Is when you get to a point you are healed . Gentlemen you can get through this . I use to come here to get support and hear similar stories. I’m in a position where I’m free and happy. I’m still here to support others but I’m not here as much, I’m more on giving support that you will be ok . It’s good news for me meaning I find peace and happiness post divorce. Im staying busy living my life on my own terms. It’s still a sad situation I went through but I look at it as a lesson. The lesson is love is real just not permanent or forever. I have not given up on relationships but it’s not a priority. It’s really far on the list. I’m not looking. Gentlemen once you healed you have less interest in this group in a good way. Men you will move past this.