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[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 474 points475 points476 points 5 years ago (46 children) | Copy Link
Let's not forget about the extremely high rates of marital rapes.
Approximately one third of women report having 'unwanted sex' with their partner.
[–]mxmoonFDS Newbie 89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I haven’t reported mine. Cops are awful. I don’t want to relive my trauma only to be dismissed and harassed again.
[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 45 points46 points47 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same sis. Sending you hugs. I know how much it hurts.
[–]VigorousBeanFlickingFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same. And mine is a cop - there was no way I was going to be believed.
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 127 points128 points129 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It’s such a sad reality- also it’s horrifying how marital rape was only introduced as a criminal offence in the early 90s (in England & Wales)
[–]zombieggsFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
In USA there were exceptions for husbands as well until 1993
[–]QueenJillybeanFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this was how trump got off what he did to Ivana and his other wives
[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know right. This disgusts me.
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[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 117 points118 points119 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Yup. And be careful of pickmeishas also, they won't have your back in case anything happens.
[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 87 points88 points89 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Just read a post on how a pickmeisha let a guy rape her friend when she was drunk.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Oh my word, what?! 💔💔💔
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[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Friends letting guys rape their friends who are drunk?!
And dear God, I am so beyond sorry that happened to you! How are you doing now?
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[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Holy God in heaven, that's beyond deplorable! I'm completely stunned about that! I know years ago when my friends and I found out that girls were being raped and sexually assaulted in the middle of the dance floor at our favorite under 21 club we let each other know and made sure we never went back there again! None of us were really big drinkers or in the party scene so I don't know if that's a difference or not? That would be interesting to find out. I feel like all of us pretty much looked out for each other but I don't know how it was in other situations with other people if you know what I mean.
Again I am so sorry you went through that and I am so glad that you're away from those people and in a better place!!! Sending you big warm bear hugs, sis! 🤗🤗🤗
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[–]BiscuitWoofFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I was assaulted and my ‘friends’ left me for dead. When I tried to talk about it after, they just said ‘oh he’s just like that’ and made excuses for him.
[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This is insanely fucked up.
[–]BiscuitWoofFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you. It’s a horrible feeling when you go through assault but people don’t mention that when your friends don’t believe you and abandon you, it feels worse as though you’re reliving the assault all over again.
[–]IllTill3859FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This happened to me as well. When he was done he had the audacity to state, “ I dont know you, I just got to know you recently.” So you don’t know me but you know me well enough to rape me without a condom? Idiot. I don’t drink in the company of men ever since that day. Matter of fact, I only drink with 2 female friends.
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[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People are in so much denial about it happening and there's still some people out there who will ask what you were wearing and who will blame the victim because of her outfit or drinking or whatever and too many people who will still try to argue that women are just as horrible as men and that they're just as many horrible women as men which is absolute b*******!
There are so many of us who have these stories and it's not just one or two instances with a crappy boyfriend although that would be bad enough. It's a constancy that occurs as soon as you hit puberty if not sooner. And it's literally occurring in just about every sphere you're in!
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Disciple 60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Those are only the reported numbers too.
[–]Annies231FDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel like 1/3 is low.
[–]ZayelleFDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As another queen stated, these are only the reported numbers. I can't imagine how much it really is.
[–]Ok-Woodpecker4479 149 points150 points151 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Or in my case..
*shows picture after picture of soon to be ex-husband buying sex from teenagers.
But of course he got away with it all because #misogyny
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg, I'm so sorry... That's so awful. Good for you divorcing his ass.
[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
😬 what the actual hell?! He got away with this?!!!!
I found pics in my ex's phone while we were dating of a group of high school kids he had worked with for a summer. He was trying to be the cool manager and would take them bowling and stuff after work. One was just a group pic of them. The next pic was a zoomed in cropped pic of the girl in the group whom was under 18. He was 37. I have literally never been so shaken up in my life.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my word......That's disturbing af! It blows my mind how many generations of women have had to deal with much older men pulling crap like this in some form. And people wonder why we're angry.
[–]helena939392FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Omfg. I also remember when I found my ex's secret Kik account, he had some actual 15-year-olds as contacts there, just a bunch of teenagers and obviously for some dirty talk as it was a secret account and Kik doesn't save conversations once you log out. So in addition to being a psychopath he was a pedophile.
[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
EW! I'm sorry! 🤢
That moment when you realize you're not dealing with just a typical jerk nor only a freaky psychopath, but also a full blown pedophile...
[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 146 points147 points148 points 5 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
A survey in the early 2000s that allowed men to respond anonymously found 65% of men answered they would rape a woman if they were guaranteed to get away with it. More than half the guys you encounter would be cool raping you if it didn't blow back on them.
[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 91 points92 points93 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
But men are the protectors /s
[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well sure they are - they protect their "rights" to have sex with you and they protect their interests in being the only guy they know who has !
