Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?

PennnyLame · 2019-02-07T14:59:44+00:00

We have them, see the mail order bride, that one female supremicist who gets mad about women being nice to their husbands and a few other crazies. In general, while I disagree with the women here at times, at least they are not insisting they know how I feel while appearing to be an alien from planet Zorp who has never humaned before.

GridReXX · 2019-02-07T16:42:54+00:00

I've never gotten into a heated debate with a fellow PPD woman because their perspective might be different but it doesn't threaten or invalidate mine. They to acknowledge "what works" for couples/families takes precedence over hard and fast rules to live by. Call it the FSM, but sensibility doesn't arouse internet rage. I actually take something away from their input pretty often.

In contrast even agreeing with some men* here is a minefield. Men: Women like looks, money, status. Women: Yes. Men: Predictable. Dumb whore thot sluts. Or: Men: women want the best man they can get. Women: Yes, and my husband/so is fantastic. Men: Does he know you'd fuck anything yet? Have your kids been DNA tested? Lol divorce rape inc!

Or Men: PPD women are so fake with their perfection bullshit. Women: Abusive parents, crazy exes, acknowledged mental/general health issues, critical of the female led crusade to be hard on ourselves looks and achievement-wise Men: Why are you playing victim? Lol was a man not around to save you? Quick, someone make thread 998987 about bitches not taking personal responsibility!

But my favorite, the one that really tickles my funny is Men: if you have to do more than make your man a sandwich and fuck on call you're an ugly slut. I speak for all MEN. Women: lolwat? Men: you double talking dumb hole, stop being embarrassed that's your role. Women: remember that "get the best man we can get" thing? Did that. Sandwiches and starfish don't cut it. Men: you did it now bitch CAPS RAGE Women: I'm sorry your perspective is strictly low value and you don't speak for all men 🤷

There ARE very decent men here of different pill persuasions. They're just vastly outnumbered by the not so decent using PPD as bitches really do be like that therapy.

Nevidimka- · 2019-02-07T12:33:58+00:00

I've seen women here have different opinions from each other, they just don't really attack each other / feel attacked over it. Probably because it doesn't get personal for them.

We discuss mostly relationships/sex here, if a heterosexual female states something about that like, IDK, let's say she'd say "I expect an expensive engagement ring from a man". Another woman could reaaally disagree with that and think that's really unfair and demanding, but she won't feel personally attacked over it.

GradualDecomp · 2019-02-07T15:51:42+00:00

Notice the answers men and women give to questions.

The men here believe they are representative of all men. They assert that their feelings/beliefs/experiences represent ALL men. Even the most insane and fringe dudes here believe they are average. They often assert that "most men feel the way I do", even in the most ridiculous claims. Even the incels think they're normal. Common male logic here is "women don't love me, therefore women don't love men."

The women here use phrases like "Well I dont know about other women, but here's my feelings/beliefs/experiences", or "I dont speak for all women..." and are much less likely to generalize. There are far fewer women here who blame men for all their problems than vice versa.

It's a lot easier to listen to and empathize with someone sharing an individual experience vs someone who spins all their personal experiences into concrete, unchangeable realities that apply to everyone.

i_have_a_semicolon · 2019-02-07T12:34:34+00:00

I DK what you're talking about. I've had many a debate with a woman. I think women are less likely to be red which means they're less likely to disagree with eachother since they have similar viewpoints. But I see red/purple women debating blue pill women all the time.

I guess it doesn't get as personal but sometimes it does. I remember getting very heated with this one woman who insisted that I am low value simply because I have Crohn's disease. I still remember that because it was the first time I was actually personally attacked by a woman on PPD. She wasn't nice about it either (called it a weird or gross butt disease...)

Anyway. The ppd polls should also reveal that the majority of blues are female and the majority of reds are male. And that means that women have less to argue about. That doesn't mean we never find stuff to argue about.

Electra_Cute · 2019-02-07T13:04:36+00:00

There are plenty of women on here whom I have vehement disagreements with, but they are not making "feminism is evil post #152" or "women are worthless, go MGTOW" etc. every other day. Also as someone who moderates, there are women on here who are consistently at each other's throats.

