CMV: the idea that women with a higher N count are better at sex is a bullshit myth that white knights and high n count women tell themselves.

I hear this all the time, on this sub and others, its ridiculous. It usually comes from guys, (or women pretending to be guys probably), and it goes something like this.

Person A expresses preference for marrying a virgin or low n count woman.

Person B: "why would you want that? A woman more experienced in sex knows what she's doing and sex with her will be more pleasurable."

Okay this is bullshit and let me explain why.

First of all, yes, a woman with more experience in sex will be more knowledgeable in sex and the mechanics of it. Doesn't mean sex with her will be better.

A woman who's had a lot of sex probably has already set in her mind what kind of sex and positions she likes best. She knows what she likes and she likes to try that. If you want to try something else, she might not like it because she's already figured out what kind of sex she likes. She has had a lot of sex with guys so she's probably slept with a lot of guys better (and bigger) than you, so unless you're a super experienced Chad thundercock, you're likely to be disappointing to her compared to her past partners. This lessens the physical pleasure and reward of sex when she really doesn't like it that much, because compared to what she's had, you're not up to her standard.

And because she's had a lot of it in the past, her likes and dislikes, her preferences, her kinks, etc. may be set in stone at this point and she'd mostly like to repeat the same stuff that she likes rather than trying new stuff that you want to try.

Now lets address the subject of a possible virgin wife:

Yes its true she has no experience. But if you're going to be married to her, lets say after you have sex 100 hundred times with her, she has just as much experience as an unmarried woman who's had sex 100 times. The difference being was that those 100 times were with you, so you have plenty of time to try new things with her that she's trying for the first time, so you can experiment and discover together what sort of things you both like.

Since she's never had sex before, when you start, she'll have no strong sexual preferences, so you can discover with her the stuff you like together and she won't compare it to what she already likes or dislikes since she has no past sexual experience.

She won't have had sex with other people, so she won't be carrying over sexual kinks or appetites from old relationships that won't be compatible with you. A woman with a big sexual history might be into BDSM or some other stuff that you might not like, so you're more likely to be sexually incompatible. A virgin girl is like a clean slate, she doesn't have kinks and a defined sexual appetite, as she hasn't tried that stuff in the past, so she wont try to make you do stuff you don't like.

After about a year or two of being married to a virgin girl (assuming you have plenty of sex together), she'll have had plenty of sexual experience, just as much as any slut or whore, except that sexual experience will be tailor made to you. She'll have had all her sexual experience based around what sort of stuff you like together and that will define her sexual appetite, much increasing the likelihood of sexual compatibility.