Juggling various women and I don’t feel anything

Royal-Rope-1480 · 2025-10-17T14:37:19+00:00

Suffering from success.

ratfooshi · 2025-10-17T14:42:15+00:00

You gotta pick the loose 5 or the solid 1 bro.

AimlesslWander · 2025-10-17T15:59:37+00:00

Bro I am sorry but you deserve this for husling 5 girls

Reverse the genders and you'd be called a hoe

Only now your a manwhore

I'm sorry but if you weren't serious with these girls you HAD to be upfront about it

norwegiandoggo · 2025-10-17T14:48:31+00:00

You need to get your priorities straight..your mouth says you want one girl. Your behavior says you want 6. That means you're a liar and no self respecting woman will want to date you seriously.

Big_Steev · 2025-10-17T14:41:08+00:00

You are leading them on, stop fucking around with multiple women at once maybe? The answer is kinda right in front of you. She obviously doesn't trust you now, which is deserved. You need to change and grow before you're ready for a serious relationship, and messing with multiple women unseriously will only keep you shallow and exactly where you are.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-17T15:46:52+00:00

You need to get the hoe phase out of your system, drop the other ones from the harem, and just focus on the one with the most keeper potential.

In your situation it might be best to delete all dating apps and also literally block every roster chicks number from your phone.

All women get jealous and insecure, especially the ones with keeper potential. If you're committed to being committed, take some action like I mentioned above.

Fine-Shower5945 · 2025-10-17T14:48:38+00:00

While you are taking advice from others about your situation..it would be very helpful if you could tell us about how you're juggling 5women at the same time

drunkenpossum · 2025-10-17T14:54:29+00:00

Oh no another “so many women want me and I don’t like it wahhh woe is me” post.

Bullshit. You secretly love juggling these women. If you didn’t then you would be cutting things off with them and not continuing to fuck around with them.

Existing-Big-3039 · 2025-10-17T15:54:27+00:00

It's like a man dying of thirst watching another man drown.

Just shut up and enjoy the ride.

topher_atx · 2025-10-17T16:14:44+00:00

This is why I don't think people should try and date or sleep with multiple people at once. I broke it off with a woman who was trying to do this. I accidentally doubled booked once and went out with two women on the same day once and it felt gross. You can't really bond to two people at once.

nintendoborn1 · 2025-10-17T15:37:53+00:00

Can you teach me to have this problem lmao

Rhino3750ss · 2025-10-17T18:27:19+00:00

The solution is to cut all these girls off, including the one you are trying to stay friends with and start with a clean slate.

Going forward, remember that it takes no skill or effort to sleep with a bunch of women simultaneously. Seeing one woman at a time in this modern hookup culture and finding one who is loyal and actually building a foundation of commitment actually requires backbone, time, and massive effort, and you will feel more fulfilled than at any point when you were going around.

Remarkable_Outside67 · 2025-10-17T15:08:38+00:00

Bro, I’m in the same boat — I meet women almost every day and go out with them, so I’ve been through this before. I don’t recommend calling her out on anything, but you can talk to her about it. If she got upset, it’s probably because she thought you two had some kind of “exclusivity,” and seeing that behavior made you look inconsistent.

It’s totally normal for her to feel disappointed — chances are, she stopped seeing other people after meeting you. Someone who doesn’t see you as a partner wouldn’t care if you’re dating others; they’d just be indifferent about it.

That said, try to take care of your relationships. No matter how good your intentions are, there will always be people who end up hurt by your actions.

Matter_Still · 2025-10-17T16:25:22+00:00

You could try honesty with the next one:

Your claim: “I’m talking to five girls on the side.

Her: “What’s going on?”

You: “Nothing.”

Kgb725 · 2025-10-17T17:32:02+00:00

If you want to settle down youre gonna have to have a serious talk owning up to what you did.

