Just saw this posted at another community… 🤮

Mcccy · 2022-02-04T19:57:53+00:00

I just can't help but imagining a guy at a bar like:

"So were you always this thin?"

"Um yeah?"

"Goddammit."

Novemberinthechair · 2022-02-04T20:43:12+00:00

Abuser talk. Yeesh.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-04T19:34:13+00:00

So fucking predatory.

scorchedsouI · 2022-02-04T21:00:04+00:00

It's hard to feel threatened by male manipulation when they're barely coherent.

ItsFreezen · 2022-02-04T19:18:17+00:00

"But Men Love Women More" /s

Optimal_Grapefruit_5 · 2022-02-04T19:07:21+00:00

Didn't they use to say women who'd just lost a lot of weight suddenly thought themselves 10s?

IcedHeart11 · 2022-02-04T20:51:51+00:00

Once again I will say, men are VERY much aware that their access to women comes from women having low self esteem and poor boundaries.

That is why men always neg you, give backhanded compliments, make fun of things you’re passionate about, mock everything that girls/women collectively like. They need to tear women aware from social groups, hobbies, and things that make them happy, because these loser men know, they could never get a woman unless she is unhappy and has low self esteem.

preppykat3 · 2022-02-04T22:27:56+00:00

Lol what? I actually became super narcissistic and picky when I lost weight. They couldn’t be more wrong 😂 (I have to clarify that I didn’t lose too much, but I did lose 15 lbs and even that was enough to give me a huge ego boost. I wasn’t obese or anything). I can’t imagine how accomplished and proud big women must feel. There’s no way they would settle for a scrote after putting in that much work!

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-05T01:41:37+00:00

This reminds me of How I Met Your Mother when Barney was at the gym chatting up fat women and called them “investments” because when they got thin he would cash that in. And you’re not supposed to like Barney.

Pahapan · 2022-02-04T23:29:46+00:00

I'm 5'9" and went from 230 to 150 and then built up some muscle so I'm now around 175. People who've known me at all these weights are surprised I don't talk about it more because they think it's such an accomplishment but I'm painfully aware that I struggle with image issues so it's not a vulnerability I want to draw attention to. I didn't lose the weight healthily, I developed an eating disorder and shed it really fast.

If you meet me at my current weight, you will never hear from me that I used to be bigger. Glad to know I was right to follow my instincts with this because scrotes sure do be scroten'.

Antique_Fortune6974 · 2022-02-05T01:14:53+00:00

Its funny how this scrote didn't project like most do. You know darn well if a neckbeard ended up a bodybuilder somehow, his confidence would automatically catch up with his brain. 🙄 Like why would there not be a parallel with a heavyset woman getting into shape?

StatusPop- · 2022-02-04T20:15:15+00:00

These are the games that they play. This is why you should never ever overshare to a scrote or a pick me! Men’s nature is predatory and they CAN help but to prey on people. Don’t tell them about your traumas, don’t tell them about your triggers, don’t tell them about your insecurities. No matter how comfortable a guy has made me feel, I still did not feel comfortable enough to let it all out no matter how long I have been with them I always remembered “a lady should never reveal her secrets.”

I have navigated through the dating scene pretty well because I stopped telling guys about my triggers so once I left those toxic relationships, the guys didn’t know how to seek revenge on me because they didn’t know me well enough. If a guy asks for my secrets or insecurities I already know that they are asking so they will store that information until they can use it against me.

Bot9813 · 2022-02-04T20:46:44+00:00

This is just bad advice? Lol I lost 70 pounds and if anything, the extra attention from men just made me even more cautious

Cookie_Duchess · 2022-02-05T10:52:49+00:00

I lost 150lbs in the span of a year (weight loss surgery and gym) and during the time that I was adjusting to my new body, before I had skin removal surgery and such, men on dating apps absolutely preyed on me. I left a 6yr relationship and lost half my body weight so I had a ton of loose skin that I hated. My confidence was basically not existent so it was easy for app guys to future fake me into having casual sex then ghost as they do.

bananabananabanana99 · 2022-02-04T21:33:57+00:00

This reminded me of Adele... I hope she doesn’t get screwed with all this pressure on her and especially since she’s recently divorced.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-05T23:47:37+00:00

This is absolutely untrue. I’ve had a few friends lose massive amounts of weight (like 100 lbs or more), and one thing they all complained about was guys who refused to talk to them before suddenly giving them attention now “oh, now he’ll talk to me now that i’m thin? And what? I’m supposed to be grateful? Fuck him.”

Deuterated-Earnings · 2022-02-04T21:32:14+00:00

Wow, they’re clearly quite desperate if they have to discuss predatory tactics like that. Nothing else is clearly working for them. These men are disgusting.

throwaway88043468 · 2022-02-05T17:34:18+00:00

Do they really not realize what kind of self-burn this "advice" is? Or do they so completely lack self respect they just don't care?

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-02-05T19:44:21+00:00

The joke’s on them because I was scoring gorgeous guys before I lost the weight lol.

mirasthrowaway · 2022-02-04T22:10:53+00:00

Men are just predatory in nature. Wtf.

xfelugirlx · 2022-02-05T06:06:04+00:00

Diuh fucking psychos

333amelia · 2022-02-04T20:07:10+00:00

Just absolute vultures these men are

Title	Just saw this posted at another community… 🤮
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Date	February 4, 2022 6:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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