I am a man, I need sex to be in a relationship. It's been 4 years since my wife gave me the favour of her body.

I have been on this program for 6 months and I have worked the levels of dread. I have changed a lot others have noticed and I have had a number of ioi's. The wife hasn't noticed and stands proudly on the i don't give a fuck about you podium.

The thing is I want sex that is clear, I game her, I slap her ass (she has told me to stop, I carry on) I am funny cocky and work on myself.

She will not let me lead, but it dosent stop me doing anyway and not giving a fuck.

"She says" her issues are hormonal and that she is going through "early menopause" that its not her fault and that she has "nothing for me"

My life is ticking away, minute by minute. The one thing I struggle with is that I'm needy for sex and I have trouble killing this. I initiate but it's like poking a brick wall with a banana (I'm sure there is a better analogy for this)

Does anyone have any recommendations on specifically removing the need for sex? When do you know you have done enough that it's time to kill the puppy?

Or more of the same, carry on stfu lift and more stfu. Thanks in advance pricks.