Red Pillers, you aren’t single because you’re too short, your face is ugly, or because you’re not making six figures, it’s because your personality is shit

sernamedeleted · 2022-01-26T23:24:46+00:00

Relationships are based on open and honest communication between mature consenting adults who treat each other with respect and share common interests and compatible life goals.

BubbhaJebus · 2022-01-27T03:43:01+00:00

RP: "Females aren't as smart as men and should be servile to men."

Also RP: "Why don't females like me?"

TreyTrey23 · 2022-01-27T15:13:12+00:00

Several of the men in my circle of friends are 5'8 and below and multiple times I've seen them get girls that were over 6 feet and "out of their league". It's amazing what confidence and a personality that isn't as bland as cardboard will do.

Willing-Insurance654 · 2022-01-27T05:29:38+00:00

So how would you say someone should go about improving their personality?

Big-Bonkin-Head · 2022-01-27T02:01:45+00:00

I’m 6’5 and I’ve seen guys shorter than me get more play. My issue was confidence, you gotta own who you are in every aspect of your life. That’s true confidence

positivecel · 2022-01-29T16:08:43+00:00

And when an ugly men whos poor will change his personality he will still be an incel and will be more radicalized

I think the reason why most incels are incels is bc they didn't have a good development, they lack social skills, self-improvement etc...

live_long_n_prosper · 2022-01-27T00:47:32+00:00

Or their standards are too rigid

Sent_Angel_of_Death · 2022-01-27T22:59:21+00:00

Red Pillers, you aren’t single because you’re too short, your face is ugly, or because you’re not making six figures, it’s because your personality is shit

I completely agree. The problem I find here is everyone is encapsulating (no pun intended) anything associated with red pill as if every aspect of it is negative and the logical conclusion from this perspective is that anyone defending any aspect of anything someone said who has been identified as a red pill content creator equates to a total defense of everything people claim the red pill is.

If you're a guy, don't be a dick. If you're a girl, don't put up with a guy being a dick to you.

Radiant_Specific6542 · 2022-02-15T20:43:20+00:00

I find this funny. I've had/have massive success with women, currently in a 5 year relationship and I can honestly say that my biggest win/stretch in terms of success with women was when my personality was objectively the worse, narcissistic, and lacking empathy.

I came off a stretch of losing 150 pounds. I'm tall at 6'4, and I had a well paying career (still do just different kind now). I was literally a douche bag because I was self absorbed, lacked empathy, and said atrocious things towards women.

They didn't care. They cared I was tall, good looking/in shape, and had money. I've since calmed down with that, I decided to stop talking to almost all those women and be intentionally on who I date and why. Basically stop hooking up with women and date with a purpose. Not a shocker that I'm in a 5 year relationship now BUT!

But it still blows my mind that women begged for my attention when I treated them like trash. Some of thise women still do. They won't leave me alone. No amount of blocking has helped. That know I'm in a relationship too.

Anyway there's my two cents. Red pill definitely has toxicity in it BUT they do speak a lot of truths.

Yesm3can · 2022-01-27T03:54:30+00:00

Uhh...this is well meaning but not always the reality. Come on, appearance matter for a lot. There is a reason why beauty industry is making as much killing as it is.

Saying that it is only the matters of personality only create incels and femcels. And the many 'I love my partner but I am not sexually attracted to them' threads.

flakybottom · 2022-01-27T18:32:26+00:00

So how are all the guys with shit personalities in relationships?

Carloverguy20 · 2022-01-28T23:39:55+00:00

Redpillers date the wrong types of women, then they say stuff like "Western women are bad" "Feminism destroyed society" basically projecting their failed experiences onto others.

Extension_Ad_439 · 2022-01-30T03:43:35+00:00

When did "Red Pill" come to mean a cross between incel and PUA? What about MGTOWs and MRA?

nocapnosleep · 2022-01-27T07:29:09+00:00

I don't get why people in this sub push this personality narrative. Sure, personality matters a lot in sustaining a healthy relationship but to get into a relationship the more attractive you are the more easier and likely you will in one.

