What do you do when a physically superior man puts you in your place (a hypothetical example)?

WestsideMoonWalker · 2019-10-09T17:34:01+00:00

Lol nothing even remotely close to this has happened to me and I literally weigh 125 lbs. If someone wants to be a rude dickhole and the people around me put up with it, I'm cool just walking away. If someone twice my size moves me out of the way, it's not like I'd try to fight them though. I don't want to literally break.

Really it's just about self-preservation though. I'm very laid back and generally likable, and if someone is trying to pick a fight with me, it's on them, because it's not like I actually do anything to provoke people.

Either way I can't imagine such a situation would ever possibly happen to me though. That's now how my social circles are, and if someone is actually trying to assert dominance or whatever the fuck, I don't particularly care.

wtknight · 2019-10-09T18:19:23+00:00

This sounds like the type of thing that only happens in tv shows and movies. I’m not a big guy and, even if there some guy out there who was willing to do this to me, I don’t even think that I’m competing for the same women that he is, so I can’t imagine it ever happening.

Hypothetically, if it did happen, another man laying his hands on me would mean physical retaliation. I’d rather have my ass kicked than live with the humiliation for the rest of my life of doing nothing after being disrespected like that.

BPremium · 2019-10-09T17:27:21+00:00

Order a beer, drink it, smash it against a hard surface and slit the guys throat with the jagged end.

Ofourkind · 2019-10-09T18:03:40+00:00

This is a dumb hypothetical, but I'll play along.

Out of control men are the responsibility of more rational men. I don't deal with loose cannons and man babies. Stronger, more rational men will put them in their place. Of that doesn't work, the law will deal with him. Not my problem.

Orange_Paisley · 2019-10-09T18:31:05+00:00

This kind of thing literally never happens after high school to most people.

geyges · 2019-10-09T17:31:51+00:00

This is some middle school bullshit. Adults don't do this shit

...if they don't want to absorb several 9mm bullets in their fucking face.

WarrenGFarting · 2019-10-09T17:32:19+00:00

Get super fat or super ripped so you aren't as light and pickable

FaraunLoveShady · 2019-10-09T18:11:58+00:00

Throw a vanilla late to his face while I'm wearing my Gucci sunglasses.

NalkaNalka · 2019-10-09T19:33:55+00:00

Physical strength is not what determines people's places in the dominance hierarchy

Kos_-_Omak · 2019-10-09T19:42:55+00:00

lol wtf

ChadMCG95 · 2019-10-10T05:22:53+00:00

This actually happened, at least once: https://www.instagram.com/p/BpKshKsgFH9/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=up13htymk8qc

Freevoulous · 2019-10-10T09:39:39+00:00

I would "gay" the shit out of him.

- the moment he touches me, I would be like "oh, hi honey"

- he took my spot? sit on his lap

- massage his muscles, loudly exclaim how much of a "big strong man" he is for physically picking me up

- loudly talk about how brave he is to show physical affection by picking other men up, and how I respect the shit out of him for "coming out in public".

I noticed that this kind of bros get really embarrassed and mad when this kind of interaction is turned on them in a '"homo" way. Their fragile boy egos cannot handle this kind of a joke. It makes them look like total tools, and if they protest, it makes them look like homophobic pricks as well. If they become verbally or physically violent, they lose 100% of their SMV in the eyes of women, and are likely to get kicked out. Its a lose-lose situation for them.

EsauTheRed · 2019-10-09T17:28:05+00:00

No it doesn't all come down to physical strength in the modern world, only in your 20s and if you remain lower class, it certainly helps but isn't the be all end all

Grow the fuck up

NiceGuyNumber4 · 2019-10-09T18:06:34+00:00

Fight him. He disrespected you, so don't respect him by fighting fair. Sucker punches and groin shots are 100% ok in this situation.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2019-10-09T18:41:21+00:00

thats why god made guns knives and chairs

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ToraChan23 · 2019-10-09T20:11:28+00:00

Hit the gym right after that and consistently so this hypothetical shit won't happen again.

