Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂

understatedalways · 2020-01-13T18:13:28+00:00

Yes, I would look down on a guy who 1. Got a “drunken hookup” pregnant and 2. Cared more about what people think than, you know, caring for his child. One is bad enough, but both facts put together make him the most epic of low value.

suaveagave · 2020-01-13T20:05:05+00:00

You made the "mistake" of getting her pregnant? Where did you put your sperm Benji? Tell us where you put your sperm.

littlecuterose · 2020-01-13T18:38:28+00:00

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Snugglyy · 2020-01-13T18:38:30+00:00

I got an abortion after a drunk hookup with someone who I thought I knew as a male friend. He showed his LV colors, and was very similar to how this dude prioritized his social life. It was a shitshow I’m pretty sure I havd ptsd from.

Fast forward 3 months, the guy actually finds a gorgeous, educated, independent dreamgirl you can bring home to meet the parents. They start dating. Naturally you’d think that he understands how lucky he is to have found and secured the prize after the close call he had!

Nope. Not even 2 months into their relationship he’s texting me saying he misses me and trying to drunk hook up again.

wowthispostissad · 2020-01-13T21:05:55+00:00

Yeah maybe be a good dad? That would make him high value. But nooooo anything but taking responsibility.

quasarbar · 2020-01-13T20:27:39+00:00

I feel bad for the child and his/her mother. This dude needs to go flush himself down the toilet.

redbirdflies · 2020-01-13T22:47:39+00:00

The comment about not having a good relationship with the mom is the biggest red flag.

Any HVM worth his salt will rise above petty nonsense for the sake of his child. Most will not judge a man for having a child out of wedlock. What he will be judged on is his ability to man up and take care of his child.

In, fact, he’d have a higher social status if he was able to overcome the hurdle of the unexpected birth of a child by meeting it with grace and the ability to level up to provide and be a good father.

plutunic · 2020-01-13T22:49:04+00:00

tfw you've gotta tell women you're a deadbeat Dad

https://i.imgur.com/ChDwRMn.gif

guys i was reading stats, and 65% of women in a divorce get fucking NOTHING from men in terms of child support, n o t h i n g. these same idiots whine and complain that 35% of men are taken to court and forced to pay to raise their own children. the solution is obviously we should let men continue to check out of the consequences for their choices. divorce rape amirite, i want to sign away parental rights, HOW DARE SHE??!!! etc. maybe they shouldn't risk having sex with women they don't love, care for, or respect, so they don't continue the cycle of abandoning children they don't love, care for, or respect. they're over here shitting on single moms too!

state enforced monogamy my ass. rout em out and take em out of the gene pool y'all. 🙏

AyemHerself · 2020-01-14T01:07:13+00:00

He didn't lose status, he's right where he should've been in the first place. HVM don't have kids with drunken hookups whom they hate.

LVM can pretend to be high value for a time, but the facade always cracks.

take1990 · 2020-01-13T19:39:43+00:00

Hahaha what a delusional idiot.

Deadgirl1888 · 2020-01-13T22:36:15+00:00

Maybe he should have worn a condom. Her body her choice. That's the risk you take unless you get a vasectomy.

greenappletw · 2020-01-14T01:02:54+00:00

Complete narcissist

woiashenseea · 2020-01-14T02:56:25+00:00

... take care of your child? Be a high value man by not abandoning your child, and providing for the child's development and future?

They're gonna start asking the internet "how do I breathe and exchange oxygen for CO2 in order to survive?"

And people are gonna say "just spin more plates"

2020-01-14T03:01:33+00:00

Omg. "Because of the kid." That's your child dude, and this attitude is exactly why everyone should trash you in their circles. I like he only implies she was drunk. Oh okay, she was drunk so you slept with her? Unbelievable the boys of today...

Witchyko · 2020-01-14T11:24:52+00:00

Wow, so lovely how the only thing he cares about is that now the pool of women who let him stick his dick into them has become smaller. Good, there is nothing else he should worry about. Like the kid, the mother, his drinking and fucking habits etc. No, just no.

pokinthecrazy · 2020-01-14T04:20:18+00:00

So if you go below the surface, this is an interesting question. This guy was NEVER HV - but he could appear HV, I guess. But he is clearly an asshole if he doesn't even worry about raising his kid. And life circumstances just conspired to let everyone know what a LVM he is.

Cheeseburgers89 · 2020-01-15T15:31:28+00:00

“The kid” not my son or my daughter. Poor child

Title	Guy gets a drunken hook up pregnant, and instead of worrying about the child, he’s worried about his social prospects. And he thinks he can still be high value? 😂
Author	suaveagave
Upvotes	190
Comments	48
Date	January 13, 2020 6:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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