It’s almost as if objectifying women is... bad??

RabidWench · 2020-12-31T23:27:40+00:00

"Oh NO, I can't stop seeing my girlfriend as a person with dignity! WHAT DO??"

Christ on a pogo. What has this world come to?

2021-01-01T00:07:34+00:00

Madonna/whore complex.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-31T22:50:00+00:00

Why doesn't he objectify himself? Why does he have to do it to her?

I just wanna ask any guy who's into BDSM if I can stick 15 needles in his dick and repeatedly slap him across the face with a 5 inch cast iron skillet. BDSM, baby.

AcctJustForMe · 2020-12-31T22:48:30+00:00

Do her a favor by leaving you waste of breath lmfao

wagonwheel_ · 2021-01-01T00:28:01+00:00

When are we going to start calling this what it is? A mental illness.

2020-12-31T23:09:44+00:00

All this for a guy who has undoubtedly never made his girlfriend orgasm even once.

Whew #NoMoreOrgasmlessSex2021

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-01T00:32:55+00:00

"I can't bring myself to beat and rape/gang rape my girlfriend. What's wrong with me?"

There aren't even words.

pickadaisy · 2021-01-01T00:12:42+00:00

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lollykpops · 2020-12-31T23:13:58+00:00

PORN SICK LIMP DICK

99agent99agent99 · 2020-12-31T22:49:31+00:00

PORNSICK

_tinyimp · 2021-01-01T00:53:00+00:00

I always wondered why every man on the planet claims to have that one psycho ex yet they’re out here watching degrading porn or actually beating women in bed. They literally project EVERYTHING onto us because they’re disgusted with themselves and their desires.

GoldandGlowing · 2021-01-01T01:34:06+00:00

He’s sooooooo close to understanding and yet... doesn’t. Superior male logic strikes again.

PasDeTout · 2021-01-01T01:58:02+00:00

Ye olde Madonna/whore complex. I knew a man once who had kinks but he couldn’t do them with women he actually liked or respected so spent his time in relationships with women (often with BPD) who he thought were crazy b****** and was happy to cheat on.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-01-01T02:05:22+00:00

He has trouble sexually abusing his girlfriend, everyone. Like the women getting abused in his porn collection. Oh, whatever shall he do? What does it all mean? He's so confused.

Elisabeth-B · 2020-12-31T22:53:43+00:00

Omg. What a loser.

TheSuspiciousChard · 2021-01-01T00:59:46+00:00

I want to scream at dumb men useless in bed due to prom damaged brains:

OK BUT CAN YOU FIND THE CLIT?

No? Then shut up and sit down scrote.

DallasM19 · 2021-01-01T05:53:20+00:00

Just a friendly reminder than two terms used in this post mean rape. Noncon = non- consensual Freeuse = you can use your sex partner ( slave?) whenever, wherever for whatever. They think they're smart by thinking their GFS or whatever can blanket consent to any and all acts of sex ( rape?)moving forward. Their kink is that she can't say no, apparently. Disgusting.

letsberealforamoment · 2020-12-31T23:53:24+00:00

This guy is completely broken sexually. Broken in his mind, and his dick. He needs to avoid women and keep to porn.

dzgata · 2021-01-01T00:15:34+00:00

This guy desperately needs to seek therapy and stop watching porn but we all know these scrotes and pickmes on reddit will feed into his delusion and tell him he’s perfectly fine.

ivy176 · 2021-01-01T05:15:28+00:00

Can't enjoy sex with a consenting woman... wow I feel sooo sorry for him 😑

SpringJonesOcean · 2021-01-01T05:20:12+00:00

Uh, why not have a conversation with her. . .you know, warn her.

atuan · 2021-01-01T12:43:03+00:00

I don’t understand why men can’t fantasize about their girlfriends. I fantasize about people I’m in a relationship with and it gets better and better the more you do it. You can choose what you spend your mental energy on, why do they choose fetishes?

SarcasmSlide · 2021-01-01T16:49:15+00:00

Ladies I speak Scrote. Allow me to translate.

I generally think of myself as a pretty sexual person.

I jerk off to porn for hours a day. I call myself heterosexual but my real sexual orientation is pornsick.

I enjoy fantasizing about many scenarios and fetishes, including ones like BDSM...

The porn I jerk off to involves beating and torturing women. I like to imagine it’s me making her cry.

...freeuse...

I like women being used as passive, robotic sex dolls. I would love to fuck a woman I don’t have to interact with in any way.

...noncon...

I really like to watch women being raped on film. I fantasize about raping women but don’t want to go jail. Better get a girlfriend and rape her instead.

...MFM...

I’m allegedly heterosexual but I can’t get enough of watching other men’s dicks. I like to watch women being abused by more than one man at a time. I imagine coercing above-named girlfriend into letting one of my gamer buddies stick it in her ass.

...etc.

I’m willing to admit to all this depravity because porn is empowering and everyone watches it. But even I know some of the stuff I’m into is so depraved; so gross that I can’t admit I watch it. Even to other pornsick men. “Etc” should cover it.

...and I can’t bring myself to look at my girlfriend that way.

My girlfriend is a human being, and doesn’t have dead eyes like the girls I watch being beaten and raped. I spend all day tugging on my bent, semi-flaccid shrimp; pretending it’s me making that woman cry. Doing those things to my own girlfriend. Using her as a series of holes and discarding her like a broken toy. But she wants me to kiss her, and hold her, and look her in the eyes. She wants intimacy. I don’t have a fetish for intimacy.

I fear I’m starting to enjoy fantasizing about fetishes more than actually having sex.

Goddamn he’s so close. The Y chromosome isn’t coded for self-insight.

Best_Moon · 2021-01-01T14:13:42+00:00

This is what happens if a man's sexuality is nothing but fetishized violence against women: he hates the idea of someone "doing it to" his relatives (a popular insult among men), and he cannot consider "doing it to" a person he currently has romantic feelings for.

And then you have this virgin/whore dichotomy in which "respectable" women are expected to remain eternal virgins (instead of letting a man having sex with and i.e. violating them) while "fallen" and "low-status" women are used as orifices to masturbate into.

Obviously, a lose-lose situation that prevents women from being accepted as complete persons with bodies and minds.

keep_my_stuff · 2021-01-01T11:39:07+00:00

I almost feel for him. Well, almost, because I doubt he will get better or would be willing to feel for us.

Back when I was watching porn (1.5 years ago since I quit cold turkey) I did notice that the energy while watching porn and when I am with a partner is completely different (even though I would be aroused in both cases). I noticed this disconnect between, quite frankly, sadistically watching the degradation of other women, while wanting something wholesome for myself. So this is why I stopped watching porn. Will the guy do the same? I doubt it.

riseaboveagain · 2021-01-01T15:49:30+00:00

If this guy was worth two dirty socks, he’d be wondering about how he could please his girlfriend. But no. It’s all about MUH LIMP DICK. 🚮

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-01T00:29:11+00:00

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Title	It’s almost as if objectifying women is... bad??
Author	greenteaapplepie69
Upvotes	371
Comments	79
Date	December 31, 2020 10:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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