FDS is just a guide to blocking everyone

PPD-Angel · 2020-01-05T02:06:10+00:00

No low-effort r/FemaleDatingStrategy content. Removed.

RT-AC66U · 2020-01-04T21:25:50+00:00

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Rules

pngmafia97 · 2020-01-04T21:26:29+00:00

Why block when you can ghost

Jathrowaway97 · 2020-01-04T21:48:05+00:00

The biggest list of requirements have ugly and fat women. My experience. The most down to earth women are usually pretty and nice to have around once in a while. Sure exceptions exist but this sub is about generalizations anyway. So let them FDS women be, they are not immune to game. And every woman on earth will break any rule she has for a right guy.

Maybelowsmv · 2020-01-04T22:41:27+00:00

I think you, and everyone else, who views FDS as the worst thing ever simply look at the overexaggerated stuff or you overexaggerate it yourself and then get mad.

They want men to be financially secure. That's it. I've even seen commenters on there state that if a man is in his 20s or early/mid-20s, then it is understandable that he isn't flowing with cash. HOWEVER, the main point is to make sure he isn't making you fund for him and that if a man really wants to, he would save up to treat you. It's literally a fact
Good communication is CRUCIAL. And no, they don't really say block him if he doesn't respond in 2 hours. It's more of a common sense thing and what works for you. He ignores you for a few days? Block. You're both not that much interested in texting and so only check in with each other a few times a day? Totally fine.
It's more about what a woman expects here. Yes, they'd say don't fuck him if he only has asked you on simple coffee dates. You think women on FDS never go on those? They do. They just avoid rewarding low-effort dates with sex. It's a way to avoid letting a man use cheap coffee dates to essentially have enough money to game you and three other bitches. Again, it's all about progression and making sure you have higher standards
I mean, if he looks ugly or is wearing dirty clothes, then you probably wouldn't be impressed. Shock, horror. Most reasonable men actually wear normal clothes to go outside, let alone for dates.
It's not about the hours, but it is about that text, I suppose. It's just politeness and shows he's thinking of you. Do you think she'd want to shoot him a text first? Lots of women probably do, but FDS women probably faced bad experiences when having had to do that in the past. It's a preference thing
Well, duh. Attraction is important

AsclepiustheSage · 2020-01-04T21:47:31+00:00

It's the bottom tier of women refusing to acknowledge and accept their low status and reaching for the sky - what else is new? They're so fucking dumb, they don't even understand how vagina works - it's is a safety net that keeps you from falling down to the bottom; not a golden ticket to get to the top.

2020-01-04T22:03:55+00:00

r/FDS is just mega-kope for land-whales who could never lock down a handsome non-junkie man into a LTR and therefore theoritize being his cum-dumpster, taking all their anger out on men who are average in looks or status. Stacies implement the core of FDS instinctively but with good results (unlike r/FDS's land-whales), as they can be efficient gold-diggers and lock down anybody they want into a LTR.

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decoy88 · 2020-01-04T23:30:35+00:00

The assumption is that they’re already attracting the right men. They just need to filter out the wrong ones to see them.

NOTSM · 2020-01-04T21:42:16+00:00

Fds is just chick locker room talk.

The overarching theme of their advice is solid and will work. They just get a bit too caught up in the "yo go girl" aspect of it and go a bit over board sometimes.

Joey_Lopez · 2020-01-04T23:16:38+00:00

FDS is always good for a laugh. They just can't understand that a lot of the red pill men they complain about used to be the blue pilled men they now claim to want.

Instead of appreciating the blue pilled men they treated them like shit so they turned to the red pill. They created the men they now complain about. So now they think they are gonna get somewhere by being even more shitty. Yeah good luck with that ladies.

Darkseeker_Mau · 2020-01-04T22:55:20+00:00

FDS and similar forums are an inevitability. Because they attract people with certain ideas and certain traumas.

A victim complex, narcissistic entitlement, low self-esteem (which forces them to self assess by the quality of men that they can attract), superiority complex, and a world view in which the whole world is out to 'get them'.

But these are all coping mechanism, there needs to be a point in which the healing begins, and the wounds are closed.

But this will not be possible unless people are willing to forgive and forget.

yoyohoto · 2020-01-04T21:36:55+00:00

I never used FDS but I can tell you that having high standards, and letting it be KNOWN you have high standards - does indeed work. I think it subconsciously sends the message that the women is higher value than she actually is

Kinda like: 'If shes super picky, then she can afford to be super picky'

LillthOfBabylon · 2020-01-04T22:00:54+00:00

Really? Because I sorted FDS by Top posts. It was largely about "If he's a man-child, dump his ass". I would say only 5% of it was about money and 25% of about social justice. I would have to see which posts you're talking about. Or are you talking about the commenters? Because I can link you the ones I saw and the majority seemed quite reasonable.

