Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-04-09T18:17:00+00:00

Omg, I met a guy a few years ago who sent me a nude of his ex as an attempt of sexting. I was furious and asked him what if someone shared his nude pictures without his knowledge. He couldn't understand what was wrong with that 😱🤦‍♀️

BasieSkanks · 2021-04-09T18:17:20+00:00

I know a guy who keeps nudes of his exes. It is so, so, so creepy.

boiledgatorade_ · 2021-04-09T20:18:08+00:00

Ew I found (in a box in his garage) naked pictures my ex took of a woman FROM THE 90s!! They never get rid of them!🤢

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-04-09T18:15:00+00:00

My ex husband did this and I have thought should I contact her and let her know he still has nudes? It was two exes of his. Would you want someone to let you know if it was you? I would, but I don't want to cause any trouble.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-04-09T19:11:43+00:00

Sigh... he's so LV. She is wasting her time.

An HVM would never be in this situation.

snootdidanoot · 2021-04-10T08:09:47+00:00

I dated a guy for a few months when I was young and dumb, sent him a couple pics. His next girlfriend was a friend of mine, they had an argument and she went thru his phone, she called and told me he still had my photos as well as hundreds of others from other girls, I asked her to delete them and she said she had already deleted everything she could find, she just wanted to let me know. He had also been showing other people these photos, not sending them but actually giving his phone to others and they would go through his gallery! Males are disgusting and hoard them like trophies.

not_a_paper_pusher · 2021-04-09T18:21:56+00:00

Repulsive. My ex boyfriend had a folder of me in his computer, I asked him to delete it before I left but I can’t help but think it’s the first of many folders he’ll keep of women he meets over the years.

Lavender_flow · 2021-04-09T21:55:07+00:00

Please direct her to FDS, she needs proper support and she is actually leaving this scum

Magnolia_Mirage · 2021-04-09T21:50:53+00:00

Good for her for leaving

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-04-09T19:54:39+00:00

Ah. I'm going to go scream into my pillow for a bit. Then I might comment.

2021-04-10T14:02:56+00:00

My ex kept a phone and an old laptop full of hundreds of nudes of exes, one night stands, international Facebook flirtations, sex videos, and who the fuck knows what else. When I found out I was so disgusted. He told me he deleted everything but we all know that’s a LIE. I dumped him shortly after finding out and he was back on OLD within days, his Instagram account that he “deleted” magically resurfaced, and all the women he had “blocked” on Facebook popped back up. These men treat women like collectibles, not people.

Oh and we rarely had sex in the two years we were together because clearly he was just jerking it to memories and good old days. I’m single and celibate now. I’m fucking done with the depravity.

Sewud · 2021-04-10T14:33:45+00:00

Men are really not honorable. They will dig in their bag of tricks and say literally anything to get nudes ("I promise I won't save them, I promise I'll delete them, I can't believe you don't trust me, it really hurts my feelings that you don't trust me, you know I would never do that") and in the same swoop they will turn around and share/save/send these pictures. They do not mind.

eatnthrowtrashaway · 2021-04-10T16:54:58+00:00

I had an ex who purposely showed me his nude folder of every women he’d ever done anything with. He didn’t let me see it because that would be “violating consent” and clearly he was a “gentleman”. I asked if these girls knew about it and he assured me he had all their consent to keep all those videos and pictures (doubt). I was a teenager he was 25 and so I didn’t take the red flags and run.

Now sometimes I want to throw up thinking about the pictures of me in that folder getting sent to who knows who and just in there for his twisted enjoyment.

Obviously, never send nudes. Don’t be horrifically stupid like I was.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-11T23:17:28+00:00

So him taking her on a date that she planned is something drastic he's doing in order to keep her from leaving? LOOL did I read that right? Even when she's leaving he is low effort. 🤡

Title	Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.
Author	SortFree
Upvotes	260
Comments	55
Date	April 9, 2021 3:59 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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