Approximately 6 months into this process and I just found out that my stbxw was cheating. What a shame. She filled, stating that our marriage was “irretrievably broken “. She never put in real effort in counseling. Now I know the reason why. She was having an affair and apparently had a replacement lined up.

I wonder why she was sneaky about it despite the fact that we are going through a divorce. We still live in the same house. This past weekend, she told me and the kids that she was going for a work related training out of town but instead she spent the weekend with her affair partner in a hotel about 15 minutes away from our house. She was spotted at the movie theater and hotel with her AP. I now look at her with renewed disgust. I was faithful for 17 years. What a shame. She had no qualms lying to me and our 4 kids.