OatsGYOW · 2019-10-09T20:36:15+00:00

Damn, that sounds a good way to get shanked by a man insecure about his height.

metinb83 · 2019-10-09T21:25:28+00:00

If a woman is into you, you‘re gonna have her attention, no matter what the other dude does. And if she‘s not into you, she‘s gonna be glad the dude chatted her up. And if you think getting violent will you get you the girl, your mental age is about 12.

incelchad · 2019-10-09T21:26:40+00:00

Are you a guy?

Punch him in the back of the neck a Or smash his head with a bottle.

Why do you think people invented weapons anyway?

decoy88 · 2019-10-09T21:53:58+00:00

Not gonna lie we’re gonna have a problem.

The probability of me losing a fight will not stop me from having one

cxj · 2019-10-09T22:47:27+00:00

I once saw something similar to this happen to a friend of mine who is pretty average in size but very capably violent. He is in a group considered a gang by local police departments but really closer to soccer hooligans in nature. I saw some exchange between him and a very bro dude who was well over 6', the dude laughed at him and walked away. My boy grabbed a pool ball off the table and threw it at his head at full speed and dropped the dude from behind. Tons of people were looking shocked and his friend yelled "DUDE WHAT THE FUCK??"" and he replied "Yo, you look at me when I'm talking to you faggot!" The other, also bigger guy came at him, my friend grabbed a pool que and darted him in the face with it several times very quickly, he fell on the ground screaming "my eye! my eye!" another dude came at him again and got wrestled to the ground and punched repeatedly in the face, security came in to break it up and his friends jumped in, a large brawl ensued and we all ran out asap.

Shit was wild, those bros had no idea wtf was coming and thought size alone would punk someone.

Transmigratory · 2019-10-09T23:25:53+00:00

How small are you for that to happen? Easy come back and make a joke, something about how the pilot landed in the wrong place or whatever comes to mind.

yeetsaucepeteross · 2019-10-10T00:03:30+00:00

That would be one of the biggest cucks ever performed in history and you would be best off leaving the country and changing your identity if that happened to you

ontherailstoday · 2019-10-10T04:14:07+00:00

He wins the battle but if he keeps that up he loses the war. Nobody but certain parts of the criminal underclass want a guy like that in their home and around their friends and family.

Pontifex_Lucious-II · 2019-10-10T07:18:58+00:00

I didn’t want to smell what then Rock was cookin

tgertcher · 2019-10-10T11:33:32+00:00

Pull a gun.

wekacuck · 2019-10-10T12:23:47+00:00

Pick the cutest girl and physically remove her from the circle and take her place.
Bunny ears
Wedgie followed by getting pummeled
Do that thing where you stand behind him and put your arms past him to gesture

UTC24 · 2019-10-10T16:08:40+00:00

That only means you did something wrong prior to this event. What did you do to allow him to be so disrespectful to you and think he could get away with it?

TheJim66 · 2019-10-09T18:06:13+00:00

Suckerpunch then Kick his balls then knee his face

Reisiluu · 2019-10-09T22:23:52+00:00

Why can't you move back into the circle? Go to the other side, tell people to move and get back in. Then make a joke: I told him I needed to be picked up later, but I didn't think he was going to take it literally.

Aaren_Augustine · 2019-10-09T17:38:07+00:00

I have a resting murderface and built like a Cro Magnon linebacker. Good luck.

jax006 · 2019-10-09T17:40:59+00:00

Sucker punch

FlyingResearcher · 2019-10-09T17:42:45+00:00

Wouldn't everyone else in the group just beat up the guy who moved you?

Especially if you're a woman there's no way anybody would ever get away with that.

In fact it likely wouldn't ever happen to begin with.

That's what you might call "female privilege". Being automatically protected and defended by everyone else.

philomexa · 2019-10-09T17:45:55+00:00

My husband is 5'8" and on the light side. When a big guy would try to "mog" him (is that what they're calling it?) he'd shred the dude verbally and get everyone laughing at the big guy.

I can't say I've seen anything like this happening outside a school/campus/college bar environment though.

Title	What do you do when a physically superior man puts you in your place (a hypothetical example)?
Author	ginwithbutts
Upvotes	1
Comments	106
Date	October 9, 2019 5:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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