She‘s a very liberal feminist (all my friends are), feeling empowered by making the first step, always paying half, and feels proud for „taking what she wants“ (=sleeping with strangers). I love her and don‘t judge, but it makes me feel sad that she doesn‘t see how much of a disservice this behavior is to herself.

Yesterday, the condom ripped while she had sex with a guy she met on a party, and she just sent me a message about how impressed she was that he was so kind to go with her to the hospital, and how he „even paid half for the morning-after pill!!“ Now she agreed to see him again, because even though the sex was bad, he really gained her respect for being so supportive. How on earth is HE praised for showing the bare minimum of human decency, while she puts her body through such a turmoil while he doesn‘t even carry the full financial costs??? The bar is SO low and it makes me feel lonely that my friends don‘t realize it