Friendly reminder

Confection_Efficient · 2020-10-09T00:57:59+00:00

Two words...Over it. I’m so done with “so busy” and I’m really glad a lot of us are.

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-09T03:43:35+00:00

“yea work has been crazy lately” me: *block

morsitens1946 · 2020-10-09T00:33:39+00:00

Painful to hear but true.

taele1996 · 2020-10-09T01:15:22+00:00

It’s really funny because I went out with a guy for two months. He always paid for my portion of food when we go out, which is like once a week. He always initiated physical contact; kisses, hand holding, hugs. After nearly 2 months (7 weeks aka 7dates), he’s still dating other people when he’s with me because we’re not official. I just ended things with him last night because it’s apparent that we’re not on the same page.

2020-10-09T00:10:43+00:00

Yup, very simple creatures actually! Time to stop overthinking...

matte_personality · 2020-10-09T02:49:53+00:00

Men are simple. If they’re telling the truth, they’ll keep it short. If they’re being complicated, they’re either lying or hiding something.

jayohday · 2020-10-09T03:52:15+00:00

As always, this is true, but who cares? he’s not interested. Great. Did he check all your desired boxes, anyway?

WouldYouKindly3003 · 2020-10-09T03:09:20+00:00

This just hits too close to home rn.

waddamelone · 2020-10-09T07:42:31+00:00

If he truly wanted to, he would sis! Not enough people understand this. It also works vice versa 😌

perpandacular · 2020-10-09T00:21:54+00:00

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unbelyevable · 2020-10-09T01:24:53+00:00

Needed this one tonight 🙌🏼👌🏼👏🏼

Sewud · 2020-10-09T07:46:55+00:00

I don't think we should look to fear as a motivator though. He shouldn't be doing things because he's afraid to lose you. He should be doing things because he wants to, because he likes you and he believes in treating people right.

AnniaT · 2020-10-09T07:58:08+00:00

When he truly get this, we'll be set free from most dead end and good for nothing relationships in our lives. Yes, it's that simple.

LittleBiitchyBanana · 2020-10-09T09:41:56+00:00

I always imagine Miranda from sex and the city saying: “He’s not that into you!” Amen to that. 🙌

RachelStorm98 · 2020-10-09T15:26:12+00:00

I follow this religiously now. I used to be in denial back in my pick me days, but this is so true. If he doesn't show he's interested and isn't putting in effort, he's just not that into you. NEXT! I will never waste my energy on a scrote who shows absolutely no interest in me. If he ain't chasing me, then I am moving on. You can't make a man love or commit to you. I love this quote. I am happy for FDS this subreddit has woke me up to the truth. 💅💖

oh_beach_please · 2020-10-09T14:03:30+00:00

Owwww but truuuue

BellaStayFly · 2020-10-09T18:32:42+00:00

We make time for the things that are a priority to us. If they aren’t enthusiastic in the very beginning, it will only get worse.

vilanellescat · 2020-10-09T11:22:23+00:00

Simple af! I love feeling at peace alone 🥰

heyho-ayo · 2020-10-19T19:40:40+00:00

I’ve actually been thinking about this a lot. I’ve been seeing someone for 4 months now and we are exclusive but not official. I know men should be the one making it official but I feel that for myself this needs to be figured out. I was thinking about bringing it up next time I see him and saying not to waste my time and we can’t do this anymore if he doesn’t want to make it official. What do you think the best way to do this is?

notthatkindofdoctorb · 2020-10-09T06:33:03+00:00

No sorry, but this is nonsense. It makes it sound like any man could be a "good" one if women did the right thing. That if only women "handled" them correctly, they wouldn't do the wrong thing. Maybe this entry is poorly phrased and it isn't trying to say that, but it's a stupid thing to be ambiguouous about when claiming to advise women.

Title	Friendly reminder
Author	competitive_Aries123
Upvotes	2423
Comments	54
Date	October 8, 2020 11:55 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j7ohzj/friendly_reminder/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/friendly-reminder.316702 https://theredarchive.com/post/316702

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