Is porn and online nudity in general giving YOUNG women wrong ideas about the male body?

ThinkerBunny · 2020-04-12T21:21:47+00:00

I think porn and online nudity gives both young women and young men the wrong ideas about bodies. The porn and online *ahem..'sex' worker* (sorry but sitting around chatting or just selling pics or masturbating by yourself isn't sex work) are populated by the best of the best and most visually desirable. Of course its going to give its viewers unrealistic expectations of sexual partners.

cloudydays84 · 2020-04-12T21:54:13+00:00

Reading some of the comments is alittle funny because it seems that men and women are both insecure about something that the other usually don't care about.

As much as men feel insecure about their size, stamina, body size, etc. In bed, these are things most women won't really care about if they are attracted to them.

I've seen just as many women feel insecure about things like breast size, ass size, cellulite, (without being too crass I've had one girl feel insecure about how dark her asshole was lol) which more often than not are things that guys don't really care about if they are attracted to them.

Overall, it seems like insecurity is the topic of the century lol. Personally I think mass media in general (whether it's tv, movies, porn, social media, etc) has made it a lot easier to make people feel insecure because it's easy to profit off those feelings.

DangZagnut · 2020-04-12T19:18:34+00:00

An average penis is about 5.5 inches.

Wait, that's average?

And here i thought my micro penis was average. Damn you mom. Yet another lie.

I think young women, these days, have learned they can massively monetize their sexuality for tax free money from everyone's favorite pay pigs, the glorious simps.

Only Fans and twitch make riches for bitches, so spread your twat to get a shot and the big bucks that come with simulated fucks.

That's what young girls today are being taught.

It's not men objectifying them, they're objectifying themselves.

For money. Always about money with you ladies. Oh well, hard work don't put bacon on the table.

Is there an Only Fans for a micro penis? I'm trying to cash in on this pandemic scam.

samwise-gamggee · 2020-04-12T21:14:11+00:00

yes, it does. i thought big dicks were average sized for a long time.

sternje · 2020-04-12T20:42:04+00:00

She likes big cocks and she cannot lie,

The otha sista's won't deny,

When man pulls down shorts and has an itty bitty thing,

She goes dry.

LadyFerretQueen · 2020-04-13T04:14:00+00:00

Nah. I barely saw porn before the age of 30. Once you go big dick, and GOOD big dick. You can never go back to any other kind. It's just how it is^^. Porn has nothing to do with it.

However, porn is messing up both young men and womens heads by not showing them how to actually have sex properly thus having a bunch of people running around fucking eachother and nobody knows what they are doing. Men have no clue how to actually make a woman feel good and women have no clue how to actually make a man feel good. It's really sad. They are like, just copy cating what they see instead of listening to how they feel for themselves. They aren't making love anymore.

AdolfGandi · 2020-04-12T22:21:04+00:00

Every year the average penis size goes up in womens eyes. It used to be 5.5, now women say it's six. Soon they'll be saying 7 or 8 is average and they'll call a 5.5 inch penis a micropenis.

Simp_Gulag · 2020-04-13T01:10:10+00:00

The funny thing is that the average used to be 6.0 and it turns out that the men in those studies were exaggerating so they now say 5.5

What I'd that is also an exaggeration?

Anyways girth> length

TeenyWeenyQueeny · 2020-04-12T21:54:49+00:00

Honestly, my “unrealistic expectation” came from the fact that my first boyfriend was “blessed” in that department and I hadn’t seen many penises apart from ones in biology diagrams so presumed he was average lol

A few years down the line I found out this was not the case at all.....

Grub09 · 2020-04-12T19:15:51+00:00

Dudes, only a small minority of “size queens” are running around with rulers, ok? It’s a fetish.

We just care how it feels and how you use it when you fuck US, not a porn actress.

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gschweska · 2020-04-13T00:06:02+00:00

Probably

2020-04-13T04:00:22+00:00

I woman's perception of size depends on how many partners she's had and how much porn she's watch.

If a less experienced girl watches porn, she expects her first penis to be around the same size. This is true if no one has pointed out to her the fantasy aspect of porn.

If a less experienced girl hasn't watched porn, she doesn't have much of and idea, unless she's happened to see her father's, brother's, etc just because they reside in the same house.

As far as a more experienced girl, she is PROBABLY more accepting of all size assuming they are good sizes. However, a subculture of them are size queens. Some of them can weed out the small dicks and never have sex with them again.

Women who are part of an insular "hookup" culture, like sorority girls, legit talk with other sisters and point out dick sizes and who that sister should hookup with.

A study a couple years ago revealed that American women prefer a penis around 6.4 inches long and a girth around 5 inches. There was some data that women preferred a longer penis for a non-serious relationship, and a slightly smaller one for her husband. The difference was negligible and you can pretty much throw that data out.

