someone pls pick her

appleadam123 · 2020-07-28T06:35:48+00:00

Still waiting to see a similar video on household chores . No?

RedRetrograde · 2020-07-28T05:29:09+00:00

She’s living in a total libfem fantasy land. I remember when I was like this a few years ago. This video is honestly like a PTSD flashback.

She’s gonna have to learn the hard way that men do not operate in this manner—they aren’t looking at you like you’re an equal when you pull this shit, they’re looking at you like you’re a sucker. Because you are. Jesus.

bootyandthebeet · 2020-07-28T05:17:34+00:00

I’ll bare his children, he’ll do shit all - remember it’s all about equality /s

janeaustenfan99 · 2020-07-28T05:39:36+00:00

That’s fine for her, if that’s what she wants to do. Most men won’t respect a woman who does these types of things, though.

carameals · 2020-07-28T10:25:58+00:00

Treat men like a king, they'll treat you like a servant. Treat them like a dirt, they'll stick to you like mud!

Delicious-Scholar · 2020-07-28T04:44:10+00:00

I love her dress and she looks like Jessica Alba. That’s all I got.

heleninthealps · 2020-07-28T04:53:59+00:00

No, no and no it doesn't. Which all men in my work confirm. They don't care to be equal in their relationships, they want what's beneficial for them. Sure, I've bought the popcorn when the man have bought the movie tickets, pick me up at my place, driven me there and it was our 7-10th date. But buying a man a suit!?

Firstly it would be more expensive than the shoes he bought (so not equal already there in the same as lunch is cheaper than dinner most times) and secondly we are not mommy girlfriends we don't buy clothes to a man. If he's over a certain age and have enough social skills to be invited to anything from a funeral to a graduation he should already be owning one himself. Also socks and underwear. Damn.

devoushka · 2020-07-28T10:45:15+00:00

Buying snacks at the movies is one thing. But buying him a whole suit? And a nice one? I'd rather just buy my own shoes at that point lmao he's gonna make me go broke.

sculderandmullie · 2020-07-28T15:00:03+00:00

OMG just discovered that on her TikTok, she posted another video about house chores! It goes like this: ’When I cook, clean the house, do the laundry, nobody sees that. But when I sit down with my phone, he says: You’re always on your phone! And that is exactly what you get for being a pickmeisha and inspringing others to do the same stupid shit.

2020-07-28T14:42:06+00:00

I'm biased because I'm a lesbian but in my experience the only upside to dating men is sometimes they're funny, and there's free food.

Like, you spent hundreds over time on your hair, makeup, nails, fragrance, and outfit for the day. You're putting yourself in danger by meeting this stranger at night. Most of the time you'll have to justify every single one of your hobbies and interests to this guy. Same with your career.

And then at the end of it you have to pay too?? 😒 no. I'll die on this hill with my straight friends

gcfemtastic · 2020-07-28T15:40:05+00:00

Lol. Women always have to give more.

"Snacks", popcorn, 2 pops and a candy is more expensive than 2 regular tickets.

Dinner, generally more expensive than lunch.

Shoes, once again, cheaper than a WHOLE fucking suit. Lol.

This can't be a coincidence? Pickmes must know they are putting in more effort for bare minimum right?

TheOuts1der · 2020-07-28T10:01:18+00:00

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sisterofnarcissus · 2020-07-28T10:36:54+00:00

If a man pays for lunch he also pays for dinner because he doesn’t want me to needlessly spend my money. If he has a rough day - of course I can help him out or comfort him. But I won’t do stuff for him or be a substitute for a therapy. If he buys me shoes I’ll thank him for a nice gift. I expect to be treated like a goddess not a queen, and I am treated so because I deserve it. Men and women are not equal in relationship. Men and women should complete each other, add value to each other’s lives. She’s such a pickme, god.

Incredible_Alligator · 2020-07-28T07:13:57+00:00

I was waiting for the joke at the end. Pretty disappointed this Pickme was serious 😒

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-07-28T14:21:50+00:00

Wow she's so trained and blind. She doesn't need to buy anything. She's young and she's cute. Yikes! Even my guy friends always paid for everything when we hung out. They love it.

ewoksareprettycool · 2020-07-28T14:46:01+00:00

The fact I used to be this type of woman makes me cringe

Hhjjuuy · 2020-07-28T14:52:48+00:00

On second watch who is this even for? The delivery is like someone trying to teach a 6 year old how to queue for lunch.

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-07-28T16:04:41+00:00

Watching that made me so uncomfortable. Did anyone else feel like that felt like a major brainwashing type video?! 😶young girls will be watching this 😫

Salt_Satisfaction · 2020-07-28T16:09:25+00:00

Men on the internet have really convinced libfems that the worst plight men can experience is paying for dates.

And since libfems pander to men, I see a lot of these "feminists" spend more time defending the strict 50/50 than saying anything about the porn industry, "kinks", disrespectful men... etc. They played themselves.

honeybeeroll · 2020-07-28T18:08:56+00:00

Some of the worst mistakes i made with dating were because it never occurred to me that men don't think like me. You set yourself up for failure, for getting really hurt, when you think men and women are the same. People will come at you like it's sacrilege to say that lol, bc they equate "not same" with "unequal" bc apparently they've never looked at a fucking thesaurus lol. It only benefits men to think men and women are the same.

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-07-28T18:12:29+00:00

Kings do not desire tit for tats from their women

loudest_gusset · 2020-07-28T12:34:58+00:00

If we are in a committed relation, I don't mind some of these. But if you're still convincing me that you're worth my time, I'll thank u next this type of guy expecting me to treat him. I've got a line of men waiting who would love to buy me lunch and dinner, and maybe even breakfast (not gonna happen though.)

2020-07-28T15:09:29+00:00

A relationship goes both ways; he gotta respect you back. Dumbing it down to material items for HIM will cause him to lose respect for you. This feels awfully put on and scripted anyway. Men will chuckle at women like this for being that open about it.

Eat_Pant_b0ss · 2020-07-28T15:58:28+00:00

A relationship DOES go both ways, EMOTIONALLY. That saying literally doesn't mean anything about money or paying for dates. It just means you have to support each other in love. Why are libfems acting like its about buying ur man a foot massager lmao

SayNad · 2020-07-28T22:23:51+00:00

A relationship goes both ways

AFTER you two got married and he proves, without a doubt, that he is a HVM. Than of course you will share the burden of the household because that's natural. Though the husband is the provider, so he is financially responsible for the household. Division of labor is still strictly 50/50 tho.

NOT WHILE YOU ARE DATING!!!

apple_cores · 2020-07-29T00:33:39+00:00

I treated my ex like a king and he did not treat me back like a queen lmfaoooo

syahirahmaruko · 2020-07-28T08:53:20+00:00

I'm new here and still got so many things to learn. But what we should do then? let them pay for everything? I'm uncomfortable when someone pays for me. I mean everyone including the guy I date. When someone pays for my dinner, I'll probably gonna treat them something else later.

VictoriaSobocki · 2020-07-28T15:56:52+00:00

I don’t see a problem with this. I think that all should contribute a bit, if they can, and I don’t think devalues the relationship.

I was in a relationship where we shared bills and respected each other + I see other long term couples doing this (Denmark), especially in Scandinavia.

Title	someone pls pick her
Author	ematlas
Upvotes	116
Comments	51
Date	July 28, 2020 3:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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