Q4RPM: Which of these women would you find most attractive?

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T20:02:44+00:00

Since you also appreciate BP answers I'll say I'd prefer the PhD one or the accomplished artist one. Hard to decide between the two but I think I'd have more in common with a PhD student, besides an accomplished artist might make me feel a little insecure.

Alth12 · 2017-03-02T20:15:55+00:00

Last girl I dated, who remains one of my best friends now actually earned more money than me, and not just a little bit more, 2-3x more. Didn't bother me one bit and I actually liked it, made a nice change to the usual.

I don't really care what a girl does job wise. So really, all of them would be my answer.

SetConsumes · 2017-03-02T20:47:43+00:00

I'd be most attracted to the accomplished artist and then model. I'd be wary of the PhD girl, but none of them would scare me or turn me away.

I'm totally biased towards artists as my mom is one.

Really its possible for any of them to be more attractive than the others depending on their passion and how they think.

GaiusScaevolus · 2017-03-02T21:08:01+00:00

For an LTR, I'd depend on the type quality of each of these things. A PH.D in Womynz Studies is a hard next, but a cool job/course of study would interest me.

As far as ONS, I'd probably consider the Ph.D student or hard going career girl as better prospects, since they, like me, have demanding schedules meaning they're less likely to waste precious free time on games.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T21:36:05+00:00

I don't give a shit what her job is

DucksCanDance · 2017-03-02T20:27:32+00:00

Accomplished artist , no question about it , it's far and away the most attractive of those in terms of what kind of personality matches up to the job

Model will likely be a prissy bitch, academics are too in their heads, career women are slave drivers, and the last woman just sounds like she has nothing going for her.

If it's just an ONS who cares

IamTheWalkingMenu · 2017-03-02T20:07:14+00:00

What is meant by "attractive" in this hypo?

Do we mean "sexually attractive" as in "desire, arousal, want to have sex with"? Or do we mean "attractive for a relationship"?

If we mean "sexually attractive", then all five iterations of this woman are equally sexually attractive and her other listed attributes are irrelevant.

If the word "attractive" has a broader meaning than only "sexually attractive", then, in order from most "attractive" to least:

--the artist.

--average job.

--Ph.D.

--the one with the really good job who outearns me.

--the model.

The ones I'd probably give up on would be the model and the Ph.D.

IamTheWalkingMenu · 2017-03-02T20:03:03+00:00

Depends... which one of them has a face I am more attracted to?

I don't care what she does for a living... Shhhh

ppdthrowawai · 2017-03-02T20:09:08+00:00

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Battle-Scars · 2017-03-02T20:54:37+00:00

Accomplished Artist by far. I would think the model and PHD would be a little on the self absorbed side.

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T22:16:37+00:00

RP: For a ONS, all of them works. For a relationship, the PhD girl or the average job girl works.

Overall, the PhD girl would be the most attractive. None is "intimidating", but would be disqualified for different reasons:

Model: very likely has a huge ego, men hitting on her everytime, far away too long too frequently, etc.
PhD: depends on the field - a PhD in STEM sounds great, a girl with a PhD in CS is objectively smart and we would get along great. A PhD in "gender studies" not so much, barely ONS material.
Really good job girl: I believe that most of the time girls can't cope well with making more money than their men, they need to look up to their men. Depending on her personality, it might or might not work, but I'm biased towards it not working.
Artist: a pianist sounds good, a painter not so much, specially if it's some "modern feminist art" painted with menstrual blood. You need to be objectively good to be a musician, but it's much easier to pass shit as art with painting/etc.
Average girl with no aspiration: sounds good, manageable, predictable. I make enough money and have aspirations of my own so I don't necessarily require that my partner has them too. It actually avoids a lot of conflicts, specially if our aspirations collide. If you want a family with kids, this is safer than some travelling model that will be bored at home.

[deleted] · 2017-03-03T02:10:01+00:00

tbh, none of this plays into attraction for me. I kind of don't care either way what you do.