For example, would you want to be with a girl who rejected your proposal for 10 years and then married a guy she dated for 6 months? Wouldn't you comment "Dont be a forever boyfriend"?

wekacuck · 2020-01-04T21:29:41+00:00

What's so onerous about these???

trueorfalsedmitry · 2020-01-04T22:13:27+00:00

Filter out anyone who is not a engineer or rich banker

Who in the actual fuck thinks these are equivalent to women? Women don't want to fuck engineers! They will tolerate marrying one, but just barely.

Orange_Paisley · 2020-01-04T22:50:18+00:00

Why do you care how women choose to date? They can block anybody they please. They can have whatever standards they please. If you don’t like their standards or don’t meet their standards, feel free to date elsewhere.

CaeruleaTigris · 2020-01-05T00:25:18+00:00

These aren't exactly my standards, but I don't see an issue with them. In fact, I think if men had similar standards and actively enforced them, maybe they'd be less successful in dating, but eventually they'd find someone with similar standards and have a better quality relationship/better quality woman for it.

That being said, I think having standards that you, yourself, do not meet or match is unreasonable and constitutes reaching.

LotBuilder · 2020-01-05T03:15:23+00:00

As a guy I don’t have any issues with FDS. It pretty unreal how women will allow themselves to be treated. It’s sad and pathetic. Having some standards isn’t a bad thing. It’s not perfect but it’s like a road map to be a main chick instead of a side chick. I wish them luck.

HellenicLady · 2020-01-04T21:29:10+00:00

FDS is for women who are tired of lowering their standards and dating losers, deadbeats, morons, abusers etc. It's about encouraging women to have confidence in themselves.Society teaches women that they're defective men, FDS exists to tell them that they're fine the way they are and that having standards is okay.

blackedoutfast · 2020-01-04T22:10:35+00:00

this isn't a dating strategy it's a block everyone strategy

well yeah of course.

FDS is a sub for unattractive women who are complete failures at locking down solid men. no attractive woman would ever need FDS because they don't need "strategies" they just need to choose the best man out of all of the ones competing for her.

FDS women come up with these ridiculous strategies and insanely high standards because it allows them to shift the blame to men. they don't want to admit to themselves that the real reason they are single is because they're a garbage tier low SMV landwhale. FDS allows them to resolve their cognitive dissonance by blaming men for not being good enough.

that's literally all that FDS is: a bunch of fat/ugly/old women coming up with impossible standards then circle jerking each other about how men aren't good enough.

FDS has nothing to do with actionable strategies to improve a woman's dating life and relationships with men, it's merely a way for failed women to remain in denial about themselves.

18b36 · 2020-01-04T22:15:39+00:00

Oh shit I literally just posted about the same thing basically. I fucking hate them

Silva_Shadow · 2020-01-04T23:44:39+00:00

It's a gold digging sub to scam men out of their resources, not a dating strategy, they only dress it up as a dating strategy so they don't look awful but it's obvious to anyone with two eyes and a brain.

goatismycopilot · 2020-01-04T23:53:49+00:00

I don't understand what this issue is though. First why do you care if women are blocking everyone, okay then they don't meet somebody. Next, are they supposed to date some guy who is ugly, boring, with no social skills? And yah engineers are not fun to date so you got that wrong.

I still do not understand why FDS continues to really upset PPD men. If you think FDS is for ugly landwhale chicks why does everybody care? Personally I think not wanting to date some low effort greasy t-shirt boy is fine. I mean I hear more than enough about fat chicks and old chicks and crazy bitches here like it is pretty obvious most of the men here think they are also too good to date most women, never mind the endless posts why should I marry, why should I LTR, like I fucking care if somebody in PPD doesn't want to get married, or wants to build a fallout shelter and go full moose MGTOW. Do you people boys, date three year olds and and give creampies to your secretary or your mother or whoever.

acron5n5 · 2020-01-04T21:47:46+00:00

Women cannot act rationally in presence of an attractive man. So these strategies will work only when the guy is low value, hence it's all about blocking only them, though I don't think there's any strategy needed.

In fact most of the things FDS promotes are very reasonable and if women started applying them it'd benefit them but they won't, see above for reasoning.

(yet another reply where we assume FDS isn't a bunch of larping dudes).

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2020-01-04T21:24:50+00:00

whats your point

Physiologist21 · 2020-01-05T00:02:30+00:00

Sounds like very good advice to me, by blocking everyone they are removing themselves from life. I like it.

FDS is just a guide to blocking everyone

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Title	FDS is just a guide to blocking everyone
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Date	January 4, 2020 9:23 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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