do. Sitting at a dark room, staring at a screen. You would he better if doing something exciting. Axe throwing, dance classes, rock climbing classes. Not only are these fun but it get both of your heart rates up, you will then condition this feeling of fun and excitement to be associated with you.

The rest is simple; relax, bring up funny stories, be playful by turning your successes and failures into something fun.

Dwaynedibley24601 · 2021-12-24T15:01:48+00:00

The dinner and a movie date is a classic but must be executed perfectly. If done right it has about an 80% chance of first date sex... Take her to a movie SHE wants to see (no matter how bad, deal with it we are going to see boobs later)... but go to the movie BEFORE dinner so in case of conversation lag you have to movie in common to discuss... talk about other movies you like in common... now you are the same.. you have spent 2 hours in close proximity so personal space boundaries are diminished (not gone), Use common movie interests to seque into other common interests... Oh, you like art? I have a Jackson Pollock print in my living room you just have to see... a couple of cocktails as a social lubricant and off to your place to see your painting, home theatre, puppy... whatever.. it's all a game where she needs a flimsy reason to go back home with you for any reason BUT sex so she does not feel like a tramp. as we all know once home... it's probably game on... anyway the movie is irrelevant because it is her choice.

Originalskatman · 2021-12-24T15:12:07+00:00

Back door sluts 9

Originalskatman · 2021-12-24T15:12:48+00:00

Lord of the rings extended addition.... all three of them!

Zubi_Q · 2021-12-24T15:13:57+00:00

Don't go for a movie on a first date. You'll both just sit in silence for like 2 hours. Instead go for crazy golf, bowling or hell, maybe drinks

eyesopen1111 · 2021-12-24T15:17:42+00:00

Movies are fine for a first date and you can catch dinner (or just a dessert or drink) after the movie. This is actually a classic first date, but it works well because the movie can get her in the mood and give the two of you a guaranteed shared experience, while the drink/dessert part builds comfort and intimacy, setting you up for sex later that night or after future dates.

The movie you watch is key--it has to be good. I hear the new Spiderman is good and probably romantic enough to help get things going in the romantic direction on your date. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

brilliant_beast · 2021-12-24T15:18:50+00:00

Saw. Gore is nature’s most powerful aphrodisiac.

13Xxx21 · 2021-12-24T15:19:59+00:00

Seeing it's already being said

DON'T GO TO TO THE CINEMA ON THE 1ST DATE!

Be creative if ya really want this girl ya gotta make a really good impression be the Alpha here dude.

TheGreatFadoodler · 2021-12-24T15:34:31+00:00

whatevers good. seriously for a first date theres a good chance the movie will be the best part about it

2021-12-24T15:42:41+00:00

The new Spider-Man 🥲

2021-12-24T15:47:02+00:00

Spider Man No Way Home :v !

prettyflamazing · 2021-12-24T16:06:18+00:00

American Psycho

2021-12-24T16:08:29+00:00

Tusk

GotThaAcid5tab · 2021-12-24T16:20:19+00:00

I’d watch a movie at home.. something bad you can laugh at and talk over

Cookies993 · 2021-12-24T16:32:25+00:00

If you absolutely need to watch a movie, do it towards the end of the date. You already have established intimacy and a connection with your date through other activities, and now you can chill with a movie, which most likely will end up in both of you not paying attention to it.

VergilArcanis · 2021-12-24T16:39:47+00:00

i'd say stay home and put on something that you like and are familiar with, so they can understand more about who you are.

betterme2610 · 2021-12-24T16:41:11+00:00

Debbie does Dallas

2021-12-24T16:44:51+00:00

Movie dates are for losers

Title	What Movie do you guys recommend for a first date ?
Author	Significant_Guest321
Upvotes	139
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Date	December 24, 2021 3:34 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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Borat

Jurrasic Park.