she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩

NotSoBunny · 2021-01-02T03:32:39+00:00

This is why journaling is so useful. I'm so glad she wrote it out and listened to what she was writing out. Amazing!

veruscka · 2021-01-02T04:43:39+00:00

”fine but all I’m doing is drinking”

Umm no he’s not. If it was like that they would have gone to a regular bar.

seraphinelysion · 2021-01-02T05:15:11+00:00

Hope going to the strip club was worth losing your wife, kids, marriage, and a stability life. ✌️

Fun_Sherbet · 2021-01-02T03:24:26+00:00

Hate that this woman has to deal with a clearly abusive man. But props to her for this realization! I've come to expect these types of posts to end with "Am I crazy? Am I overreacting?" No, girl, Ditch his lying ass!

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-01-02T04:56:28+00:00

At this point it's not even about whether he thinks he did something wrong or not. We all know he doesn't. It's about the fact that he doesn't give one fuck about her at all. He is clearly already checked out

shinyjewels · 2021-01-02T03:33:00+00:00

Some of the comments in that thread were telling her that she was overreacting. I wanted to claw my eyes out

MomNateChloe · 2021-01-02T04:45:52+00:00

Fool me once, shame on you.

Fool me twice, shame on ME.

9hazle · 2021-01-02T04:00:24+00:00

Even if the first comment was agreeing with her she just needed to include the "not everyone has the same boundaries" disclaimer just so to avoid getting scrotes and pickmes riled up.

Melbournegeek · 2021-01-02T07:20:19+00:00

He did it again because he did it the first time and (in his mind) got away with it. He fully expects to do so again.

yesmme · 2021-01-02T04:02:14+00:00

Any time a woman asks herself “is this normal? am I overreacting?”, it’s time to dump/divorce the man. They cOmMunIcaTeD about it last year and look where they are now.

A grown ass man knows not to go to a strip club. You don’t need to communicate this to him like he’s 5 years old and not even single men should be going to strip clubs. I’m not a SWERF but this is getting out of hand. Men get to see masses of naked women all day long everyday and can’t even have sex properly because of it and women are expected to tolerate all of this. And now he’s acting like a heroin addict who’s losing his shit because he can’t get his fix.

Fuck this guy.

Buckley92 · 2021-01-02T06:07:57+00:00

Adultery. Lying. What a shame she had kids with this 'man'. I wouldn't even coparent, he obviously doesn't love his kids that much, if he did, he would be at home with them and not out partying like an 18－19 year old. I'd honestly refuse to let him see them ever again in her shoes.

blackwidowe · 2021-01-02T22:55:35+00:00

I saw that post.

One guy commented that his wife likes it when he goes to strip clubs because he comes home to her and he's all turned on by strippers but she gets the sex.

Almost vomited in my mouth.

He then proceeded to say he wouldn't have sex with said strippers because they are on drugs and diseased so wife doesnt have to worry.

1) you're disgusting.

2) you're watching women who need drugs to do their jobs to deal with men like you.

3) if my husband needed strippers to get horny for me, he can fucking stay there forever.

4) you're disgusting.

AJLake80 · 2021-01-02T13:53:03+00:00

Going to Christmas parties and strip clubs during a pandemic. Tells you all you need to know. Kick him out.

stardew_1969 · 2021-01-02T10:30:03+00:00

The problem is once he’s done something like this and you’ve forgiven him, he knows that it will be easier to get forgiveness a second, third, fourth time. The first time is always the huge test..... if it’s over the first time he does it, he knows that was a non-negotiable boundary and you’re done. Forgive him, and he knows that you’re likely to do so again.

Leave the first time he hits you / cheats on you / crosses any other boundary that a HVM would not ever do in the first place.

cantstopthemachine77 · 2021-01-02T04:44:46+00:00

SWERF? That’s a term made up by libfems. Do you also believe that “T-ERF” is a thing?

Edit: this was meant to be a reply to u/yesmme who used the term in their comment.

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2021-01-02T06:44:32+00:00

I stopped reading after " strip club".

"It's like OnlyWhores, but IRL!"

Title	she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩
Author	livelyfire4
Upvotes	636
Comments	60
Date	January 2, 2021 3:21 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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