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Is there a link to that survey? And damn, that's disturbing & terrifying af!
[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Sorry I encountered it back in the day.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Gotcha! So I did a Google search on it and I'm still going through things because I got stuck in a psychology today article that was trying to argue against the results from surveys like that. It was too infuriating to finish!
The person writing that particular article thought it was disingenuous to ask the same question twice & in a different manner so excused the results of those particular surveys. Like most men if asked if they would rape a woman would say no but if you phrase it like, would you ever hold a woman down or do something to coerce her into having sex with you, they'd say yes which I think should be telling you that men don't seem to grasp the concept of the word rape or don't want to use the word rape so they can feel better about themselves & what they're doing. One of the other ways they phrased the question was something along the lines of, would you be willing to force a woman to do something she didn't want to do sexually & too many of them said yes.
But the only survey this particular author counted as being valid was the one that directly asked men if they would rape women & so many men said no which disproves the other surveys, in his eyes. Obviously it was a male author!
I couldn't even finish reading it! Being on Psychology Today's website sort of validates it in a manner speaking which is frustrating to say the least.
[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for doing some research! I wanted to have more than a vague memory to back it up, but yesterday I just didn't have the time.
So obviously a male author! If asking the same question twice in a different way was so invalid why do cops routinely use that technique to catch criminals? I actually habitually ask business and service people I am dealing with the same questions twice, because I have found it is the only way to make sure I'm getting all the info. People often answer differently the second time, and the second answer includes more details. (For instance, Me: "So this is the total cost?" Them: "Yes". Me: "There are no additional fees or anything? Them:"Well, there is a processing fee. .") So according to this idiot psychologist, those fees aren't real because they only got mentioned at the second ask? What malarky. I fail to see how rephrasing invalidates the question. Psychology isn't really gender neutral I have found. Back in the day it was all men with over inflated egos who were quite happy to label women as being hysterical (a word they made up just for us) or having penis envy or to prescribe that the only way to cure us of our "emotional disturbances" was to finger us themselves til we climaxed. Not even making that up. Of course now egregious affronts like that have stopped, and there are women in the field, but I still find it to be overstuffed with puffed up Y chromosomes looking to be regarded as smart and mansplain women. What a disgusting rape apologist!! In what universe does saying you would hold a woman down mean you're a no in the rape column? I don't blame you for not being able to finish it!
BTW, ever sense I posted that tidbit, I keep getting a notification of a message and I'll see it for just a second, saying something demanding proof or deriding me for saying it without proof (cause FDS is a peer reviewed publication? FFS) and then it just disappears like a banished ghost. Is that our mods? If so, great work ladies! Scrotes evaporate before they can bother me. I don't even know how the mods are so fast. You all are like magic!
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Holy cannoli! I wish those men who want proof would just do some damn research themselves because it's out there! They have their phones and they have the time to scroll through this stuff and get pissed off so they have the time to do this damn research and read up on this stuff themselves! They really pick so many ways to shoot themselves in the damn foot! If they would just deal with their own damn s*** and actually grow the hell up and become decent human beings and actual good men that would be the game changer! Women can never ever do enough or do things right enough for men who won't do that.
And I do remember hearing something at some point about men forcing women to climax when they were emotionally disturbed during the Victorian era was it? Again they wonder why we get angry. There is so much blindness to all this craziness out there it boggles the mind. And it's not just the blindness but it's a continuing refusal to open their eyes to see it.
[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, the Victorian era. Medically prescribed rape!
They don't want to open their eyes or research their own proof because understanding the issue isn't their real goal. Their real goal is to shut me up and continue to think of their own rape adjacent fantasies as "boys will be boys". I agree with you that all the psychologist you mentioned has demonstrated is that men don't like the word "rape" not that they oppose the action.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌 Yup! Insane!
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most men are already raping women... they pressure women to have sex with them, won’t hear ”no” etc...
[–]Noogenesis21FDS Newbie 212 points213 points214 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
[–]munakhtylerFDS Newbie 291 points292 points293 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Men cannot understand why we don't trust them, while downplaying the number of rapists in their friend group
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[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 46 points47 points48 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This right here! They empathize with all the wrong people. And the guy who flips out on his woman if he discovers she cheated on him, but what we go through? Whatever!
The violent retributive attitudes are equally terrifying.
[–]FURYOFCAPSLOCKFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But he's a good guy! He's nice to me, so I'm choosing to ignore that he raped you...
[–]betsybassetFDS Newbie 110 points111 points112 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. And doing nothing about it. They're all complicit
[–]Orange_PaisleyFDS Newbie 104 points105 points106 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And they will gaslight you and tell you that there is something wrong with you for being wary.
