Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?

Elbynerual · 2024-11-15T18:59:24+00:00

This is not a sexual advice subreddit. If you're having sex, you're beyond the topic of this subreddit.

PleaseDontBeTakenPlz · 2024-11-15T16:29:51+00:00

The build up. The hottest guy I’ve ever wanted that i still think about just did crazy mental foreplay. I literally was begging this guy to have sex with me. I would’ve done anything for it. Make her feel hot, confident, special, be fun - most guys are NOT fun!!! Be comfortable with yourself and make her extremely comfortable so she can be a slut for you. A lot of men are very boring and just going through the motions and doing what they have to do to get sex/a relationship. Sex is just boring and about sticking their dick in something and cumming. May as well masturbate.

Everything should be so hot and sexy. He was romantic. Like it felt primal and innocent at first. Light innocent touches on my body, opening the doors for me, being a complete gentleman in public, gentle conversations, tactical vulnerability. But he still had this lustful energy and look in his eyes but it was contained and it felt like it was all for me. I felt special. Not like he’d fuck a donut hole. He made no comments about my physical body or natural beauty; unlike 99.9% of men. He was so different from any man I’d ever met. After our date; I felt like I was begging for a kiss with my eyes. All my IOIs just came out naturally. I was touching him uncontrollably.

Then when we got to his place, we were on each other like animals. There was so much passion. We ripped each others clothes off, like the movies! I had never done anything or felt anything like that before. Only here was when he started aggressively complimenting how hot my body was. Then I could see how much he was containing his lust and waiting to let it out on me in private. We didn’t have sex because circumstances but I still think about it all the time. We didn’t even date and I’ve found myself moaning his name with other guys while making out. It’s why I can’t seriously date anyone.

Zackamite496 · 2024-11-15T15:31:02+00:00

I hope it’s not all about giant dicks with a lot of girth or I’m screwed

berzerker5000 · 2024-11-15T15:09:08+00:00

My gf just told me I am the best dick ever. I have never gotten bad reviews. What I think: it’s the oscillation between slow and sentimental and then hard and dirty. You gotta make them feel safe and then you can make bring out the slut which all women are inside. If you can last longer than 5min you are in top 50%tile. If you can go longer than 15 and make them cum more than once, you are in top 10%. If you can make them cum multiple times, are creative with positions and can find their favorite one, and fuck them until their pussy breaks, you are all time.

I have never been with a girl that does not like to be spanked, hair pulled, and at least lightly choked. Fuck em on the counter, against the wall, pile driver, etc. the ones that want you to talk dirty will let you know. Some don’t.

But like I said, you gotta be able to slow it down at times, like a song. Each verse is different, there is chorus, and a peak, an interlude, etc. think of sex like a good song and you will win. If you have trouble lasting, as you fuck them, think about a mundane object like the corner of the wall or the a lamp, or something. That is what I do. Oscillating between hard then slow we’ll help you last as well, as you reach a point where you train your dick to cum on demand.

On dick size, girth > length. I am avg on length but above average girth. A grower not a a show-er. Because of this some girls will say I have a big dick, which I don’t think that at all, but it’s cuz they like the girth.

You want them to say things like “you destroyed this pussy” “I love your dick” etc. that is when you know you have arrived and when you go in their book.

Alextryingforgrate · 2024-11-15T14:48:11+00:00

I'm not saying there isn't chick's in this sub. Ask reddit would be a better place. Or just fake being a chick inn your profile and gonto the ask women sub

Mursethings · 2024-11-15T14:53:51+00:00

I’m not a girl, but I’ve been with a few woman and the truth is every girl is kinda different. The most consistent traits that seem to work for most women for me is making them feel safe (less insecurities going into it = more pleasure), having an emotional connection, being masculine, and being experienced in bed (stamina, technique, intensity) all seem to do the trick.

MomsSpecialFriend · 2024-11-15T15:01:59+00:00

Everyone wants different stuff but for me personally I want someone who makes out for a while, kisses on my neck and takes their time on my body. I want oral sex, to give and receive. I want someone who is gentle and slow on me but can set a steady thumping pace with their tongue. Knowing how to really finger a girl with that hook motion and also being super clear that you are open to me squirting would be a huge bonus. I literally cannot if I don’t feel 10000% sure they are super into it. Don’t even do that to me if you aren’t ready for the results lmao.

