An article on the perspective of the hot girl. Just curious what you guys think.

greenday5494 · 2014-07-28T19:30:50+00:00

I'm going to Thailand

torquesteer · 2014-07-28T21:56:27+00:00

I'm just laughing my ass off sitting here imagining that Thai girls probably have a forum where they discuss pick-up techniques and how many WG6 (White Guy 6-foot) they've bagged.

El_Shakiel · 2014-07-28T20:45:31+00:00

“You always want what you can’t have?” Well, it’s so ridiculously true in this situation. I think in the west, our obsession with sex stems from the fact that it’s withheld from us so fervently.

This, just right here, is plain raw gold.

R6RiderSB · 2014-07-28T20:51:38+00:00

Thailand = starting zone in Seduction MMORPG

Midnight_in_Seattle · 2014-07-28T18:25:15+00:00

This is the most interesting part:

To put it plainly, her success is determined more by my mood than by her or her approach. If I’m in a rush, or going to the gym to train, or thinking about a bunch of business stuff, and some girl starts talking to me, my immediate knee-jerk reaction is to find a polite way to get her to stop talking to me. It’s not that I don’t like her. It’s not that she’s a bad girl. It’s often not even that she’s not attractive. It’s just that I’m not in the mood. Leave me alone.

This mindset is a luxury (obviously) because I know there will be more coming around any minute.

It is compatible with "sexually available vs unavailable girls."

Bad_Boyl2 · 2014-07-28T14:52:17+00:00

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What is this?

TroubleWithTheCurve · 2014-07-28T17:30:38+00:00

Manson is a fucking genius.

gessho · 2014-07-29T02:14:09+00:00

Thailand and the Philippines are pretty much as described in the article. If you want the same Orient feel but want to keep at least a minimum effort of having to pick-up the girl, you should go to Korea, Japan or Hong Kong. I've had experience in all three of these places, and I'll tell you that you cannot just sit there and expect them to flock to you--you will have to work to make it happen. The good thing about the Orient, though, is that you, as a Westerner, are more on an equal footing with the girl. You are a much rarer commodity here in the East, and they respect that immensely. Thailand and Philippines are like shooting fish in a barrel, Korea and Japan are more like the dart toss game where everyone gets a prize, but you have to work pretty hard for the big stuffed bear.

PM_ME_YourPlate · 2014-07-28T17:22:09+00:00

Great post,

It is crucial to understand female mindset in oder to connect with them. Maybe everyone starting seduction journey should go to Thailand for a week and see the big picture. This will also help them to become less needy and more confident.

Take-aways: * stand out from every one else; she got poorly hit on by every other guy since she grew tits, so your approach body language and confidence will play a huge role. * push-pull is your best friend. Challenge her, do not agree with everything she says. Push and pull her so you can be this interesting, non-needy guy she just met the other day. * add value to her life, do cool shit and teach her cool shit you know so she can enjoy the time while she is with you. * sometimes it is out of your control to attract her, she is not in that mood or mindset, so dont take rejection personally. * basics; do not interview her.

Counter point: *most people believe that in western countries hot girls actually get hit on less than their average looking friends, because most of the guys want to play safe. In some cases this is true, for example especially in their social circle hot girls tend to be more friendly so they got hit on by their "nice" and "passive-aggressive" friends more often. But in my opinion , I have been going out for years, most guys think that a group of really hot chicks is more intimidating than group of average chicks. SO hot chicks might get hit on less in a bar or a club when they are with their friends (most prob they are). In addition especially in US hot chicks got hit on less during the day, grocery shopping-gym-walking donw on the street-coffee shop.

donsky13 · 2014-07-28T15:56:58+00:00

Thanks for this. It's a really good read.

Gamma_Male_ · 2014-07-29T02:34:10+00:00

I've been to SEA and had the exact same experience. My thoughts was always like: "This must be the way hot girls experience the world back home!". On-line dating is just as crazy! Your inbox gets exploded with messages from girls, not all of them hot but you can get as picky as you want!

shitmate · 2014-07-29T02:32:42+00:00

I don't know if I agree with the persistence part. Seems a bit clingy to me

Kaostherie · 2014-07-29T04:44:43+00:00

Having been to Thailand I think the article was spot on. It is more difficult to get a hamburger there than to get laid, its a wonderful country!

skoobled · 2014-07-29T14:12:12+00:00

I've been to Thailand a couple of times, and at those times struggled to see many Thai girls I found attractive. I like other Asian looks, but somehow the Thais didn't do it for me... Perhaps I wasn't in the right places, but from those experiences I felt they were overrated

Just my opinion

bk15dcx · 2014-07-28T22:03:15+00:00

Wealthy men get this kind of treatment in the west. The only difference here is the exchange rate on cash makes him wealthy in a poor geographic area.

I don't care what you look like in the west. If you got bucks, you got fucks.

hcarguy · 2014-07-29T09:45:11+00:00

My mates went to Thailand earlier this year, he was getting hit on by some prostitutes and they tried to steal his gold chain. It fell to the ground and they freaked out and ran as he picked it up. Which leads me to say, if I were to go to Thailand I'd be very very wary of girls trying to rob me if you take them back to the hotel. And STD's. So many STD's. How do you know that they're clean? Many of them don't speak english. Even if you were to use a condom, man fuck that (no pun).

incraved · 2014-07-29T11:15:32+00:00

That was a really interesting read.

Not2original · 2014-07-29T13:03:13+00:00

Saved! That is really insightful.

FeelTheWrath79 · 2014-07-29T13:39:06+00:00

That Phuket Island seems like its right out of a limerick. What is the thai version of a limerick?

2014-07-28T21:03:56+00:00

I think I want to go to Thai

danhakimi · 2014-07-28T19:58:43+00:00

What? Plenty of women find me perfectly interesting. They want to be my friend, and that's it.

Also -- this guy found only one person with an even vaguely interesting personality in his entire time there? What?

2014-07-29T02:50:19+00:00

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TheSerpent · 2014-07-28T19:52:34+00:00

but i dont

2014-07-29T08:46:12+00:00

All this seems sensible and i understand that the girls probably did become desperate and boring at times....However, they approached him because they could get something of value to them from him, and in turn, he could get sex from them if that was something he valued.

And so in the article he said something along the lines of, the seducer has to be the one who is working hard or interesting.

Maybe im just lost but i dont see what these girls back home have of value that i should put in such hard work, if i dont value having sex with them in the same way the guy in this article didnt, then why should i as the seducer try so hard. I dont know if im making sense with that and if anyone understands where i am coming from?

Title	An article on the perspective of the hot girl. Just curious what you guys think.
Author	forgiveangel
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Date	July 28, 2014 2:28 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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