MEN WANT DEBT FREE VIRGINS!11 Nah, they want anyone they can control.

Sage_Planter · 2020-12-27T04:39:06+00:00

Strong independent career women divorce men because they add little to no meaningful value to their lives. As we've advanced in our careers, providing more financially security to our families, men still expect us to take on the lion's share of the household and childcare duties. We've all seen the countless posts here of men playing dumb and pretending to be unable of doing basic tasks. Somehow 50/50 only extends to the money.

What smart woman wants to work 9-5 then come home to pick up some scrote's socks off the floor despite countless attempts to "nag" him otherwise? One day, these women wake up and realize they'd be doing less work if they were single.

And frankly, many men just don't get it. In another sub earlier this week, a man asked if women would date a man who made 30% less than her. I said sure, I would, but he'd have to happily and willingly be very involved in both chores and childcare. The response I got was essentially "well, what if he works a really physically demanding job meaning his wife has to take on all the household chores?" Um. No thank you. Why on Earth would a woman ever sign up for that? What is remotely attractive about being the breadwinner and the one who has to do everything around the house?

riseaboveagain · 2020-12-27T04:55:37+00:00

Yes.

The man cheats, the woman initiates divorce.

The man plays video games all day, the woman initiates divorce.

The man doesn't help with childcare or housework, the woman initiates divorce.

The man doesn't put any effort into romance, the woman initiates divorce.

The man watches porn, the woman initiates divorce.

But yes. Let's all blame the woman for the divorce.

College-educated women are simply in a better place financially to live single so they initiate the divorce. Uneducated women do not have the financial freedom to leave a bad man.

Chubby-Lovie · 2020-12-27T05:06:53+00:00

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Samvanderkamp123 · 2020-12-27T05:33:51+00:00

College-educated women can afford to get divorced.

There are so many women stuck in miserable marriages who can’t afford to leave, either because they are SAHMs or because they can’t cover the cost of childcare.

souredskittles · 2020-12-27T04:57:20+00:00

Lol we basically have everything we NEED. We want a man too but only in our own terms, otherwise pretty useless.

What are they going to do in the future when more women get into higher education?

Espionagess · 2020-12-27T07:28:31+00:00

Women with their own $ are harder to abuse because they can leave. Scrotes like this are just admitting they want a woman they can trap and abuse. Why would her freedom be a problem otherwise?

Kimpractical · 2020-12-27T05:28:38+00:00

So the women who tend to initiate divorce more often are the smart ones... oh okay, got it 👍

ShoshannaDreyfus · 2020-12-27T06:29:06+00:00

A University degree is LVM repellent, remember that ladies

spicyspa · 2020-12-27T05:29:52+00:00

Best Christmas present I ever got!

IAteTheDragon · 2020-12-27T10:27:02+00:00

I'm not remarkably educated nor career-oriented, but I won't mind If they steer away from me too 😏

Not_Main_Acct · 2020-12-27T13:12:39+00:00

I've had friends who quit to become stay at home parents. They were in "okay marriages" (not worth it by FDSb standards but in their eyes it was good) but once they stayed home to raise the kids, everything about their okay husband transformed into a monster. One of the women in certain is in an abusive relationship. One woman I'm really close to and sent money to help leave the scum bag who cheated on her HUNDREDS of times has just gone back to him because of money. Bastard gave you herpes and loaded a porn of him fucking your neighbor online.... But "he has a sex addiction".... Oh for fuck sakes. It all comes down to the money. All of them would leave if they had the money to keep the quality of life they have now for their kids. All of them wouldn't even think twice about it if they had their own careers and knowledge of their self worth.

I'm stubborn enough that I'd leave a bad relationship into a lifestyle significantly worse than what I have now.... But I won't be dumb and lie that it wouldn't be hard to do and a hard decision to make. But I'm educated, have degrees, and a work history - there's a rebound in sight if something like that happened. Uneducated women or those who have taken a long break from work have it much harder than I do.... And those women with kids have the trifecta of difficulties working against their independence.

ItsFreezen · 2020-12-27T11:49:47+00:00

And Greg will still ask you to split the bills.

YesPleaseMadam · 2020-12-27T13:54:48+00:00

wow. could it be that educated women don’t want to be sex slaves to below average men with small penises and a porn addiction? or maybe they don’t want to be slaves slaves to husbands who can’t cook, can’t clean and can’t even remember to take the trash out by themselves? on the other hand it could really be that these men call themselves traditional and go around asking their wives for half of everything because they don’t have good enough jobs to provide, but still want to be the boss of these women?

anyway, as jessica walters would say: good for her!

CatlovesMoca · 2020-12-27T13:06:01+00:00

Even outside of college educated women, women are the ones who usually initiate divorce. So maybe men need to see why 50% of their marriages are ending in divorce

seraphinelysion · 2020-12-27T17:24:26+00:00

You know, I would really love some solid studies or statistics on how 90% of those divorces initiated by women happen because men are just literally too fuckin lazy to fill out the paperwork themselves. I say this from experience. My ex packed up his shit and physically left the state. I gave him his half of the paperwork to fill out and he said he would get it back to me when he could. A year later and I was still asking for them and he kept saying he would send them out and then he NEVER DID. We agreed to divorce amicably and not to involve lawyers because of the cost. Guess who ended up having to hire a lawyer so we could finally get the divorce official?! ME!!! Women initiate divorces? Yeah, probably because she has to do every fuckin thing for a man. Get me some stats on how lazy a typical man is and you're bound to see a correlation there.

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2020-12-27T08:44:42+00:00

Yessss please stay away

missingmykitties · 2020-12-27T20:48:07+00:00

Read something similar 20+ years ago--women of all socioeconomic groups usually are the ones to initiate the divorce and men are many times just blindsided by it, because he thought everything was fine. As in, fine enough for the man to live with, and he mistakenly did not take the wife's concerns and complaints seriously. Until she's tried, again and again, then she's done, and she files. Saw it happen with my own parents, and even the end of a relationship I had (albeit not a marriage/divorce situation, he was just shocked I was serious). Just that the man does not take her seriously until she's walking out the door, and it's over for her.

Breesasha · 2020-12-27T18:20:26+00:00

Strong independent HVW with degrees don't stay in relationships with men who don't value and appreciate them. Why would I stay when I can pay my own bills? I can handle my own finances?! I got a retirement fund. I keep a clean, organized house. I can do small repairs around the house or find a handyman. I'm not stuck relying on a man for support.

I know that some women want marriage to legitimize their kids or their cohabitation but I feel like I would rather be divorced or single instead of married just in name alone. I want to be in a healthy, committed relationship where I can have honesty, communication and monogomous. If I can't have that, I rather be single.

Men are threatened when the power isn't 100% in their control. If they have the better job/make more money, they can control purchases and guaranteed the women won't typically leave or whatever.

nyclaurco · 2020-12-27T19:19:30+00:00

why buy the pig if you’re already getting the sausage?

PasDeTout · 2020-12-27T19:41:55+00:00

College educated married couples are the least likely to divorce overall so men can take consolation in that.

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Title	MEN WANT DEBT FREE VIRGINS!11 Nah, they want anyone they can control.
Author	Chubby-Lovie
Upvotes	806
Comments	51
Date	December 27, 2020 4:20 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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