Young_Oryx · 2019-02-07T20:39:03+00:00

I have gotten into intense debates with women here over the years. The difference is that women don't typically resort to personal attacks. Meanwhile, the men love to do that shit (seriously, I could fill a book with all the nasty shit dudes here have said to me about my husband), so debates with other women typically look (and feel) a lot friendlier.

KikiYuyu · 2019-02-07T18:06:48+00:00

Men are the ones who make the worst posts I see here. It's red pill dudes always trying to reduce complex things to some kind of system they can beat with a cheat code. It's dudes making AWALT claims.

There's not much feminist bullshit I see here to combat and debate with.

sublimemongrel · 2019-02-07T12:31:17+00:00

I’ve had some but the red women here are not crazy and are more reasonable than the men I’ve had heated debates with. There aren’t really female black pillers and the few women who lean MRA aren’t as obnoxious. Obviously there aren’t female MGTOWs.

The “heated” debates I get into typically are with more extreme views or those who get unnecessarily defensive or aggressive, those tend to be male here at least towards me.

goatismycopilot · 2019-02-07T12:49:01+00:00

Women here disagree with one another but many of the men don't notice, there are also a lot fewer women so you might not see as much variance.

GridReXX · 2019-02-07T13:11:25+00:00

The women here haven’t willfully (or earnestly) misinterpreted logical rhetoric and so don’t trigger me into eyerolls. We tend to find common ground swiftly even if we don’t agree on all or most fronts.

Some of the men here however love to straw man; at least in regards to me. Recent example.

Littleknownfacts · 2019-02-07T12:34:04+00:00

Because when the women disagree with other women you assume at least one of them is a man.

[deleted] · 2019-02-07T14:45:21+00:00

#teamwomen

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-02-07T18:37:58+00:00

make a post about RPW ideas and watch the heated debate

poppy_blu · 2019-02-07T13:56:55+00:00

Is it time for me and atlas to get into it again? It’s been a minute.

PuleaSpataru69 · 2019-02-07T20:43:21+00:00

Lol, PennyLame, chocholate milf and one other always attack me.

There are fights between women.

nemma88 · 2019-02-07T14:48:16+00:00

If I disagree with a woman while reading through, its normally Atlas, and I normally just think it's not worth it, she knows her mind so I'm not likely to change it etc, and its usually not that erogenous and less likely to deal in absolutes (that I care about) .

A good example though; I'm more likely to take a womans word about her preference than a man telling me what a womans preference is.

You can tell why I'd be more likely to argue with the man.

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[deleted] · 2019-02-07T13:46:19+00:00

I'm pretty sure some of the RP women here think I'm an idiot and not worth engaging with - I can only think of one regular-poster-definitely-a-woman with whom I've had a 'this thread continued on next page' argument.

Though, to be fair, I'm not a big 'reply to someone else's comment' person. The people who respond 'you fucking idiot, prove your shitty claim that all women aren't moronic lying sadists' to things I say are usually men. If I wanted to fight with more women/people in general, I could.

Littleknownfacts · 2019-02-07T17:45:14+00:00

Women follow the crowd. Men think for themselves.

darudeboysandstorm · 2019-02-07T18:28:43+00:00

There are like two or three girls who get a rise out of other girls, lobster omlette comes to mind.

[deleted] · 2019-02-08T00:18:58+00:00

I think more women are hardwired to use phrases like "I see where you're coming from" "That's interesting, but" "I can totally see why you think that" etc. Even if they're just thinking it, not typing it.

I try to really empathize with everyone's viewpoints and don't try to discredit people's lived experiences. Women are more open minded in general. Men are more likely to go off Ben Shapiro style "facts don't care about your feelings". Men are more "point a, point b, that's it, bitch". Women are more "I feel like point a because xyz, but Idk, thats just how I feel".

Title	Why are there no heated debates between the women of PPD?
Author	mathlel
Upvotes	11
Comments	191
Date	February 7, 2019 11:52 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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