So a few weeks ago, met a girl on a night out, we met up a week later. I wanted to chill and have drinks at mine to see the vibe first, but she said she wasn’t comfortable and wanted to go out instead. I explained I prefer to keep things low-key at first because I’ve taken girls out before, spent money, and then never heard from them again.

She wasn’t having it, so I took her to a nice bar anyway and spent about $200. Afterward, she still didn’t want to come back to mine, so I dropped her home. When I messaged her later, she ignored me but kept posting on socials — so I left it.

Two weeks later, she randomly messages saying sorry and acting like nothing happened. Now I’m not sure how to respond. She literally proved my point by ghosting me after the date. Part of me feels like if we meet again, she should come to mine and make it up to me for ghosting — I’m not taking her out again, that’s for sure.

How to let her know she’s the one who needs to make the effort now or whats the best way to play it?