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0133079

A study by Lifestyle condoms put the American male average at around 5.8 inches. So, yeah..... women prefer larger than their partner can provide.

nevomintoarce · 2020-04-13T05:26:35+00:00

Why am I not surprised that OP doesn't also mention fit bodies?

Willow-girl · 2020-04-13T14:19:25+00:00

Country girls are ruined by getting a glimpse of the stallion or bull ...

901735 · 2020-04-12T20:27:04+00:00

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901735 · 2020-04-12T20:21:00+00:00

Yes it does affect what we believe is average but guys perception on how female bodies look is way more affected

2020-04-12T22:36:13+00:00

Porn but also real life is. Do small and smaller guys send dick pics?

If half of her first sexual experiences the guys have 7-8” 4-5” around and one is 3” and thick and can’t get a thrust and and one is 6” and slender, she’s going to expect that ratio to appear in her future.

If the big ones hurt her, she’s going to be okay with average. She might still want to look at big ones in porn, though. We aren’t looking at the guy’s faces.

toughenup2016 · 2020-04-13T01:51:39+00:00

Illustrious_Drive · 2020-04-13T04:49:52+00:00

spacechicken1990 · 2020-04-13T06:00:52+00:00

For me personally no, I was in a relationship from 14 to 20 (I'm 21 now) and had only seen my exs dick in action. But I had seen flaccid dicks at nude beaches or pools. By the time I'd watched porn I was well aware that not all dicks were the same size.

Zippo-Cat · 2020-04-13T10:04:47+00:00

Men in porn are generally average looking, maybe 7/10. So not really, no

2020-04-13T13:26:59+00:00

Personally I don't like huge, hung, over grown dicks. They scare me and do not turn me on.

If a guy showed up with a huge dick I would actually run away.

2020-04-13T14:15:51+00:00

there are NOT big dicks everywhere in porn. Most dicks in porn are mad average unless you specifically type in, ahem something in particular like BBC or whatever. To a young woman whom has never had sex or hasn’t had sexual with an unusually big dick, most dicks can feel good to her, unless it’s a micro penis and that’s just unfortunate. If she does kegels she can grip it well and it would be a fun sexual experience for her and him. So Don’t be insecure about your dick size. Young women who are watching porn but have never experienced sex or haven’t had multiple partners, are just intrigued by it in general I think. If she has enough sense to realize that she looks nothing like porn actresses then hopefully she knows that all men don’t look like porn actors.

LadyFerretQueen · 2020-04-13T14:22:52+00:00

Here's the thing. In this case perception shouldn't change much because of the simple fact that a big penis hurts most of us. So men really should stop worrying about that.

ari_thot_le · 2020-04-13T19:06:56+00:00

I personally haven’t come across a woman who’s so horny she regularly watches porn to the extent it blurs her idea of what’s normal but also hasn’t had any real world experience. The reason men’s perceptions are so warped, especially at a young age, is that porn is their only access to the female body. A 16 year old girl that watches porn daily and gets off to the dude’s dicks but can’t get any real life action does not exist!

What I think throws some women off is that every dude lies about his dick length. So some girl will think she’s a size queen that only likes 8 inch dicks when in reality her ex boyfriend was 6 and telling her 8. That is the much more likely explanation for why women’s perceptions would be off — no woman’s only reference point for the male body is sex

Superfluous_Toast · 2020-04-13T20:33:40+00:00

I can only speak from experience, but even when I first stumbled across porn as a teenager, I didn't really care about the bodies pictured so much as what they were doing. So no, it had exactly zero effect on my standards.

xXxINCELFAGGOTxXx · 2020-04-12T19:46:58+00:00

Why are there so many posts in this subreddit about mens penises? Once again their biggest concern is what women think about their penises, nothing new to see here.

2020-04-12T22:16:34+00:00

Yeah. Women would totally love small dicks if it wasn’t for art. No physiological reason at all why a bigger dock would be more appealing nope. Not at all.

saladfingers4141 · 2020-04-12T19:44:22+00:00

Doesn't seem likely. Seems like older experienced girls are more likely to seek out big dicks if that's their thing.

majani · 2020-04-12T22:22:43+00:00

Back in college I had an ex who legitimately believed those 18 inch Monsters of Cock prosthetics were real. This was before ubiquitous tube porn though, so I wonder if she'd just seen photos only

softhandsam · 2020-04-12T19:17:02+00:00

I think any woman who's smart enough to realize that her body, her friends' bodies don't look like perfect pornstars, are also smart enough to realize that most men don't have pornstar sized dicks.

Title	Is porn and online nudity in general giving YOUNG women wrong ideas about the male body?
Author	ColCrin
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Date	April 12, 2020 7:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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