Absolutely FASCINATING experiment conducted by a PUA on a golddiggers' website (really nice trolling, too, haha)

mnOne · 2011-11-01T20:19:15+00:00

Yeah, women on a golddigger dating site dig money. Huge surprise. Now let's extrapolate from that sample to all women and what you get is the most half-assed psychology 'experiment' I have ever seen.

humanaquarium · 2011-11-01T21:12:15+00:00

I think the biggest mistake here is the suggestion that women on gold digger sites are responding to men who have money exactly as any woman in a bar might to a man she perceives has having higher value. In these instances, it's not about the value of the man as a sexual/social/dating/etc. partner, it's about the very concrete value of money. Women on these sites don't see their interactions with men as anything close to dating. They see them as business opportunities.

gui77 · 2011-11-01T21:54:07+00:00

I think the point he's trying to make is to show how AFC seem to women, by showing a situation where the reverse happens. Typically, your HB has something an AFC wants a lot (sex), but the AFC doesn't have much to make him better than any other man (AFC or not). Naturally, the HB has the power and picks whomever she wants the most (usually not an AFC).

Here, it is the man who has something the HBs really want (money), and it is the HBs who have little to stand out (they all are fairly good-looking). Thus, you see in these women the same patterns and sorts of behaviors you see in an AFC chasing a HB: DHVing (e.g., pics), needing to please her (e.g., the one who'd travel across the country with lingerie!), etc.

The lesson I take from here is that no matter how good your game is, it's easier if you have a good "product". In this case, his product was money, but for me and most of us it isn't money, it's being a good, interesting, person - somebody attractive to women. In the end, you sort of embrace game and it becomes a part of your person, enhancing your "Product".

AltHypo · 2011-11-01T21:16:24+00:00

I did a similar experiment where I found that 100% of women posting in the escort section of backpages expressed interest in exchanging money for sex. Therefore, all women want to exchange money for sex!

testmypatience · 2011-11-01T20:10:36+00:00

Some men want looks, some women want money. Both are equally superficial, both get what they want.

Riverboat_Gambler · 2011-11-01T20:22:58+00:00

It's like really expensive porn for the man and really well-paying porn for the woman. Except it's real. There's zero emotion or affection involved, and if they both are happy with it knowing that deep inside, good for them. I personally wouldn't be able to handle it, but whatever.

Dr_Colossus · 2011-11-01T18:54:56+00:00

I didn't learn anything I didn't already know. Women love money.

mdbx · 2011-11-01T20:39:03+00:00

Very entertaining read.

DeliciousKiwi · 2011-11-01T22:52:48+00:00

Other comments mention this, but it is worth stating that the author generalizes too much. The misogynistic approach can be sad to see at times, but the article and results itself is rather interesting. Just realize that this deals with a specific type of women, the ones willing to be on a golddigger site, so it makes sense that the majority will have such qualities.

essendoubleop · 2011-11-02T03:02:40+00:00

What's the female equivalent of a sugar daddy, and is there a similar website with the roles reversed?

Fu_Man_Chu · 2011-11-02T05:17:47+00:00

The real question is, did he get any of them to sleep with him under the guise of perhaps giving them what he advertised on the site?

I don't need to do it (I'm very fortunate when it comes to the women I get to date) but if I were desperate... I see a very clear avenue for getting these girls to sleep with me under the pretense that I was rich but wanted to see if we had a real connection before moving forward (Ie- sampling the goods as it were). It's dirty but honestly they seem to deserve it.

ptemple · 2011-11-01T20:05:06+00:00

This made me really depressed

phallic_audio · 2011-11-01T20:17:08+00:00

I'm still reading through the article but here's what I've gotten so far, women acts like the textbook beta (I don't like this word but it really captures the essence of what it is referring to) if they perceive strong value in a man... I just wanna post this now if anybody wants to react or start a dialogue/conversation about this post...

thanks OP this is really interesting.

2011-11-01T22:55:45+00:00

Does anyone else find it really fucked up he posted their pictures? And don't give me that "well if they didn't want them posted, they shouldn't be on the website in the first place" bullshit. They didn't consent to have their photos in some bitter keyboard jockey's troll report.

Bobsutan · 2011-11-02T04:49:43+00:00

Sugar daddy dating sites are just legal prostitution. Someone took inspiration from the casual encounters section of craigslist, combined it with plenty of fish, and figured out how to make money off it. End of story.

I wouldn't be surprised the FBI is looking at cracking down on it soon.

MisterMisfit · 2011-11-01T21:31:33+00:00

I don't agree with his ratings. If we only rate on looks, I would say the girl in the second picture is close to perfect, not just merely an 8.

2011-11-02T08:47:49+00:00

Nothing new here except my discovery of being kind of grossed out. I know women like providers & everything but is that all a man means? Status & money? It's enough to make an honest man turn to a monastery. I'm grossed out on each end of the spectrum here.

wepadadaban · 2011-11-01T20:46:55+00:00

this should be marked NSFW. Halfway down there are pictures.

WhiskeySeven · 2011-11-01T21:50:54+00:00

Granted I'm young but I've met girls who are genuinely self-motivated and want to make it on their own. Maybe these Sugardaddy/baby things are going to get a bit outdated as more and more pretty, smart girls try to get degrees and join the workforce?

sketchy_dating_advic · 2011-11-01T23:48:38+00:00

Someone should make a Scumbag Seducer image out of this. "Man writes fake Internet profile Assumes complete honesty in all replies"

Who knows which of those photos are genuine, and which were simply borrowed from other Internet sites? Without establishing that, the entire experiment has no value.

Title	Absolutely FASCINATING experiment conducted by a PUA on a golddiggers' website (really nice trolling, too, haha)
Author	ohstrangeone
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Date	November 1, 2011 6:05 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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