Sex should be pleasurable for both parties, so it should be a reward for women as well.

Thinking sex is a reward to be handed out, by women ignores the fact that some men are exceptional lovers. It ignores the fact that men also have a say in who they sleep with. There’s a lot of women who’d like to sleep with certain men, but don't have a high enough (SMV)

The less attractive men aka betas think women have all the say in if sex is going down because they have less options. Women are pickier, but if a man has game, he can seduce a women and make sex both a desirable prospect and enjoyable thing to do.

Betas are unattractive because they think sex will be rewarded to them if they act a certain way, which is unauthentic. Since they have less sex, they put sex on a pedestal, and view it as a reward.

Authentic people don't view sex as a reward because they probably have more sex than betas; which means they don't put sex on a pedestal. Sex can be just a little bit of fun for them, perhaps even a passionate event, but it's not a reward.

Let's have a clean discussion if you go off topic or rant I will ignore you.