There's a reason why the #1 advice in this sub is to move on. When a woman isn't interested in you there's not much you can do about it. If you are able to change her mind it may not because she sees that you great guy, but she ran out of current options. Women are extremely complex and can be difficult to read, so you have to look at the suttle and sometimes no so subtle hints on when it's time to move on.

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1. Short replies or no reply. When women reply with a short answer they don't want you to be able to reply. They want you to get bored and stop messaging them. Many guys are persistent and continue to search for topics until they land on a decent conversation, but of she not trying to add the conversation then it's time to stop and realize she's not interested.
2. "I'll let you know" this is one I'm most familiar with. When I first started dating and was inexperienced with women. "I'll let you know" gave me a lot of false hope. Until I realized this pattern I would keep texting women and notice them pulling away. I thought they still wanted to date but in reality, they were losing or had already lost interest. I'm busy and I can't are excuses/soft rejections. No matter how busy someone is they will make time and/or reschedule.
3. "No thanks" this is another polite rejection. If she doesn't want to accept something from you because she doesn't want to feel like she owes you anything. If she says no thanks when you ask to hang out or on a date then she's not interested. If she doesn't want to accept favors from you then that's not a good sign.
4. Mixed signals if she's hot and cold or indecisive. one day she might want to talk all day and the next she might ignore you. If she doesn't show consistent interest or keep you guessing if she is she's probably on that interested in you. When women like you they make it easy for you. You don't want to be wasting time and energy on someone who can't decide if they want to be with you or not.
5. "I think we need to get to know each other better" if you ask a woman on a date she says this then she's not interested. the point of a date is to get to know each other better. She's not comfortable enough to be around you. You can try to build more comfort and ask again, but more than likely she's not interested.

Being persistent isn't always a good thing when it comes to women. Sometimes as men if feels like we are dog chasing our tails unable to catch it. Women that are interested don't push you away. Women that are genuinely interested help conversations keep flowing, they get excited when you ask them on a date, and they don't make things harder.

As men, we shouldn't get mad or bitter about rejections and not being able to get the women we want. We must respect the right to say no and understand we won't able to everyone's type. Compatible and attractions aren't on-off switches. You can't just say one thing or do one thing that will automatically make her attracted. Women have more options than ever nowadays and you must understand that you also do. Until you realize it's a numbers game that takes experimentation, along with some trial and error, you won't make it very far with women.