Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss you

reddstudent · 2025-04-12T12:56:28+00:00

Most women who are attracted to men on a date are waiting and hoping for a move. Make a move. If you fail, learn.

AfricanPlayboy · 2025-04-12T13:44:30+00:00

In my experience, the best way to set up a kiss is during heavy eye contact. Look at her eyes, glance at her lips, look back into her eyes. If you catch her looking at your lips after you look back up then she wants to kiss you too. The subtle look at her lips also lets her know what you’re about to do so she can either reciprocate or if she wants to decline, she will make it obvious.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-04-12T14:27:50+00:00

Women are even more prone to giving mixed signals or no signals when they actually like you to test your urgency.

A good move is to put your face near hers as if you are about to kiss her then back off. Once you do that you will get clearer signs. If the girl likes you she might just go into labor breathing or blush or force a kiss onto you or initiate physical touch for teasing her and passing an urgency test. If she is neutral, she will act cold but keep regular conversation going to give u openings to keep passing tests. If she is disinterested, the tests cannot be passed and you will probably get the eye roll from hell but that is ok since you have your answers either way.

OriginalMandem · 2025-04-12T14:56:04+00:00

I missed a lot of easy shots in my youth because could never quite tell if she wanted me to go for it or I was imaging it.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-12T13:06:45+00:00

Unlike in Hollywood movies, there is no “tale signs” and “right moment”. You are the one who needs to create the moment. This is why verbal and physical escalation is important in dating.

She’s your date, treat her like one. Don’t treat her like a friend of yours. When you go out on a date, she basically agrees that you and her will have a good time, including kisses and sex. Lots of them. It’s already implied. As long as you play your cards right.

cookycoo · 2025-04-12T18:18:30+00:00

She mimics you, she looks at your lips, her hands start rubbing you, she gazes into your eyes while holding hands or rubbing you. Lean in slightly, pause, be silent, if she leans in, kts a good sign.

GrowCanadian · 2025-04-12T15:25:09+00:00

Two very clear indicators I’ve seen and had 100% success rate after seeing are if they reapply lipgloss or have a gum. Don’t get confused though, we had already been flirting and on a date but these two indicators have always been green lights for me.

DrinksAreOnTheHouse · 2025-04-12T15:43:09+00:00

They’re absolutely signs. It can be leaning close, long warm eye contact, grin/smiling. But mostly it’s a gut feeling…Your body will tell you. When you feel it, dont second guess it. Thats your sign.

jwaters0122 · 2025-04-12T14:08:09+00:00

Yes. usually they lean in close, make strong eye contact, smile and wait for you to make the move

Lonely-Internet-601 · 2025-04-12T23:45:32+00:00

What I usually do is just part her hair from her face a bit with your finger while making eye contact. Thats usually a signal someone is about to kiss you so it gives her the opportunity to pull away if she's not ready yet, its much less embarrassing than leaning in for the kiss if she does pull away, it makes the whole thing less awkward for both of you.

ChicoBrillo · 2025-04-13T01:38:18+00:00

Men over-logic dating and romance, women (generally) don't think of dating the way our autistic asses do. They go more off vibes and subjectivity. Most times kissing for me begins with touching/hugging/caressing.

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-04-12T13:33:43+00:00

Always. And usually a lot of them. She probably gave you a million signs and when you kissed her she was thinking “finally” 😅

Lone_StreetCone · 2025-04-13T05:46:50+00:00

No, because they don't want to.

Mr_Dixon1991 · 2025-04-13T16:48:28+00:00

Correction: when they want YOU to kiss them

Usually, frequent touching, prolonged eye contact, and close proximity are signs of her being open to a kiss.

Khower · 2025-04-12T17:15:49+00:00

No, because certainty is not always there. People are complex. Sometimes, girls probably would kiss you but won't show you signs. Sometimes, they seem like they would kiss you but won't for various reasons. Most of the time if they show you signs and you go for it you're good.

Life is about reading the room and acting accordingly, odds are if she's on a date with you, she likes you. If you try to kiss them and they don't want to, as long as your respectful it really won't hurt anything.

Cp6208 · 2025-04-13T11:17:24+00:00

Not always! Some are subtle, others bold, just read the vibe and go with respectful confidence.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-04-16T01:24:23+00:00

short answer yes; they even give signs when they are attracted to you ; however perfect 10's they dont do this; for isntance when you lock eyes and she looks down ; that s a sign of interest ; you should approach and open her; same with the kiss; in fact you better get good at the kiss because if not ; you will get the ljbf speech lmao

AdBright9100 · 2025-04-18T18:57:25+00:00

Its in the eyes.

Depends from girl to girl.

The more submissive the less likely to make a move.

How did that kiss go? I’m glad you went for it

SadSniper · 2025-04-12T14:38:05+00:00

Not always but some will be obvious

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-13T02:19:28+00:00

In you can do overt kino 3, you can certainly go for the kiss. No signs needed.

Lone_StreetCone · 2025-04-13T05:48:18+00:00

No, because they don't want to.

Quin2020 · 2025-04-13T09:03:40+00:00

No! you have to initiate.

Title	Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss you
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Date	April 12, 2025 12:51 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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