Would you want to be friends, roommates, or family with someone who’s unpleasant, self-centered, and transactional? - woman perspective

What types of people would you like around you in general? 

People that you had to talk to and see on a near daily basis, does their temperment and behavior matter to you?

Would you want to hang out with a person who is unpleasant and rude? Would you call that person your friend?

Would you want a roommate that is inconsiderate and self centered? 

Would you want to have caring pleasant mindful family members? Or family members who only do things for you because they want a payment from you? 

Would you rather have a friend that's fun to be around and gives off good vibes, mostly putting a smile on your face?

Would you rather have a roommate that’s respectful, knows what boundaries not to cross, know how to behaves themselves around guests, considers your feelings when doing stuff? 

Would you even want to sit near someone on a train that's always seeking validation?