Men who request female only housemates are creepy af tbh.

elementalvirago · 2020-05-25T17:41:32+00:00

“I have my own reasons and you wouldn’t be interested if you knew what they were!!”

There. Fixed it for ya buddy.

ParticularMonth0 · 2020-05-25T17:34:13+00:00

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Saitschik · 2020-05-25T17:57:39+00:00

I have lived with men (my age) as flatmates. They never harrassed me or whatever but especially when it was just me and another guy they started to become somewhat possessive at one point. One hated my boyfriend without any reason, another didn't like it when I spent the whole day in my room without hanging out with him and so on.

Men can't handle it. If you are their flatmate they are forced to see you as a real person because they get to know you. Because they usually treat women like objects they tend to develop feelings. Or they start to treat you like their girlfriend in one way or the other and try to dominate you

LadyGrimes · 2020-05-25T17:28:32+00:00

Yep never trust them. They just want access to a vulnerable woman. They probably have the room rigged to record you, the bathroom too. Always be paranoid because it will save your life.

Lavender_flow · 2020-05-25T18:26:08+00:00

He looks like a fat turd. Wish he would go flush himself down the toilet to the sewers where he belongs.

onefoulowl · 2020-05-25T18:37:40+00:00

He's definitely looking for sex for rent.

giftofnocondemnation · 2020-05-25T18:48:20+00:00

He wants a woman roommate so he doesn't have to wine and dine the vagina. The vagina is already in his house!! Very low effort attempt to use a woman as a toy.

Neorago · 2020-05-25T17:22:11+00:00

One time I was looking for a room to rent and specifically requested female only flatmates. Of course, I got a reply from a male, with something to the effect of: "I have a place in XYZ. If you are interested let me know, it's very cheap if you agree to do the washing and cooking lol"

gcthrowaway2019 · 2020-05-25T19:50:55+00:00

They're still in the housing section of Craigslist too. Saw an ad that said he didn't want to live with a guy bc he's not gay. What's really interesting is that the guys posting ads asking specifically for male-only roommates ARE gay (only exceptions were halfway/rehab housing).

AyemHerself · 2020-05-25T21:43:07+00:00

Back when I was on Fetlife there was a "Dominant" man constantly posting in the local groups looking for a female roommate. I asked why he specified female only, he got defensive and started blowing up my inbox. A friend of mine who saw the public post reached out to me later and confirmed the old dude was just looking for a live-in submissive partner.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-05-25T18:59:54+00:00

He probably doesn't have contact with a woman at all. Having a female housemate guarantees that he's gonna talk with a woman in a semi-regular basis.

One of the reasons why women don't like typical nerds is that there are barely any women in their fields, and they don't talk to any in their private lives unless it's service jobs. So the moment there's a woman within shot they are going to be weird around her.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-05-25T19:26:19+00:00

The depth of male depravity is truly infinite. I hope you reported this housing ad for discrimination.

I can't believe this. Just when I thought I'd seen it all.

TheSatanicVegan · 2020-05-26T01:28:12+00:00

I moved out from under my ex and now live with 2 guys idek. One is an alcoholic and the other is a firefighter that is never home nor gives me issues. But the one who is an alcoholic drinks my beer without asking me, I have to TELL him to fucking clean the his cat's litter box he leaves in the empty bedroom bathroom like I'm his damn mom. He huffed and puffed outside my bedroom door drunk when his cat LICKED peppermint and was mad I wouldn't come out to handle the situation. Texting me "what are you doing?"

Like MANCHILD WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHAT AM I DOING? He acted like the cat ate the peppermint (which is poisonous to kitties). The cat just licked it a few times.

I can not WAIT for him to leave to go on his internship. I called him out on drinking my beer and now he walks around giving me the stank eye after he went and bought me a six pack and I haven't opened it yet. Like what, you waiting for me to do so, so you can steal them again???

Like, get over yourself- SO PATHETIC.

/rant

Thank you for letting me vent.

Edit: spelling

Novemberinthechair · 2020-05-26T05:57:27+00:00

He's a potential rapist. That's all. They don't know the meaning of the word platonic. Ergo any male suitors who come around are competition. Unless your sharing space with a Sherlock Holmes type, you're going to have a problem. These guys are basically thinking, "She's mine!" They want a live in woman to own.

EarthFathers · 2020-05-26T14:07:37+00:00

No sensible woman would want to live alone with a creepy guy who doesn’t understand basic English grammar.

hilariouslystated · 2020-05-26T13:40:14+00:00

When I was looking for affordable housing in college, I was actually surprised at how many old creepy men were offering affordable or free housing for college women in exchange for sex. It was disgusting. They try to use every situation to get their dicks wet.

2020-05-26T16:33:57+00:00

I'm currently in university and I see so many men looking for all female housemates. I just know they think they are getting a maid or a girlfriend by only rooming with women. Of course, those are the posts that never get any replies, by men or women.

They don't seem to realize they would be much more successful at getting a female housemate if they did not specify gender, as it comes across as a huge red flag. Although at least when they do specify gender, we know who to filter out so I would prefer that they keep doing this and never get any response.

Elelavrie · 2020-05-26T18:34:36+00:00

Run! Run! Run! At the very least there are cameras hidden all over the place.

jennaxxxxxx · 2020-05-26T06:07:21+00:00

Ew. Red flag alert 100%.

Title	Men who request female only housemates are creepy af tbh.
Author	PrincessLevelUp
Upvotes	337
Comments	65
Date	May 25, 2020 5:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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