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Sage_Planter · 2020-05-18T18:50:30+00:00

Preach.

For younger and less experienced women in this community, I can't emphasize how true this is. When I lived with my ex, my life was so much harder than it is now. For example, I wrongfully assumed he'd be the one to take the garbage bins out every week. Instead, not only did I have to take the garbage bins out, I had more trash to clean up around the house, and it was insulting every time I got home after him to find the empty bins at the curb.

DejaBlue_Chump · 2020-05-18T19:10:32+00:00

Yes. That is so, so true. After a hellish divorce from a LVM I have created a home environment that is peaceful and tranquil. It would take an amazing HVM to even get me to consider making room for him in my private space.

ms_monquis · 2020-05-18T22:10:05+00:00

This also underlines the value of living by yourself — not permanently, necessarily, but it’s something everyone should do. Learn yourself.

lifeincoolcolours · 2020-05-18T21:28:48+00:00

100% this. And to be fair, no one in my life has, to this point, ever come close to it. I’m looking forward to enjoying plenty of years of blissful solitude ❤️

PoeticINFP · 2020-05-19T01:07:19+00:00

Yup. I’m very introverted and love living alone. No matter society tries to convince us that we need a mate to be happy or lots of friends. For me being alone is sooo peaceful, I know how to entertain myself. I almost let society convince me that I was mistaken and was actually unhappy alone and then pushed myself into relationships that didn’t work (because I couldn’t be motivated to maintain something that wasn’t adding value, and disturbing my peace). Probably why I always felt relieved when they ended.

awreathafranklin · 2020-05-18T21:43:54+00:00

I love this. And I loved living this until I was all alone from quarantine. I don't mean for this space to be filled by a man, but how are y'all coping with quarantine?

seraphinelysion · 2020-05-18T19:01:52+00:00

How do I upvote this more than once????????

flvctvatnecmergitvr_ · 2020-05-18T19:47:29+00:00

Words which I align with

Sea_Hag · 2020-05-18T22:13:17+00:00

I'm printing this and putting it on my fridge. Perfectly said.

randomgirlimok · 2020-05-18T23:44:24+00:00

Totally agree with this, but a pickme will use it to justify being a booty call. Exact words from a pickme friend: “I’m a busy person and I never want to live with a guy again due to my last relationship being so bad. This new guy I’m seeing is really busy too, so maybe we can make a relationship out of just seeing each other for sex.”

BestestUsernameEvah · 2020-05-19T01:51:21+00:00

Instead of competing against your comfort zone, they are competing against your happiness.

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-05-18T20:19:56+00:00

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geekyspacegirl420 · 2020-05-19T02:49:54+00:00

Wow! This is how I completely feel and said so perfectly

Pasdepromesses · 2020-05-18T19:01:40+00:00

🙌🏼

munissa · 2020-05-18T19:03:27+00:00

Yessssss.

whatifitwazs · 2020-05-18T19:20:54+00:00

I follow this guy on Instagram! He writes so many amazing things.

prettyexcitingnews · 2020-05-19T17:49:52+00:00

So true no one can disrupt my comfort zone 😤

Title	100%
Author	Lulupy
Upvotes	2979
Comments	74
Date	May 18, 2020 6:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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