Q4 Females : How much of a deal breaker is a small penis to you in a relationship?

Eartherry · 2018-12-24T23:26:12+00:00

A large penis doesn't necessarily mean better sex. In fact, it's more likely to be painful. I've run from a big guy once after the first time and the agonizing day after.

But really, penis size has nothing to do with how a man will be in bed. Size isn't important unless it's really really small or really really big.

LSTW1234 · 2018-12-24T22:12:07+00:00

It’s not a deal breaker at all if I like him.

Nodoxxintoxin · 2018-12-24T22:04:30+00:00

I only dated one guy who was literally too small, like a button on a fur coat too small. Even that wouldn’t have been a dealbreaker if he had other skills, unfortunately as a grown man, he also decided to get braces....which was weird. Lol

planejane · 2018-12-24T22:04:47+00:00

The bigger issue you make of it, the bigger issue it becomes. No pun intended.

But really, there are size Queens out there, to be sure, but if you give a shit about making sure she has a good time and you listen and try to get her off without letting your own insecurity or frustration get the best of you, it's not as big a deal as you think.

IME, guys who listen and are adaptable are the best in bed regardless of size. If you get frustrated with yourself or with the situation not working out exactly as you fantasized, it's the worst thing possible.

If you're a virgin, understand your first time will be weird and awkward and there's a good chance one or both of you won't actually climax, or one or both of you is an ass about something, but that only sets the tone for your entire sex life if you permit it to.

KikiYuyu · 2018-12-25T01:28:21+00:00

If we were really in love, I'd deal with it.

dottywine · 2018-12-26T09:34:40+00:00

Big deal breaker. The size is always a point of anxiety for me before we are intimate. When I see it I’m like “oh thank god”

trettles · 2018-12-24T23:09:24+00:00

Can he eat pussy decently? If yes, not a problem, unless you're talking micropenis.

Willow-girl · 2018-12-25T05:59:43+00:00

This thread reminds me of the joke where the man whips it out for the first time and his partner scoffs, "Who do you think you're going to satisfy with THAT little thing?"

His reply: "ME!!!"

Currycell92 · 2018-12-25T02:42:21+00:00

My ex had 4 or 5 inches best. I didn't care lol. That would be so fucking weird for me to break up with someone because of their dick size. When he whips it out, I already committed. No going back then.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-12-24T22:07:05+00:00

Since i sleep with men immediately, i would find this out immediately and not see him again

whichbladeN · 2018-12-24T22:20:35+00:00

Wouldn't be a deal breaker.

It might even awaken some fetish for micropenis that I wouldn't know I had until I tried it.

Penetration alone doesn't make me orgasm anyway.

kandyapplez · 2018-12-25T01:30:45+00:00

that would be a dealbreaker. i don't really enjoy sex if the guy has a small penis. i mean both physically and just sensually ((lol?) it's not exciting for me

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goatismycopilot · 2018-12-24T22:49:13+00:00

Is it pencil width?

neuk_mijn_oogkas · 2018-12-25T05:43:52+00:00

I'm fucking people without a penis more often than not; I can handle small; stil better than nothing—strangely enough a lot of people find this very simple logic to be highly unusual and think that apparently a small penis is bad but no penis is totally fine. I've really seen a lot of people on the internet who say they wouldn't have sex with someone with a micropenis but are very much interested in having sex with people with no penis at all. I can see the advantage obviously if the "no penis" comes with a hole you can put your own penis in but it you don't have anything erogenous to put in it then what exactly is the advantage of a vulva over a small penis? I don't see it.

Having said that the reason I'm so casual about it is because it's not a sacrifice to me as I don't do that whole thing where another person gets to tel me what I can and cannot do in my own time and whomever else I can and cannot have sex with—making me sign up to something like that is going to take more than love and things like threats of violence or I don't know some promise of world peace or world universal healthcare or whatever. In short things no one on the planet can really legally offer.

justaformerpeasant · 2018-12-25T18:04:28+00:00

It's not a deal breaker for me at all. It's not a problem in my relationship, but if it was, that's what they make different sized dildos for.

Freethetreees · 2018-12-27T18:41:44+00:00

Small is a dealbreaker, but I’m not a size queen. I’m very happy with average sized dicks.

Jah-Ki · 2019-02-07T11:13:53+00:00

I’ve dated dudes with below average dicks and really the bigger deal breaker for me is if we just aren’t compatible in bed, regardless of dick size

[deleted] · 2019-06-16T02:23:27+00:00

My opinion... it isn't so much about size. It is what you do with it. Also, if a man did feel inadequate about his size, then perhaps he should hold himself higher in other areas of pleasure. Besides, most women don't reach their peak point with the male member. It is more likely for them to reach that point over the waterfall with other stimulation. The clitoris is very sensitive.

[deleted] · 2018-12-26T18:46:05+00:00

Deal breaker for me, I am the minority. Most women do not care and some even prefer smaller. Just don't date a size Queen and you'll be fine.

SabirahNova · 2018-12-25T14:15:01+00:00

For personal reasons 4 or 5 is my preference anyway, anything above 6 just hurts.

dadsfettucine · 2018-12-25T12:29:24+00:00

the only people that care about penis size are men. Are you dating men? No? then it doesn't matter

Title	Q4 Females : How much of a deal breaker is a small penis to you in a relationship?
Author	Currycell92
Upvotes	7
Comments	78
Date	December 24, 2018 9:52 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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