Wife threatens divorce any time we have a major argument. I’m exhausted. I’m the primary provider. Four kids. Very decent income. She makes about 1/3 of my income. She says I’m a great dad but a very bad husband. Whenever I set boundaries, she thinks it’s tyranny. I hate for her to rip our family apart. The kids will be devastated. We tried therapy but she hated the part that she had to take accountability and we stopped. Deep in my heart I wish I could save our marriage but I’m afraid it may be too late. I’m so distressed.