It’s a trap

throwaway631391220 · 2020-10-18T17:49:35+00:00

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ThisAintMyOnlyUN · 2020-10-18T18:13:26+00:00

I have a nice, succinct restrictive access policy for men and so far every man has failed the minimum standards every time, without fail. Can’t meet my standards? No access to my time, energy, or personal space. This includes friends, family, and potential partners.

thehappiestelephant · 2020-10-18T17:59:30+00:00

I even said that to a LVM. He made an observation about my actions, I risked vulnerability in a chance to connect with him by telling my motivations behind said action and he had the audacity to tell me my motivations were a character flaw. It was the final straw and I told him "I was having a great morning until you come out and insult my character, why would I even want to be here." I'm never living with a man before marriage again.

bonzo0 · 2020-10-18T18:02:29+00:00

Irritation is coming home from a long day of work very excited to eat the taquitos you bought and finding out there’s ONE LEFT IN THE BOX. Haven’t been irritated in a year and a half, ladies 💕✨

Introambi1 · 2020-10-18T19:25:51+00:00

Omg this morning my bf made me late for work, so yeah a freaking man annoyed me at freaking 6:45 a:m. I don’t know who is worst men or children. I’d say men are waaaaay worst.

FashionTech537 · 2020-10-18T17:01:43+00:00

Factssss 100%

highoncatnipbrownies · 2020-10-18T17:34:44+00:00

Ouch. Guilty... never again will I put up with bull shit.

Anti_Drama · 2020-10-18T19:38:00+00:00

This is a huge reason I don't think I can handle a man. I just want the right to wake up at my discretion, lie there, and do nothing. Unless I have to work or something.

NineOneNineOneNine · 2020-10-18T23:34:26+00:00

My ex refused to put the toilet seat down. For months I asked him to put the seat down. At his house, he could shit on the walls. But this is my house, I don’t want my daughter to fall into the toilet! WTF is the resistance to common courtesy? Trying to assert himself?

_xyoungbellax_ · 2020-10-18T17:05:13+00:00

My old self feels attacked

kind_red · 2020-10-18T17:03:50+00:00

This resonates with me to a disturbing degree

Cairenne · 2020-10-18T19:29:59+00:00

Yep. Agree. Every time I've dropped someone that irritated me that early in the morning (and I also include an ex friend in this) life has gotten exponentially better.

invenereveritas · 2020-10-18T18:08:57+00:00

Get me ouuuut 😖

TokiMarvel · 2020-10-18T21:57:17+00:00

Whyyy? Every damn day, too. Years of interrupted sleep exacerbating my insomnia. Snorers, the heavy kind, need to be solitary beings.

geologykitty · 2020-10-18T18:21:56+00:00

Lordy lord, the truth of it

jayohday · 2020-10-18T21:46:43+00:00

This is what I’m saying especially with those bullshit “good morning” texts

throwaway631391220 · 2020-10-18T23:41:54+00:00

Where is the lie?

diorgasm · 2020-10-19T14:04:36+00:00

Once the love is gone, cant even stand the way he smells. Go see a doctor dude.. whatever is emanating from your stomach smells unhealthy

2020-10-19T20:58:52+00:00

My ex used to start horrible fights at 6 in the morning. It was no wonder I was an anxious, sodden mess when I went to work.

GAaliyah12 · 2020-10-19T13:38:52+00:00

I can't even imagine it.

Title	It’s a trap
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	1302
Comments	49
Date	October 18, 2020 3:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jdi52o/its_a_trap/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/its-a-trap.322728 https://theredarchive.com/post/322728

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