Outside_Bowler8148 · 2025-10-18T15:30:23+00:00

You guys weren’t exclusive or bf/gf. She’s gonna have to get over it or lose you

Feisty-Equipment-691 · 2025-10-19T02:57:26+00:00

The only way ull have a shot is if u r upfront and real af. Hey i have strong feelings for u. I cleared my roster. For me no other girl exists but you. Lets go watch a movie friday at 8

ChristinaVicky · 2025-10-17T14:38:38+00:00

You’re highly wanted

Cyrpticcasper93 · 2025-10-17T19:24:48+00:00

Ive been here before being younger and if you want a serious relationship then i agree with everyone else about dropping the other 5. Now, if you want to have 5 or more women then me personally I just be up front and honest with women, they are humans who deserve respect and can handle hard truths, plus if you are up front about it then you don’t run into the situation you are in, a problem you will face is not every girl will be fine with you sleeping with multiple women and some will leave, some will stay, but if you want a serious monogamous relationship then you will need to drop the other 5. If not then be up front and honest, works for me at least

marshall_strud · 2025-10-17T19:59:32+00:00

Been there. Sleeping with too many women at once numbs you, spreads your emotions too thin.

My advice is focus on the one u like the most and cut the rest lose if u want a relationship.

Chrome_Quixote · 2025-10-17T21:49:55+00:00

Don’t simp and become a chump for the one you want. Be yourself and have fun. The speed and timeline with the other girl is going to be different than the ones you’re having as fwbs. Probably not great she knows you have other girls but it doesn’t really hurt for her to know other girls like you. If she asks be honest and prove you’re leaving the other girls behind and focusing on her

Strong-Band9478 · 2025-10-17T22:54:47+00:00

what are you even talking about with 5 girls a day bro like how can you even have that many things to actually talk about

digital-didgeridoo · 2025-10-17T23:53:06+00:00

This new girl I met I wanted to take for a serious relationship, but I made the mistake of being seen with the another girl

Unless you've had the talk and agreeed to be exclusive, you are allowed to date others - She is too.

I lost all care for the other girls

I wanted to take for a serious relationship

Have a serious talk with her and tell the both of the above, to give you another chance. It couldn't get worse than what it is now

casualfritos · 2025-10-18T03:31:46+00:00

Dude what fkn city are you in!!?? Here in south Florida is the absolute worst for dating and your post is really making me think about moving to another state. Too many of the women here want a man high 6 figures bordering on 7 plus a house and 100k and up car. It's so delusional. My dating life has been shit since moving here. When I lived in northern California my dating life was closer to what youve described.. but it was California so there's that

Puzzleheaded_Back181 · 2025-10-18T09:26:37+00:00

I was in your position a year ago, the moment I stopped talking to other women and focused on her she left my ass.

As long as it’s not a actual committed relationship don’t stop talking to other women, I swear they can smell it when you have no hoe’s and lose attraction

iletitshine · 2025-10-24T03:56:08+00:00

gonna hold you through this one: GO. TO. THERAPY.

Discopotatoz · 2025-10-17T16:11:17+00:00

6 active situations is not sustainable if we're being honest here. For me 3 was the limit and that was a full time job. I'm going to go against the conventional wisdom and say don't break up with anyone. Dropping everything for this one girl is going to put you in a very clingy/needy mindset and you'll likely push her away. Being seen with other women is not as big a deal as it seems. Pre-selection is a thing and you're not at fault for what you're doing before this girl enters into a relationship with you. Treat her as just another girl and for god's sake don't get oneitis. Once you're in a committed relationship with her, you can decide what your moral compass looks like. But never ever take it to heart when internet people shame you for your decisions. Follow your gut, you're doing great for your age.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-17T19:27:41+00:00

How do you even have the time to talk to 5-6 different women at once? It sounds like you have no life and/or are unemployed. Focus on getting your priorities in check. Don't string others along or have sex with multiple women unless you're in contact with each of them and all agree to it before dating you (they most likely won't, but use common sense here).

You should know better by 27. If this thread were coming from a high schooler I could understand but you're a grown man. I can't tell if OP is just immature or trolling. His post history is filled with Pokemon lore and infatuation/obsession with a 19 year old.

Title	Juggling various women and I don’t feel anything
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Upvotes	48
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Date	October 17, 2025 2:28 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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