DashneDK2 · 2017-03-03T06:22:28+00:00

The average job girl. All the others are career girls with heavy work loads and calendars filled with meetings. They're typically not moveable at my whim, even a spontaneous 4-5 day trip to Europe would need to be planned weeks in advance. They'd impose heavy restriction on the freedom of my life. Why on earth would I voluntarily give up the major part of my freedom and shackle it to somebody else's calendar? Also they'd be bad mother material.

After the average job girl, the artist chick. She is probably less restricted in her obligations than regular career girls, and perhaps her art allows her to take 3 months to Asia or Africa or whatever without too much planning.

[deleted] · 2017-03-03T08:00:03+00:00

The last one. A woman's accomplishments is not a factor in what men looks for in a partner. In fact, it will make her less attractive. This is a fact with so many accomplished single women in their 30s.

ProbablyBelievesIt · 2017-03-03T16:06:40+00:00

Since you wanted blue answers too...

Either -

she is an accomplished artist (for example, a concert pianist or a painter exhibiting her works at major museums)

Or

she has a PhD/working on one

Arts or science, I want to know how they see the world.

Edit: With that said, some of the most creative people I've ever met either did model, or could have. They just used their bodies as their canvas. And there's no way to judge the others, without actually getting to know more about them than how they paid their bills.

Anyone who is the least bit self-aware is going to have potential beyond the descriptions you've provided.

And I have no interest in the completely oblivious.

cxj · 2017-03-02T21:44:42+00:00

Artist is the coolest and most likely to be into me/relate to me but it doesn't make her more attractive really. That's almost entirely her looks tbh.

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[deleted] · 2017-03-02T20:05:11+00:00

Lol, women are attracted to careers.

HoxHound · 2017-03-02T20:23:23+00:00

I'll prefer number 3 for a ONS or Relationship. I think most RP men will.

The issue here is not what I prefer, it's what she would prefer. In reality, number 3 would have unsatiable hypergamy.

xthecharacter · 2017-03-02T20:24:04+00:00

PhD or accomplished artist are most attractive
doesn't matter if relationship or ONS, in both cases I'd rather have an interesting conversation and those two would be most likely to provide this
None are intimidating, but I might get irritated with the one with a really good job if she's too concerned about money, or bored with someone without aspirations

wtknight · 2017-03-02T20:24:42+00:00

I am non-Red Pill

If she looked the same and had the same personality no matter what she did, I'd pick the one which gave me the most time to spend around her, so the order would probably be, best to worst:

Average job

PhD

Good job

Accomplished artist

Runway model

DaThrowaway808 · 2017-03-02T20:38:13+00:00

Good job (assuming it isn't highly time consuming)
PhD (I'm assuming you didn't mean an MD)
Artist
Average Job
Model

Which of them would you think is most attractive?

If they all look the same, then it doesn't matter.

Would it matter if you were looking for a relationship or just ONS?

I don't do ONS

Would you find any of them intimidating/give up on her immediately for some reason?

Nope

All I care about is their income to free time ratio if everything else is the same.

Christian_Kong · 2017-03-02T21:10:41+00:00

If it's for ONS/FWB I don't think any man cares. For an LTR I would say the artist, unless they travel a lot. Followed by; good job, PHD, model, average job.

PurpleBanner · 2017-03-02T21:19:12+00:00

I like this one:

she is an accomplished artist (for example, a concert pianist or a painter exhibiting her works at major museums)

I work as a reporter for a local news paper, so I appreciate art and writership.

Randomnumberrrrr · 2017-03-02T21:57:29+00:00

Most attractive? Probably the PhD. But I'd take any of them. As long as she isn't fat.

locriology · 2017-03-02T22:31:45+00:00

Artist, hands down. A girl who is killer on a musical instrument has my heart instantly.

