I keep seeing posts about women attempting to date/looking for advice about dating while there’s coronavirus restrictions in place. There’s a very simple answer:
STOP TRYING TO DATE RIGHT NOW.
No HVM is trying to date anyone right now. HVM is not going to risk exposing himself, his housemates/family and anyone else by going on a date. He also wouldn’t want to risk exposing YOU to the virus (a huge number of people have no symptoms).
Likewise a HVW can put dating on the back burner for a few weeks/months to avoid exposing themselves and others to it. A woman willing to go meet anyone right now is sending a big signal that they don’t respect themselves.
How are you going to feel when that LVM coffee date infects you? And you infect a love one?
Interested in trying to make it work with virtual dating? Still no. Don’t change your standards for a temporary situation. The LVM who came up with this solution is hoping you’ll become a free cam girl for him. How is this a fulfilling date? What do you actually learn about him? Are you actually vetting him? It’s not and you don’t.
I’ll repeat it: DON’T CHANGE YOUR STANDARDS FOR A TEMPORARY SITUATION
The times are strange and frankly HVM and HVW are focusing on things other than dating right now.
If you’re itching to date right now, it’s probably a good time for some self-reflection and soul searching. What is driving this desire? What void are you attempting to fill? Hopefully this self reflection and time spent alone will help sisters level up and gain a new appreciate for their own self worth.
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It's hard to think about dating right now, but I didn't manage to have a nice phone call with a guy that I met online. There's no way that I'd meet in person, and in the meantime, I'm open to getting to know guys that put in the effort to get to know me when there's no promise of anything else.
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What if you chose to just match and talk via text? That was my plan from the start. Is leaving my profile up sending bad signals?
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