I want someone to like, push the limits of what I can give orally without being overly rough. I’m not trying to throw up. If I can give a super long super sloppy blow job before we have sex it’s the best, I’ll be wound up.

Uncut penis, fat penis is the pinnacle. Long, thin penises don’t do anything for me. Same for small, sorry. Normal is fine but it’s not “literally the best”.

Actual PIV sex should be in every position, throw me around, bend me into a pretzel, step on my face, then cum inside of me. I likes what I likes. I want us both to say dirty things.

I mostly need a complete lack of boundaries with someone, no weird hang ups, confidence from both partners to ask for something more. Sex is bad for me if I’m not able to communicate when it’s not working, or when they aren’t willing to change to something different.

Romanticlibra · 2024-11-15T15:28:38+00:00

It's when I notice him actively paying attention to my reactions while he does stuff and asking me about things beforehand and best of all if he gets aroused by me being aroused. 90% of men just want to get themselves sorted and it's such a turn off

thisismyusername177 · 2024-11-15T15:53:17+00:00

Read common romance books and it will explain in detail what girls like haha even some of the stories on Reddit that are written by women do a good job too. Violet, I believe her user is something like all the boys I’ve fucked before, does a good job of going into details. It is different from woman to woman, if they like it rough what makes its best is going to be different than someone who prefers more romantic sex. But I’d venture to say communication, consent and asking for it along the way, watching body language, and being able to talk her through an orgasm are consistent for a lot of women.

For me, it’s the best when I feel 100% safe with a guy. If you don’t know how to choke someone and haven’t been trained (esp for other things too like ropes and other rougher sex acts), I won’t feel comfortable with you doing that so don’t try especially if we havent discussed it before hand.

Kakashi_1000_jutsu · 2024-11-15T14:49:09+00:00

Not a girl but as far as I've experienced foreplay is very important and oral must be on point. You should know what you're doing and most importantly you should understand how she's reacting.

stenberget · 2024-11-15T15:32:31+00:00

Every comment “I’m not a girl” bro you’re digging after gold in your own backyard

JinnJuice80 · 2024-11-15T15:03:52+00:00

To me a sign of a major Connection. Making me laugh. Talking through it and feel comfortable and safe.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-11-15T18:04:45+00:00

I am 80% foreplay, 20% sex. Foreplay for me includes kissing, massaging, licking, the fingers and all and I don't rush it because I enjoy all of that.

My last girl told me I was her best sex and cried several times after orgasm. I think because I communicated often, asked her what she's enjoying.

Like OP said, you have to bring the slut out of her, if you are, you're going in the right direction. In my case she wanted to be slapped, choked, hair pulling, gagging. You also have to be comfortable with doing it if she's asking.

I want to warn you, you'll see conflicting advice on here because all women are different. The right man tries to figure it out and in my opinion the effort alone is enough sometimes.

Acceptable_Act1435 · 2024-11-15T15:36:38+00:00

Not a girl, but this has been asked before and I can confirm that being good at eating her out and doing that will make them very happy. So much, that they often return the favor. Not that you always have to it, but if you want to be good, this is a good card to play. The more you turn them up before, the better. Men can be a bit quick with forplay

Both-Gazelle-391 · 2024-11-15T16:21:25+00:00

Foreplay !!!

Glittering-Fly-474 · 2024-11-15T16:58:14+00:00

Most memorable first time was a guy that had ME begging to fuck HIM. He was taking foreplay soooooo slow I was melting in his arms. He was escalating but once I was in his lap it was all me. Escalating is highlighted on here but I think being very slow whilst making out is key. It’s an oven. Warm it up. Pizza straight into a cold oven never comes out as nice as pizza in a preheated oven does it?

But overall tbh the best sex of my life has been with ex-boyfriends (including guy above). I don’t think that’s coincidental. We had a good connection and they were sooo sweet but sweet guys are my type. The first or second time you sleep with someone can never compared to the 50th time you do it when you’re in tune with each other

Dick size not that important. Obviously if it’s very small yeah that would be tough but average is just fine. Guy mentioned above was a bit smaller than average and I still had some of the best rides of my life

VrilHunter · 2024-11-15T17:24:09+00:00

I'm a guy but from all the experience i had i could observe when the girls loved it. Every girl likes different stuff but most have a few things in common.

