What is a red pilled woman? | PurplePillDebate

aimlesssouls · 2019-07-26T01:06:59+00:00

I recently found the subreddit r/redpillwomen and I don't understand it. What is a red pilled woman? Like is it a woman who embraces the hypergamy...

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My assumption was that you would not allow side pussy, your wording was confusing. As for the “classic exchange” that is very much an issue of cultural and moral relativism. Every culture has different attitudes to relationships and sexual morality. Rameses II and Ghengis Khan would have had little use for the “classic exchange”. That same goes these days for celebrities and outlaw bikers. I think that younger women in modern western cultures have made a horrible mistake by turning into instagram attention whores and tinderellas. They mistake temporary validation as a useful resource. They would be well served to backpedal and use similar relationship strategies as those used by their grandmothers (let’s face it their mothers are probably to blame for many of their problems). Men are emotionally stunted animals and western women have lost the plot. We now live in a clown world where those who make claims of moral superiority have abdicated logic in favour of toxic groupthink. The traditional family unit is now a redundant memory. I suspect technology will continue to drive social change in the next decade or two but at an increasingly rapid pace.

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How did you deal with what I perceive as the RP female submissive role when it comes to decision making and thought processes within the partnership?

while we used RP for our understanding of male nature, we relied heavily on the book "the surrendered wife" for our practice. one of the key insights in the book was that you married a smart competent man and you now had to learn to STFU and stop trying to control everything out of anxiety and mistrust of that competence. youre addressing the exact kind of "submission" RPW promoted. for some reason, this was completely invisible to outsiders who persisted in believing it was Gor, BDSM or Doormat school. we called it "psychological femininity". youd be surprise dhow easy it was for women with normal, competent men to do it once the STFUed let go of the wheel and saw their men step up to the plate to fill the leadership gap the women were neurotically holding onto

sorry if i'm treating you as the RPW embassador.

no its fine, im happy to be ambassador for old RPW and answer any Qs i can

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I just question why an RP woman would want to be with a "RP man" when that kind of man is more likely to be an authoritarian around the house

ok, 1st of all, were not talking about "rp men" at all, just men. not men who read TRP. regular masculine men (or in some cases extremely masculine men)

that "authoritarianism" is in many ways vital to structural attraction. this is literally EXACTLY the issue we were addressing. part of RP ltr analysis is that egalitariansim is code for "Female led relationship" and that human sexuald dynamics in marriage require a male-led power dynamic (i want to stress here i am NOT talking about covertly female-led, topping from the bottom BDSM bedroom only power dynamics)

smart but neurotic and controlling women who cant step out of the drivers seat from lack of trust kill their marriages out of fear their husbands are incompetent. it causes them to nag and stress and lose attraction and sex drive.

again, it only works on the premise that you DID marry a competent man who you are vying with for control out of fear. if you married a feckless stupid man who cant do anything, RPW is not going ot work for you. we dont recommend women marry men like this lol

read the surrendered wife

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Well... what can I say, knowledge is amoral, and yes many people use it to obtain sexual and romantic satisfaction i.e. self serving. But in these cases there is a win win i.e. it is other-serving too. This is not a cartoon animation, This is a free market. both are well informed adults. both know what they are getting into of they follow each sides tenets.

My small romantic language lecture is over. Yes it was a mistake to bring it up, as you continue to believe it is somehow important to anything. It is just a bad habit from work. please pay no mind.

Tell me, are you ascribed to the kantian and/or idealistic side of ethics/morals and only those? because if that is the case, there is not much to be said except that the red pill, for both genders, is ascribed to the consequentialist and realist views. No kantian or idealistic or argument will convince the group.

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By the way, I really didn’t intent to single you out, it’s just a pet peeve of mine. I can see from the comment you get what I’m saying anyway.

I’m Catholic. My issue is not adults using their free will in the market. My issue is any philosophy that lowers the dignity of the human person and elevates some other goal above that. I realize that trp does this to help men not idolize women, which yes it’s important not to idolize people. But because IMO it misses the mark by teaching detachment through becoming cynical and colder, it’s very easy to jump right past seeing women as regular people to seeing them as things. And guys can view themselves this way too.

