PART 1: BE AWARE OF THIS NEW TRICK

Ladies, Tuesday evening I was waiting for my sister in a take out. While deliberating over a taco, a man called out for my attention

MAN:"Excuse me they're calling you".

I didn't order anything yet. I approached him.

MAN: Did you order anything?

ME: "No?"

MAN: "Nah, I just wanted to talk to you".

I was confused then flustered. I can't believe he tricked me to walking over there?

Be aware, unless he looks like he's dying don't walk over to a man.

PART 2 - What's your time policy? A discussion

Still new to FDS, I made a mistake, he caught me off guard and actually had a nice chat I let him take my phone number at the end. I knew I was making a mistake and was typing slowly but it's going to change in a matter of weeks, I wasn't concerned. I thought I'd let him know it was a mistake when he reached out.

He gave me a missed call to save number too. The time was 5:36pm. So personally, my rule is that's too late to initiate your first conversation. I think gentleman and even pretend gentleman, will wait till day time the next day. He did not initiate contact the next day day time. At 4pm I blocked him and will block a good man who didn't reach out in 24hrs, in an appropriate time.

So firstly be aware, they can trick you for you to approach them and then not initiate contact to further make you be the one to make the move. I knew this, and NOT HAPPENING. If you want me, YOU COME TO ME.

Secondly, I would like to know your standards ladies? What is your personal time policy? When you share your contact with a man, how long does he have to initiate?