And that is quality foreplay. Infact, foreplay is the best part. It's like preheating the oven. The longer it is and filled with desire not obligation makes it quality.

Take your time exploring her body. Women's arousal is not like men. We men start at our dick and finish at our dick (different from gays i guess). But a woman is out different. Their sexuality starts from the mind. It's a mental game first, physical game later.

Teasing. Teasing is your holy grail to arouse a woman. Explore every part of her body before you jump onto what you like (boobies, ass and pussy). The lips, earlobes, neck, shoulder blades, arms (bicep area), inner thighs, hips, belly. Take your tongue and lips on a journey to all the parts near the boobs and pussy. But dont go there. Go near, pause, then back away. That's the tease. Her mind is going bonkers with when you'll jump at the real part. She wants you to but you are unpredictable. Keep her guessing. And then you finally do it.

You should read some erotica written by women, dont read men's. It's completely different from porn. You'll find the pattern there. You'll learn what women want. And how they want it.

Foreplay is the best part. If you can do that well, you'll be stuck in her mind. Why? Because most men dont.

Scarlett-Rose44 · 2024-11-15T18:28:45+00:00

Size doesn't matter and enthusiasm is everything in bed. Every man has their own sexual style and vibe. That's what makes it fun.

Electrical-Gear-9152 · 2024-11-15T15:14:21+00:00

I swear this gets asked every 2-3 days

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-11-15T15:14:48+00:00

If she likes foreplay wit till you show her fiveplay hahaha

riccardo2002ric · 2024-11-15T15:24:52+00:00

You have to fuck them like you hate them. My gf says to take it slow and be gentle but when i fuck her and i am horny and deprived she screams like a slut. They like it masculine, period. You don't want a woman who is aggressive, in any case do you? So why would they want a delicate guy?

Marighnamani27 · 2024-11-15T14:46:55+00:00

I wanna too, I'm also a guy. Will save this post to return to later on.

ogucha · 2024-11-15T16:35:50+00:00

While am trolling the chats I forget what's the topic, guys am getting old. It's been pleasure to be here.

Onzalimey · 2024-11-15T17:00:19+00:00

Dick size isn’t all of it but for sure would help. Making her comfortable helps a lot. Being confident. Making her cum multiple times will help a lot. Lots of diff things u can do.

Good book called sex god method to read

Superfumi3 · 2024-11-15T17:08:54+00:00

Correct spelling 🤣

evosaintx · 2024-11-15T17:21:54+00:00

As a guy for the guys, learn to pull out after knowing your own point of no return. You want to know how to pull out, keep pleasing/teasing her, cool down from cumming too soon, then resume again. Learn variety in speed and flow. Go with some chill vibey music in the background and literally flow with the song, it helped me learn to remember variety.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-11-15T17:47:14+00:00

Being a musician helps. If you understand rhythm and have good rhythm you can bring that to the table. I remember the first time I had sex I visualised playing the girl like a guitar and it had a very strange effect on her. I was expecting to be a disaster but it was the opposite I'm fact.

There's a reason why girls like musicians.

Ok_Warthog6163 · 2024-11-15T18:15:55+00:00

What OP intended to hear : 'Hey it's about the energy, playfulness & perfect timing, all in all the vibe matters.

What OP is actually hearing: 'Hm... my girl says I got a pretty decent d&ck. Can't complain.: hahaa.. (:

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SoulKing8rook · 2024-11-15T16:03:39+00:00

My wife tell me before sex she need soft romantic music, decorated room, and role play a lot but she doesn’t get know when im going to move where on her body. I Male parter needs to moan, should you degraded words a lot. Finish sex with missionary position

CursiveWasAWaste · 2024-11-15T16:09:29+00:00

Confidence, girth, and sensual teasing/foreplay.

RatTangle_ · 2024-11-15T15:36:18+00:00

Not a woman but may catch flack but cream pies 🥧 🤌🏻🤌🏻🤌🏻

Title	Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?
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Date	November 15, 2024 2:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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