I also don’t like anything that encourages lying, and above all this is important in human relationship...and trp can sometimes mean being misleading, and I don’t think it’s ok to toy with peoples feelings.

Because I’m Catholic I have a really strong respect for free will, since it’s the crux of my faith and what makes love possible and makes people dignified. I don’t want to make the SMP illegal or something, I just have more respect for people who are honest about all of it and their own behavior.

I don’t intend to convince the group. I’m a realist too. I’m just saying what I value.

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... I have a thing with Catholics (and religious people in general). I live in one of the most and biggest christian country in the world. I don't like religion as I think that is the reason Brazil never gone any farther than it had been. An antitheist if you will. But I will not talk about it. I know it is meaningless, that is why I am moving from here.

Like I said, idealistic and kantian views alone will not move anything. However do not worry, there is a big leap from being realist and treating people as ownable things. One thing is to accept reality for what it is, flaws and everything, another is doing bad things to your fellow humans. You need a skeptical and detatched approach to understand well things (the scientific method). But that is it. If anything you become more sympathetic after being so empathetic.

TRP and RPW condemns lying. We are pretty straight forward about what our objectives (sex and LTRs). Some people may not follow this rule when they start or in every case, thinking it will be against their best interest, but with enough time and value, they inevitably do it. It is less of a headache to just be clear on what you want (and less risky). There is a great deal of women who also want only sex and men who want only marriage, after all.

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It is "original" in the third world to say you don't like religions. Those who say it openly usually dont live long.

I answered your arguments about TRP and RPW. may we continue the conversation about it? I have no qualms with you or other catholics just the ideology. Everyone is fallible, I consider it to be you, but I can be the one wrong.

I particularly prefer consequentialism and realism, but I recognize it is your (and your religion's) bases of idealism and kantianism, however these are not the bases of TRP or RPW and to criticize it because they have different bases means you are just criticizing the base, not the argument as a whole.

In my case the argument is that both RP ideas, individuals are adult arriving in a win win situation where both are well informed about what the red pill person wants.

Edit: grammar.

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I just expected that you, like most people from the first world I met here, could differentiate your ideology from yourself. My mistake I forgot that this is also one of tenets of Kant.

You also are mistaken, idealism and kantianism are explanations. Explanations about the bases of other ideas, such as Christianity (more precisely, islan-judeo-christian ideas) just like economic theory is a explanation to ideas which precede the idea of economic theory. I recommend you to read Kant's explanations, You have a lot in common.

Like I said. There is no need to lie, and it is badly seen by the red pill group. To say ones objectives clearly is a clear tenet of the red pill, and most adhere to it, as it clear what too many headaches. why don't you believe it? is it that hard to believe that there are women interested in short term sexual encounters with good men or men interested in long term relationships with good women? That I find it silly.

You pick information, analyse data, make a plan then do it. there is no problem here. everyone goes out winning. why is it that hard to believe?

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Both men and women are separate and distinct from one another, but both were made in God's image to complement one another in the ways the are unique to either gender. That's how He intended. Women are meant to be the "help-meet" and not try to rule over their husbands, and men are supposed to put God first and cover their wives and families.

Focus on the Family has an excellent series on this concept on their site. I encourage anyone who is genuinely curious about what I'm talking about to give it a read through.

The roles of men and women are very distinct and because both sexes have abandoned their God-given roles, look at what has become of the world. Look at the divorce rate. Look at how so many men would rather just use a woman for sex than connect to her spiritually and actually value love and marriage. Look at how many women encourage that behavior and don't practice modesty. We complain about not being able to find "the one" or being frustrated that "men are like this" and "women are like this" but then don't want to follow God's blueprint for that purpose because it's just "a fairytale" or "nonsense." I just shrug when people respond like that. After all, no one is forcing anyone to follow God's way. Do you. -_-

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Title	What is a red pilled woman?
Author	aimlesssouls
Upvotes	15
Comments	159
Date	July 26, 2019 1:06 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/chw95o/what_is_a_red_pilled_woman/
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