[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)

ActAct · 2013-02-05T17:18:22+00:00

How do you kiss

PUAreadingmaterial · 2013-02-05T19:07:13+00:00

I've noticed an underlying theme that isn't really discussed too often when gaming: Calling bluffs. I know this meshes with shit tests and some qualifiers, but what about the very subtle grey areas? "It's getting late, I should go back.", "I'm busy this week", And in The Game, Style calls a bluff on 2 HB10's who tells him they're sisters. My question is, when do you call bluffs? When a target's statement is mitigated?

DJ_GiantMidget · 2013-02-06T04:10:00+00:00

How do you seduce your professor?

dontpokethebear3893 · 2013-02-05T17:54:25+00:00

Last week I was hanging out with a girl I'm very interested in at my house. At first it was me, her, and my sister and she acted very polite/normal and such. However, as soon as my sister left it was almost as if she was a different person and began to act very flirty with me. We ended up relaxing and talking on my bed but when I tried to get some kino (just our arms touching, nothing big) she pulled away. Later that day we were together and someone made a comment about us being a couple and we both laughed it off and haven't talked about it. How can I bring her casual interest in me to 100%, nothing held back interest in me? I will be seeing her next on her birthday in a few weeks.

DevonAero · 2013-02-05T18:41:59+00:00

How would you approach HB9-10's, that know that they're the shit?

FAFASGR · 2013-02-05T18:06:41+00:00

What do you do if a person you have JUST started dating has a birthday in a few days? (ie, suppose you have been flirting for a while, went on a successful date, made out etc..., no f-close yet) Do you buy a gift or no? If yes, what value?

Also, suppose this is someone you want to date for at least a few months.

yorex · 2013-02-05T17:41:55+00:00

I was on a "moving in" party with about 7 guys. 2 girls joined later in the evening, and I chatted up one of them (HB8), who people told me had a bf. No problem, I was just there to talk and have fun anyways.

Skip ahead: The conversation is going great, we are sitting in the sofa and she has turned her whole body towards me and SHE does light kino, I ignore escalating as she's in a relationship (or at least that was what they told me). Then they had to leave and I #-close.

Now here's what I have a question on: She stated at least twice when we were talking that I was "too cool" (and not in a playful way), how do I respond to that?

I just ignored it and kept the conversation going but I felt I could have handled that better

throawayayayaya · 2013-02-05T19:13:45+00:00

Just as an FYI to begin with im relatively young (18) Met this HB9 a few weekends ago at a party, got her facebook and wrote with her for a short while, and have now not talked to her for a week or two. She studies as the same school that i do. Any good way to get contact to this girl? When we met at the party we barely talked, only danced briefly, and have had good eyecontact across hallways and so on.

puaCurveBall · 2013-02-05T19:13:57+00:00

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dvallej · 2013-02-05T19:49:16+00:00

how do you hit on shy or geeky girls? (going for something serius, not a one night stand or anything)
and where is a good place to meet geeky girls?

i_stole_ur_door · 2013-02-05T22:17:16+00:00

I'm 16, what are some things I can do that don't involve a car or something cheesy like the movies?

Avacell · 2013-02-06T03:42:58+00:00

Ok. So last week there's this girl in my English class who seemed interested in me. And today seemed ok with her (we weren't really talking). Then her friend started teasing her saying "she's trying to hook up with you!" and things of that nature. She replies with "stop embarrassing me!" And she quickly tries changing the subject. Then another one of her friends points at me and makes a little heart between us. And the girl just rudely says "Him? Eww! Hell No!" Can anyone tell me why the Hell was she so rude with her answer? Also she ignored me for the rest of class and the rest of the day. I'm not very upset with her answer. it just was her attitude towards the situation, and afterwards that really pissed me off...

EDIT: A bunch of grammar and spelling.

mtg4l · 2013-02-06T03:49:42+00:00

Anyone else vastly prefer day game to night game? It's just so much easier to approach nonchalantly in a coffee shop or grocery store. At a bar, every girl seems to have her shields up and I feel a stigma against "trying to get laid." Plus, the people I've met recently during the day have been much more interesting than the people I've been meeting at night.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2013-02-05T17:49:50+00:00

How important is owning a car in the dating game? I am a college student and I don't own any type of vehicle.

TsumeAlphaWolf · 2013-02-05T19:55:11+00:00

Meet this girl a few weeks ago, we've gone out to party's & clubs a couple of times. She messages me on & off, even to the point where she said she misses me. Unfortunately the most I've ever gotten with this girl is a quick kiss on the lips. We were supposed to meet up this weekend (the first time without friends around) but after going to a rock concert my body was not up to it so I cancelled.