NinjaSpartanZX · 2017-03-02T23:20:08+00:00

she has a really good job, making more money than you probably ever will or the PhD one

[deleted] · 2017-03-02T23:58:32+00:00

she works as a runway model - ONS
she has a PhD/working on one - FWB
she has a really good job, making more money than you probably ever will - FWB
she is an accomplished artist (for example, a concert pianist or a painter exhibiting her works at major museums) - FWB
she has an average job and no particular aspirations in life - FWB

voteGOPk · 2017-03-03T00:21:58+00:00

black pill (effectively rp on here)

I'd pick runway model a la Barbara Palvin.

i'd ideally like to be seen with here enough times so that people know I was with a model . Beauty is life, life is beauty.

despisedlove2 · 2017-03-03T00:47:19+00:00

The one with a Ph. D. or working on one, provided it is in a real discipline. So not "gender studies". I am thinking more like particle physics.

I don't do one night stands since I am not PUA.

I am also not dating, but then I know my weaknesses :)

fiat_lux_ · 2017-03-03T01:55:41+00:00

Whichever ones gives her more free time.

I don't mind ambitious women, but they have to make time for me.

winterrider · 2017-03-03T02:05:50+00:00

For a relationship, the accomplished artist or the PHD student. I am the kind of person who goes for their goals and I am mad attracted to women who have goals and work towards them. For a short term sex fling, of course the model would win.

Demyk7 · 2017-03-03T02:55:38+00:00

If it's just for sex, everything besides her physical appearance is irrelevant to me in this scenario.

If it's for a relationship, I'd prefer the woman who out earns me so I can live off her money(if we're talking many millions). The others are all a close second.

MosDaf · 2017-03-03T03:19:41+00:00

PhD/working on one (with some restrictions on the field.)

So: basically any reputable, genuinely academic discipline. I'm not going to be impressed by e.g. women's/gender studies or some other discipline know for being full of BS, nor business or some other vocational field. But with those provisos. But as long as it's some real, respectable discipline in the sciences, humanities, or social sciences: definitely Ph.D.

If it's a Ph.D. in some BS discipline, artist would be next. But not one of those flaky artists, y'know?

LeaderOfGamergate · 2017-03-03T03:39:57+00:00

PhD, definitely. I'd prefer someone with similar life aspirations to me, I'm currently working on my medical degree so I'd like someone with a similar interest/field.

super-commenting · 2017-03-03T03:54:32+00:00

It would depend heavily on what the PhD was in. If it was something like Math/Physics/CS then I would put that at the top because it would mean we have a lot of common interests. Something like History would be less good because it probably means she's passionate about something I'm less interested in but we could probably still have some interesting conversations. If it was something like gender studies then that's an immediate rejection.

Same with the artist, if she actually makes cool art that would be awesome but if she makes art that I personally don't see the value of then it's gonna cause a lot of problems.

And the rich girl? is she cool with being a sugar momma? or would I still have to work and pay for my own shit?

justcallmetarzan · 2017-03-03T03:56:52+00:00

Which of them would you think is most attractive?

PhD/student. Hands down. The accomplished artist is second, and the other three are incomparably behind.

Would it matter if you were looking for a relationship or just ONS?

Nope.

Would you find any of them intimidating/give up on her immediately for some reason?

Specifically an accomplished pianist perhaps intimidating, but that's just because I play. I might give up on the average job with no aspirations girl because she clearly doesn't care enough to do better.

ifelsedowhile · 2017-03-03T04:20:18+00:00

'deep purple' pill: PhD in a STEM discipline because that means she's more likely to have a scientifically oriented/skeptic mentality therefore not bluepill as BPers seem to refute or question many scientifically sound concepts.

spikeybumpy · 2017-03-03T05:14:27+00:00

LTR- average FWB - artist ONS - doesnt matter

[deleted] · 2017-03-03T06:17:48+00:00

Probably PhD, then artist, then job, depending on the specifics of all of them.

I want the same things women want stereotypically. Doesn't have to be a model but knows how to present herself. Capable and resourceful. Most importantly, intelligent with a sense of humor.

And 7'4 with a huge dong.

