Need help translating

Maude2010 · 2020-10-03T20:12:38+00:00

Okay so I have a friend who once let a guy like this clean her apartment. Figured why not, she’d get a clean place out of it, right? Apparently he couldn’t clean for shit.

They do a bad job cleaning even when it’s their kink. 🙄

asteria2002 · 2020-10-03T19:40:29+00:00

He is into bdsm. He is a big NO.

ladylabrys · 2020-10-03T20:18:10+00:00

It's a fetish. He wants to trade half-assed chores for sex. Then he'll still expect you to do all of the domestic labor when he's not horny.

ASeaOfQuotes · 2020-10-03T19:40:51+00:00

If he wants you to service his kinks he can Venmo you some money first. 🤷‍♀️

electroloop · 2020-10-03T19:54:29+00:00

The only kink you should entertain is financial domination sis

Pahapan · 2020-10-03T23:18:00+00:00

He's presenting himself as submissive but submissive men are almost never actually submissive. They dominate from the bottom. They're incredibly demanding about how you dominate them (so are you really dominating them or just following their orders?) and their kink tends to revolve around feeling humiliated for being treated the way women get treated. They're gross.

timetofliptables · 2020-10-03T20:02:16+00:00

Translation: RUN.

janeaustenfan99 · 2020-10-03T22:50:51+00:00

He wants sex. But he’ll do some half a**** chore first. And he wants you to do all the work in bed cus he’s a sub.

balladwilds · 2020-10-03T23:09:10+00:00

tell him to pay you first

HamwiseGamgee88 · 2020-10-04T00:23:01+00:00

too much pr0n

super_thinker_ · 2020-10-04T00:44:33+00:00

Has anyone else noticed that there are tons of kinky creeps on hinge? It's been worse than any other dating app for me.

MakeURegret · 2020-10-03T23:17:47+00:00

Not to mention the “do as I’m told.” Implying that he’d still expect you to STILL do ALL the emotional labor.

I actually think that’s what this is getting at. Like when guys say “I’m an asshole (teehee)” And then when you get mad at them for doing something hurtful, “well I TOLD YOU I was an asshole (so I’m absolved of all responsibility).”

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-10-04T01:29:07+00:00

Translation: He needs you to tell him what to do all the time, even with his own life. When even housechores become a kinky play, bdsm is no longer contained to the bedroom, it has become a "lifestyle". Do you have enough energy to maintain sexual tension constantly?

Most likely though, he's not even that into bdsm. He just has some inclinations and he is sending you that message trying to make it seem as if you'll have most of the benefits. It may seem "feminist" at first, but honestly doing housechores and nice things for their partner only because it turns them on doesn't sit well with me.

2020-10-04T06:09:04+00:00

Ask for money. He can be a pay pig for you.

Ok-Firefighter-2266 · 2020-10-04T02:45:47+00:00

I mean...this isn’t the worst opener I’ve heard. He can come clean for me as long as I don’t have to have sex with him.

Salty-Tomorrow · 2020-10-04T05:50:33+00:00

porn sick. next.

theingenuelover · 2020-10-03T21:16:12+00:00

Is he looking for love or a job? What the heck is this???

Agnia_Barto · 2020-10-04T12:35:04+00:00

Skinny white dude with dark hair in Tri-State area? I feel like I've gotten this message. I wanted to see what's up and replied asking about his cleaning skills and other services he provides. He told me he has a collection of puffy dresses he'd want me to wear during his "cleaning" unless I'd rather be naked and have him wear a dress.

hilariouslystated · 2020-10-04T14:35:58+00:00

He sounds like a doormat you'd lose respect for eventually. It's a no.

Title	Need help translating
Author	ScallionOk958
Upvotes	83
Comments	35
Date	October 3, 2020 7:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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