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Title	🤨
Author	PBJellyNutella
Upvotes	4569
Comments	116
Date	June 5, 2021 3:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nsy8tk/_/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/780584 https://theredarchive.com/post/780584

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Gotcha! So I did a Google search on it and I'm still going through things because I got stuck in a psychology today article that was trying to argue against the results from surveys like that. It was too infuriating to finish!

The person writing that particular article thought it was disingenuous to ask the same question twice & in a different manner so excused the results of those particular surveys. Like most men if asked if they would rape a woman would say no but if you phrase it like, would you ever hold a woman down or do something to coerce her into having sex with you, they'd say yes which I think should be telling you that men don't seem to grasp the concept of the word rape or don't want to use the word rape so they can feel better about themselves & what they're doing. One of the other ways they phrased the question was something along the lines of, would you be willing to force a woman to do something she didn't want to do sexually & too many of them said yes.

But the only survey this particular author counted as being valid was the one that directly asked men if they would rape women & so many men said no which disproves the other surveys, in his eyes. Obviously it was a male author!

I couldn't even finish reading it! Being on Psychology Today's website sort of validates it in a manner speaking which is frustrating to say the least.

[–]balleballe111111FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for doing some research! I wanted to have more than a vague memory to back it up, but yesterday I just didn't have the time.

So obviously a male author! If asking the same question twice in a different way was so invalid why do cops routinely use that technique to catch criminals? I actually habitually ask business and service people I am dealing with the same questions twice, because I have found it is the only way to make sure I'm getting all the info. People often answer differently the second time, and the second answer includes more details. (For instance, Me: "So this is the total cost?" Them: "Yes". Me: "There are no additional fees or anything? Them:"Well, there is a processing fee. .") So according to this idiot psychologist, those fees aren't real because they only got mentioned at the second ask? What malarky. I fail to see how rephrasing invalidates the question. Psychology isn't really gender neutral I have found. Back in the day it was all men with over inflated egos who were quite happy to label women as being hysterical (a word they made up just for us) or having penis envy or to prescribe that the only way to cure us of our "emotional disturbances" was to finger us themselves til we climaxed. Not even making that up. Of course now egregious affronts like that have stopped, and there are women in the field, but I still find it to be overstuffed with puffed up Y chromosomes looking to be regarded as smart and mansplain women. What a disgusting rape apologist!! In what universe does saying you would hold a woman down mean you're a no in the rape column? I don't blame you for not being able to finish it!

BTW, ever sense I posted that tidbit, I keep getting a notification of a message and I'll see it for just a second, saying something demanding proof or deriding me for saying it without proof (cause FDS is a peer reviewed publication? FFS) and then it just disappears like a banished ghost. Is that our mods? If so, great work ladies! Scrotes evaporate before they can bother me. I don't even know how the mods are so fast. You all are like magic!

[–]Connect_Chipmunk_691FDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Holy cannoli! I wish those men who want proof would just do some damn research themselves because it's out there! They have their phones and they have the time to scroll through this stuff and get pissed off so they have the time to do this damn research and read up on this stuff themselves! They really pick so many ways to shoot themselves in the damn foot! If they would just deal with their own damn s*** and actually grow the hell up and become decent human beings and actual good men that would be the game changer! Women can never ever do enough or do things right enough for men who won't do that.

And I do remember hearing something at some point about men forcing women to climax when they were emotionally disturbed during the Victorian era was it? Again they wonder why we get angry. There is so much blindness to all this craziness out there it boggles the mind. And it's not just the blindness but it's a continuing refusal to open their eyes to see it.

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