But seriously you pick a partner who is interesting and that you can share mutual respect with. Not completed. Her occupation only indicates what traits she might have.

weakandsensitive · 2017-03-03T08:27:54+00:00

If she's already attractive - why would that extraneous information make a different?

If it's physical attractiveness - nothing she does impacts that any further.

If it's mental attractiveness - nothing she does impacts that any further.

Women (and men) get taught that somehow what they do and the degree they hold add to their attractiveness. This is the biggest joke ever. The things that matter in no guaranteed order: 1. attitude towards life, 2. physical appearance, 3. rapport with me.

What kind of pathetic man is scared by what a woman does for a career/profession/hobby?

Eastuss · 2017-03-03T10:09:39+00:00

None of these will affect my sexual attraction, only a perceived value of RMV.

[deleted] · 2017-03-03T15:10:59+00:00

she works as a runway model

This girl would be the most attractive to me.

Followed by this:

she is an accomplished artist (for example, a concert pianist or a painter exhibiting her works at major museums)

I'm not looking for a relationship, so the runaway model and the accomplished artist would be fun to talk about before and after the sex happened.

[deleted] · 2017-03-04T00:47:36+00:00

Runway model. I know a group of girls who do it and they're cool af. Their N counts aren't any higher than the average nobody girl and they're actually ashamed of saying they slept with someone which is a nice bonus, it means they care about a graceful image at least.

Next up would be PhD woman, these women are usually retards but nice enough.

Artsy types have mega N counts, its all I used to chase when I was younger because I was an artist myself. Artsy women are usually the smartest type of woman but thats probably true for men as well, they're usually rebelling against femininity which is a huge turn off for me

[deleted] · 2017-03-04T04:57:33+00:00

The artist, assuming she is passionate about art itself and not about being an artist. Though, it depends on what the PhD is in.

trpobserver · 2017-03-05T15:18:16+00:00

Well these two girls:

she works as a runway model

she is an accomplished artist (for example, a concert pianist or a painter exhibiting her works at major museums)

Are almost certainly far-left in their political ideology, and I personally find that off-putting, so they are out.

she has a really good job, making more money than you probably ever will

I'd probably marry this one just for the money, but I her making lots of money doesn't exactly make my heart go a-fluttering.

she has a PhD/working on one

Well, if its in something that isn't the standard English/sociology/gender studies/psychology then I might be interested

she has an average job and no particular aspirations in life

In other words, a blank slate. I don't really think there are a lot of girls in the real world who are really like this (in terms of the second aspect, not the "average job" part), so if I met one I would probably find her very attractive and would be excited to explore different things with her.

TheWorldToCome · 2017-03-08T14:53:56+00:00

ONS obv none of those matter, for an LTR none are particularly attractive to me. I guess I would say a really good job making more money

WhosCountin · 2017-03-16T00:49:56+00:00

For a one night stand, the runway model, but only by a slight margin. It doesn't really matter. Her career, intelligence, etc. won't affect the sex, but fucking a runway model is a nice little point of validation. Really, looks and sexual prowess/enthusiasm are all that matter for a one night stand (aside from safety issues like if she has herpes, is likely to falsely accuse you of rape, etc.).

For an LTR, definitely the artist. I love art, and I respect artists immensely. Really successful artists make plenty of money too, at the very least she should be able to not be drag on my finances. Depending on her personality, the insanely wealthy career woman might be good too, since the material benefits would be wonderful. However, I hate businesspeople, and I work with a bunch of career women. I work in business myself, but I feel like I'm fake 99% of the time and I cannot relate to anyone around me. I'm a big fan of psychedelics, animal collective, Jungian psychology, I make sculptures of trolls and 3 fingered hands in my spare time... the artist would likely be much more in line with my personality. I really don't understand how anyone could legitimately think like the business people I interact with all day. It's like they got their understanding of the world from Modern Family and beer ads.

IIHotelYorba · 2017-03-02T22:49:41+00:00

PHD. But then again,

reasonably good looking

I'm not that into her so I bring her with me to open a hotter girl. Lol

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Title	Q4RPM: Which of these women would you find most attractive?
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