A lot of people fall into red pill/black pil because of this "personality matters", "be yourself" bs, and when that doesn't work they fall into the red pill rabit hole.

Thucydidnt · 2022-01-27T02:06:51+00:00

People with bad, mean or rude personalities never get laid. Not once has a sexist ever had sex. Doesn't happen

Booda069 · 2022-01-27T00:28:43+00:00

We have to be real with reach other it's because they are "ugly".....being short and ugly is adding insult to injury. Y'all know it's true.

No_Tomorrow5475 · 2022-01-27T02:28:11+00:00

i kinda disagree. While personality usually comes first, looks do play a part. If youre not conventially attractive youre gonna have a harder time finding a partner. That still doesnt excuse being sexist or rude because everyone wants a good looking partner and we shouldnt blame them for that

Moldy_Gecko · 2022-01-27T03:42:55+00:00

This is a bit disingenuous. I found RP when I was in a deadbedrooms situation with my ex wife. It took about 2 years trying to work out and work on myself before I was confident enough ro divorce her. I was single by choice and averaged a little over 1 new girl every 2 weeks or so.

Now, what is true is that TRPers are younger than ever and being angry that they're a 17 yo virgin before they ever tried. Then we have the mid 20s guus that were those 17 yo virgin TRPers, so they've never looked at women any other way. And then you have the old schoolers who maybe had a shit mom or bad/no male role model so they never learned how to be confident. I think those last guys is who TRP was for originally. I dunno, I'm sleepy and talking out my ass. Maybe I was an exception, not the rule

Yupperdoodledoo · 2022-01-27T03:47:28+00:00

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WhoDoomsTheDoomer · 2022-01-27T07:08:17+00:00

There are plenty of people with shit personalities in relationships but you people just conveniently ignore that because it doesn't fit into your narrow worldview

Naus1987 · 2022-01-27T16:54:45+00:00

I think red pill does a great job exposing flaws in society. The truth is, all genders have issues.

If the divorce rate is like 50% it’s that way for a reason. Does half the population have shitty personalities, or is there something more complex at play?

AggroWeasel · 2024-01-19T17:54:28+00:00

Wrong. Physically attractive guys with horrible personalities have zero problem getting laid.

jellogecko826 · 2024-02-07T15:39:53+00:00

I’m single because of all these reasons

Electronic_Leave_477 · 2022-01-27T00:28:02+00:00

I disagree I think looks are most important in dating. Then personality comes second

Thounumber1 · 2022-01-27T20:57:13+00:00

Coaching can help people improve their personality, and can help guide them through the self development process

ShortSkinnyUglyPaki · 2022-01-27T21:59:33+00:00

Personality means nothing. The Manosphere is right.

Several-Buy5702 · 2022-01-27T01:59:51+00:00

Ive heard this take at least 1,000 times before, and so has every red-pilled douche and every incel. They even have a specific term for this argument, it's called the blue pill!

The blue pill talking point is great for farming Twitter likes and reddit karma, but when it comes to actually combating the spread of red pill ideology, it accomplishes the exact opposite.

No-Recording-8670 · 2022-01-27T14:40:09+00:00

!!!!

lawrencep93 · 2022-01-27T22:29:53+00:00

I agree that perhaps bootr camps and learning from the wrong people is not going to help, but if your personality is shit wouldn't it be worth while working with a proper coach (not a pick up/dating type) to remove any blocks, allowing ones real personality out or working on building and improving oneself to have a better personality.

How do you propose one improves their personality, as my limited understanding is that many elements of learning "game" was to improve ones personality?

jancasami · 2022-01-31T11:29:47+00:00

you are mistaking red pill with black pill and pua, educate yourself goofy blue pill

AutoModerator · 2022-02-01T11:15:15+00:00

Am exredpill but speak for yourself. My personality is pretty good, so miss me with that shit.

InsideAd9871 · 2022-02-15T04:42:10+00:00

I disagree completely

Title	Red Pillers, you aren’t single because you’re too short, your face is ugly, or because you’re not making six figures, it’s because your personality is shit
Author	Imper000
Upvotes	282
Comments	184
Date	January 26, 2022 11:04 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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