Don't be like her

LaBaronessa · 2020-07-14T14:04:45+00:00

I had a friend who prided herself on "I'm the kinda girl that right after I suck your dick I'll make you a sandwich" and she'd brag about it to all of us on girls nights while we're here like 🤷🏽‍♀️ oh kay? Want a cookie?

jenneschguet · 2020-07-14T14:34:45+00:00

I see posts and bios like this all over Tinder and other dating subs, and I just feel like we’re failing our young women. There’s a difference between being sex-positive and demeaning yourself.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-07-14T14:28:59+00:00

This translates to "I like male validation too much to realize I'm devaluing myself"

2020-07-14T13:57:24+00:00

cringe

hilariouslystated · 2020-07-14T15:14:45+00:00

No wife duties for boyfriends.

loudest_gusset · 2020-07-14T14:56:44+00:00

Biiig cringe. I wouldn't mind making pancakes, though, but only if I want them first since I'm making them anyway. When my bf says he's in the mood for pancakes/waffles/etc, I just ask him where are you taking me for brunch then?

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2020-07-14T14:44:54+00:00

Suck u up? No🤦‍♀️

Summerisle7 · 2020-07-14T15:06:57+00:00

I thought this was going to be a post about “don’t do wifey things if you’re not a wife” which I agree with... then I noticed it’s a post about sex desperation as well. A two-for!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-15T00:12:02+00:00

"I think I'm a servant. Isn't that fantastic?! Please pick me." 🤡

Hipster-Aurora · 2020-07-14T16:26:35+00:00

I hope since this is on tumblr she's just young and naive :/

2020-07-14T16:37:05+00:00

Obviously didn’t work cause she’s still single

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-07-14T17:31:24+00:00

Yuck

nr2596 · 2020-07-14T21:02:40+00:00

I would rather do literally ANYTHING else

Unlikely-Marzipan · 2020-07-14T18:19:49+00:00

No way! The guy I’m with now gets me wine and dinner if I stay over, and will either take me out for breakfast in the morning or bring me breakfast in bed.

There was only one time I did it for him, which was when his close relative died, and he was really devastated. But the time after that he got right back to getting it for me.

Edit - but my closest girlfriends are all like this woman. And every single one of them is stunning and intelligent and caring, but the guys do not commit to them of value them. They conveniently forget their wallets, or will get the women to open multiple bottles of wine they have in their home to “taste test”, the women even drive them around or pay for the guys Uber home. and this is all without even a girlfriend title.

idiopathictendencies · 2020-07-14T16:03:45+00:00

Sorry, I’m busy dude 😂

confused_desklamp · 2020-07-14T21:22:47+00:00

ew if i ever go into housewife mode u bet its gonna be because i'm cosplaying a stepford wife but even the chances of that are slim

Pudding5050 · 2020-07-14T15:59:41+00:00

Start with the housewife role and you'll never leave it, girl. It may seem cute in the beginning but it's a shit place to be later on when you're more of a housemaid than a partner.

throwaway93731 · 2020-07-15T02:07:30+00:00

I think the man should make me pancakes and bacon every morning and “suck me up” whenever I want, how bow dat

AngstyVillager · 2020-07-14T16:19:20+00:00

Reducing yourself to a place for some scrote who jerks it to degrading porn while you're gone.

Caedere01 · 2020-07-15T05:47:12+00:00

Has nobody seen the original thread? After this her boyfriend calls her out, she never does shit like this. She apparently "can't even make pancakes".

Why does a girl feel obligated to say things like this? That's my only question.

ErikaNaumann · 2020-07-14T19:41:50+00:00

Oh damn. I wish I could get a guy like that. Pancakes every morning? Wow.

lilithdianara · 2020-07-15T02:37:53+00:00

The pick-me that I was months ago would have felt so called out. 🤣

Title	Don't be like her
Author	appleadam123
Upvotes	242
Comments	36
Date	July 14, 2020 1:40 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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