[–]vvioletwwitchFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“nOt AlL mEn”
[–]rocky24683 201 points202 points203 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Literally, most of true crime is a man murdering a woman became she stood up for herself.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, when she tries to leave.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 195 points196 points197 points 5 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link
Um, young guys have a sociopathic hatred of make-up. And yet, they look at online images with filters and CGI all fucking day long. It confuses the fuck out of me.
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[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, fuck him.
[–]Dexaroo5716FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya love to see their arrogance bite them in the ass 🥰
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I'm blown away by this because it seems like those are the women they're all drawn to and want! They all seem to gravitate towards the 'plastic Barbie doll' look! And if they actually end up with a woman like that, they'll show her off to no end like they're the man. I don't get it.
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They want those women, but they know those women wouldn't sneeze in their general direction, so they trash-talk them. That's my best guess. 🤷🏻♀️
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well, it's confusing to me because real life women who happen to be wearing makeup dont even look like Barbie Dolls. But men watch porn and anime in which the women look like sex dolls or cartoons. Then irl they're like, "makeup is lying!" Umm, porn is lying to you, dude. For a lot of reasons. They can't grasp real life women or something? They get pissy about female grooming but get pissy if women don't groom? Is it because they resent a woman appearing attractive in public after they decide they want her? They're too illogical and ahistorical. Are they lying when they shave or wear cologne? Are they lying when they cover up with a beard or hat? Why all this hypocrisy?
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"PORN IS LYING TO YOU!"
How do so many of them not see that? Porn distorts their view of women, relationships, sex... But no, it's mAkE-uP that's the real problem, guise!! /s 🙄
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I'd say celebrities are lying to us all too, and there seem to be so many women who emulate them. It's a lot of falsehood and image projection on so many different levels.
And I had no idea they were scoffing at that stuff! When did that start? Stunning me the same way finding out how much they despise single moms too! Their insecurity & hypocrisy is overwhelming.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They hate single moms, they hate working moms, they hate stay at home moms. They also hate women who decide not to have children.
Women should just do what they want and not give any fucks. The best way to play is not to care what they think.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So true! I honestly feel like the frustration and the anger and hate they have with us over damn near everything still speaks to the entitlement they have about us and the control they want over us to make us into who they want us to be.
At the same time they will tell us that we're entitled and demanding for wanting a guy who is a genuinely good man and a good human being who can protect and provide for us and our family/home, etc.
[–]SpaceC4seFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"A strange game; the only winning move is not to play."
- WarGames (1983)
[–]DaisyDooDropsFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Men will jerk off to cartoon images of women with body and face proportions that will never actually exist, and then they’ll complain about makeup on a woman 😒
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 139 points140 points141 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
And let’s not forget lying about height. I’m 5’11 and have turned up to many a first date being significantly taller than a guy claiming to be 6’-6’3 🤣
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Omg, how do they react?? That's hilarious, what scrotes.
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 123 points124 points125 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Usually it’s a “oh I didn’t realise you were so tall!”.. sure 🙄 one guy actually blamed me for wearing doc martens - he saw me in my pics wearing docs and dresses, no complaints about my alt vibe before that. Spent most the date telling me how I shouldn’t dress like that, he’s used to more girly, glam girls who wear heels (it’s a good job I didn’t tho?!), told me I looked like I “crushed babies skulls” wtf?! Blocked as soon as I got home!
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Wow, what a scrote!! Good job blocking. I love the Doc and dress combo, I do that often too! 🥰
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yessss docs and dresses are definitely a cute look! I like to wear docs to make me even taller now 🤣💁🏻♀️
[–]WafflesTheDuckFDS Newbie 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He just had to 'even the score' because he felt emasculated and embarrassed himself. Tale as old as time.
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes 1000%! Tbh this was in my early days of discovering FDS so I definitely didn’t vet adequately. I also think he was intimidated by me/my job prior to meeting him so when I turned up to be taller than him that was it 🤣💁🏻♀️
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Total asshole.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice 30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ergh, what a horrible person. Make sure you get up and leave the next time this happens to you! Nobody is allowed to treat you like this - it's not rude to get up and leave if they're negging you.
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes I totally agree! Tbh this was in my early days of discovering FDS and I definitely didn’t vet properly. I’ve always been too polite for my own good but I’d like to think I would leave in that situation now (currently taking a break from dating to work on myself!)
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yay! I'm on a break too - don't know when it will stop, it's so enjoyable not dealing with bullshit like in your story!
[–]bethjade27 81 points82 points83 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
and they say they have trust issues thinking we will use them for money even though they don’t have a grand to their name.
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? There's no gold to dig, scrote! 🚫💲😬
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 165 points166 points167 points 5 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link
Women can use beards and hats as similar example to makeup.
[–]namasdatingFDS Newbie 97 points98 points99 points 5 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link
Zero jawlines, beards are so deceptive
[–]FMAB-EarthBenderFDS Newbie 71 points72 points73 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Or they hide badly taken care of skin and sometimes even helps hide teeth. Its easy to steer clear from most of them, usually because the beard is also disgusting lmao.