Anyway, a mutual friend of ours told me that her facebook status had recently changed to being in a relationship with some guy this past weekend. Now I don't have facebook so I can't really call her out on this.

Morally I've always stayed away from girls with boyfriends but I'm at a stage where I'm just trying to have fun and this girl seems like a lot of fun (sexually). If I do happen to meet up with this girl again and I try to escalate further, she will I either go with it or resist and mention the boyfriend. If she does mention the boyfriend how do I respond stating that I'm okay with that and we can have a fling on the side which will mostly be physical?

SmiteThyFace · 2013-02-05T20:05:38+00:00

This girl I've been working on just came out and said that she's a lesbian. What do I do now? Is it possible to turn her straight? Or should I just let it go? Are there any advantages to this?

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-02-05T20:43:51+00:00

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ImJustAMan · 2013-02-05T20:49:19+00:00

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BrokenEscalator · 2013-02-05T21:36:27+00:00

I'm borderline asexual with women. Any tips for getting beyond that?

ErroneousEric · 2013-02-05T21:48:38+00:00

A girl I work with who is a singer invited me to her show. Looked it up and it costs $20 to get in. Is she asking me to go or just trying to get paid?

DannyKidd · 2013-02-06T01:06:21+00:00

Asked before but no one answered, My question > What do you do you do if a girl knows or has been told by some friends you might like her?

the_number_2 · 2013-02-06T07:09:50+00:00

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FreakyFeynman · 2013-02-06T17:44:01+00:00

When making eye contact in conversation at what points should you break contact and remain in contact. I know that when she is talking I should hold my eye contact with her own. But when I talk can I break eye contact for brief moments?

puaCurveBall · 2013-02-05T19:06:37+00:00

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tokenbearcub · 2013-02-05T21:19:41+00:00

It's probly been asked many times before. Feel free to ignore. But I'll throw it out there again. Recommendations for beginner books?

GameDayThrowaway · 2013-02-06T00:06:29+00:00

I currently live in my uncle's basement. It's a nice set-up, certainly, but it's his basement. More significantly, I have a shitty job.

What solutions do I have for not letting this influence my game?

night · 2013-02-06T00:24:56+00:00

When is the best time to ask a girl for her number at a party? Right after opening, in the middle of the conversation, or right before you leave or approach another set?

Captain_French · 2013-02-06T02:00:55+00:00

I read everywhere that eye contact is really important and if a girl finds you interesting, she'll hold eye contact with you when you see her in a bar.

Why do I always catch the girls who look at me but turn down their heads as soon as I catch their eyes? It happens 95% of the time and everywhere, at work, street, venues..

At first I'd say that I'm just not attractive but I know that this is not true. Well I mean, Almost everyday people tell me I'm good looking and I've been with a lot of girls.

So why? Is it possible that I look intimidating? Are they just shy?

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-02-06T02:40:45+00:00

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Idontlikekarmawhores · 2013-02-06T10:38:35+00:00

After the first date and kiss, how do you fill up the gap until the next one without destroying the attraction already stablished? Asking this because we are texting eachother everyday after the first date but i find myself not knowing what to say to her or how to build the attraction i was able to build prior to our first date ( while texting her) I really need help guys

throwaway12rt3897 · 2013-02-06T16:52:16+00:00

I've known this girl since grade 9, and now we're both attending the same university. We started hanging out a lot more in uni, than in high school, and I think the attraction is there. The thing is, when I try to touch her in any way (arm around her shoulders, hands touching ...etc) she shies away pretty quickly. I've been meaning to ask her out for a while now, but I've been hesitant because of this. Should I wait longer, or just do it and move on if she rejects me?

Follow up question - This is my first time asking a girl out, and I was just wondering what I should do/say. Just flat out saying, "I like you, will you be my girlfriend?" seems kind of lame, but I can't think of anything else!

2013-02-06T18:18:17+00:00

If you introduced to someone through a 3rd party (social circle), would you still use some sort of an opener or go straight to building attraction? or perhaps something else?

thekinglyone · 2013-02-07T05:54:20+00:00

A girl I'm interested in texted me back that she'd be happy to go out with me, but just wants to hang out as friends. This will be our first time hanging out since we met, and I'm not really interested in just being friends. What kind of things can you respond to a text like this?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/5/13 (please upvote - zero karma)
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Date	February 5, 2013 4:29 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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