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 39 points40 points41 points 5 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link
Well groomed stubbled beard at the most is what I can tolerate for beards. I prefer none at all.
[–]FMAB-EarthBenderFDS Newbie 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Ooh that does look nice! All the beards grow so differently, it really just depends all on the grooming. If they have nice beard going on I usually don't mind , it all depends on so many factors. When making art, it always helps me make the character look older giving them beards.
Stubbled unkempt mustache poking my face though hurts so badly , I remember it happening like twice when I was a dumb teenager. I had to say no more you are literally poking each of my pores with the nails on your lip.
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Sister brother in law have those medium length or long beards like those duck commander guys. I can't find those attractive.
What kind of art do you make if you don't mind me asking.
[–]FMAB-EarthBenderFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yes it does. Duck commander i love you lol and I hate that show duck dynasty, they are gross. I like to draw people and cartoons with pencils and painting landscapes, as well as flash art and tattoo style stuff. I don't have any art on my reddit account thats note worthy though, just a gel pen drawing. :)
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
They had totally different style before the show which makes me dislike them more. I hate those beards every time I see it. Thank the goddess is not often. I don't find the mountain man look attractive.
That's cool you are doing your passion in art. I'm not artist but admire women who do it. My friend does sketches as hobby. She is very good.
[–]FMAB-EarthBenderFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
:) AND WOW THAT PICTURE! they look so different. I'm not about the whole homophobia they spew tbh is why I don't like it. Ill admit I really find the mountain man look endearing sometimes especially if they are red head, super cute in theory IMO.
But they are almost never clean. I can't stand it. And thank you! I'm working to be a tattoo artist! They need more women to do it for women who want tattoos so we don't have potential creeps working on us and we have the option of a woman doing the art. I was always stuck with a guy. I never got to have a woman do art on me. So I want to add some options!
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yay! I wish there were more female tattoo artists near me. Since my last tattoo, I decided that I will only be getting tattooed by other women. I hope your accomplish all that you're working hard towards! 💖
They look a million times better in that pic!
Can't take the mountain man look either! Just looks unkempt sloppy and gross/unclean!
Close-shaven and well-groomed beards are cool!
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Same! The others typically make me twitch!
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hate the look of beards that hang off of face. I imagine they are gross.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Twitchy twitch twitch!
[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. Man looks can change quit a bit with beard shaved off.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I had a boyfriend a long time ago where I desperately hoped he wouldn't shave his beard!
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Girl, same!! His jawline was so weak; it was embarrassing to be seen out with him. 😭
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh, I understand that! It's taken me awhile to really let myself admit to myself what kind of man I'm actually attracted to physically.
In the past those guys had bullied or picked on me, then in high school, weren't interested--I wasn't part of the popular crowd, were snobby or jerks.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Long hair, too. I had a boyfriend who had beautiful dark curls, almost down to his shoulders, really well taken care of and shiny. Then one day he had it all cut short and it totally changed his face. Or, maybe it was that there was nothing distracting from or hiding his face.
[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Oh, yikes, do you mean it was a bad reveal when his hair was cut?
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly!
Clarified yikes!
[–]DaydreamingonFDS Newbie 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I call it hatfishing 🤣 also have seen many profiles with makeup on to make their beard connect (like we can’t tell?!)
[–]lostmilleniaFDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hm... thats not a terrible strategy lmao.
[–]Curiousquest2FDS Newbie 86 points87 points88 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We all know why that hat is really there… male pattern baldness.
[–]PinturaMagnificaFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see you've met my LVX... 👀😂
[–]Revy_Ur_EnginesFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dunno why they dont shave the rest of their heads. The ones that decide to grow their thinning hair out to “hide” the baldness🤢
[–]europoor24FDS Newbie 156 points157 points158 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
you could also make one about men leading women on to use for sex
[–]europoor24FDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And we have this one source dedicated to help us navigate this BS and they wet their pants? Over it.
[–]instantsilverFDS Newbie 34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or they are "wronged" by a woman early in their life and use that to fuel their hatred of women that they manipulate and abuse.
[–]breadandbunnyFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the reason women have to be cautious, and it sucks! If they would just be decent human beings, we'd feel safer about dating. But a dude is an imbecile if he really thinks you naturally have gold eyelids.
[–]dogeatpawworldFDS Newbie 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is why. I reject men via text. I once broke up with my NVX and he actually punched me in the gut and smashed my computer (I did it at home like an idiot)
I had PTSD for months after fearing that he would come and throw acid at me in public
[–]cantstuntbikerbitchFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We are not the same lmao.
Yet they grow beards and hide half their face. But somehow we are bad when we wear makeup? Come on
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