Stop normalizing men’s immaturity

Dazzling_Moose_6575 · 2021-04-23T13:01:15+00:00

My daughter came home from spending a week with her grandma (my ex's mom) and told me her grandma told her if a boy is mean to her it means he likes you. I shut that down immediately, I asked her if she wants to be friends with someone who is mean to her, does she treat people she likes badly, is it OK to be mean to your friends? It's hard because she loves her grandma, but I refuse to raise a daughter who will accept that type of treatment.

cremebruleecakes · 2021-04-22T23:37:58+00:00

Tf when they claim they're intellectually superior but also, "He just didn't know what he did was awful and hurt you, you have to cOmMuNiCaTe in plain, simple terms" They really just pick whatever narrative benefits them at the moment.

techschool_nightmare · 2021-04-22T23:06:59+00:00

Girls mature faster than boys because girls are held socially accountable for behavior that boys are allowed to get away with well into adulthood, if they ever face consequences at all.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-04-23T04:17:05+00:00

Women are quite literally expected to be superior, but then treated as inferior. From young ages, we have to be caregivers, have to be pleasant and generous no matter how we’re feeling, have to be smarter to force our way into higher education, have to be more patient to tolerate criticisms in the workplace, have to put out while we’re in pain to keep someone happy who doesn’t even remember our birthday, have to be better at multitasking and micromanaging...all this while bleeding, suffering unresolved medical conditions due to bias, and being told we can’t handle anything more than making sandwiches and being sex toys.

Well men can take a seat. Women have proved time and again that we’re well....better. At pretty much everything. Our ancestors were burned as witches for teaching themselves how to read, fought in wars given worse and unsafe equipment and raped by our own soldiers and foreign, died giving birth in the fields they were working, rioted for the right to be thought of as human. Women are considered more mature only when it comes to sexualizing them, but not when it comes to leadership. Even so, women have proven better leaders, concerned with their people and progress, and men are full of corruption and huge pedophile cover ups. I’m ready for a change.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-04-23T12:50:37+00:00

Women mature faster because society is always pressuring us. While no one pays attention to what scrotes do. It's why they'll never evolve. Society will always hold their hand.

Nice_Pass2393 · 2021-04-23T02:27:35+00:00

I hate how guys get to use this excuse in high school and college in order to fuck alot of girls and everyone gives them a free pass because "they're not ready for a relationship". Even my baby's father gets off the hook from raising his kid because at 20 years old "he's not ready to be a father. He's just a kid"

yolosunshine · 2021-04-23T00:44:12+00:00

‘Girls, take care of the boys, they can’t help but be toddlers forever.

Yes, Cheryl that means cleaning up after the meeting because salaried dudes can’t throw out their fucking coffee cups.’

Apricot_Ibex · 2021-04-23T10:06:44+00:00

It’s a way for old scrotes to make themselves look like a prize in comparison to the more openly-dickish younger ones, when in fact they never “grow up”- they just become more manipulative and sneaky with age.

Girls are expected to be better behaved starting even in preschool, whereas behind almost every bratty boy is a #boymom who thinks he’s a misunderstood and persecuted genius who somehow just keeps failing to get into the talented and gifted program because of misandry. Poorly behaved girls don’t get that response.

Girls aren’t naturally more mature. They’re trained and browbeaten from birth, especially in extremely patriarchal cultures. What does their better self-control, self-discipline, and sense of judgment get them? Scrotes screeching that they should erase their personhood and be sUbMiSsIve to some petulant male.

BabyGothQ · 2021-04-23T16:56:40+00:00

Yes, of course men should be the only ones allowed to run entire countries, governments, multi-billion dollar companies, etc. but if you say exactly what you want the 1st time, it’s your fault they don’t listen because men are stupid, biological cavemen who don’t know how to operate a washing machine. Duh! Get it together, women!/s

throwaway5634907 · 2021-04-23T02:18:15+00:00

Society will take men’s faults and find a way to turn them into an advantage/convenient excuse.
“Men are simple and one track minded” turns into “How am I supposed to know to do housework without being asked? How was I supposed to know she didn’t consent to anal sex?”
“Men are immature” turns into “He’s allowed to treat you like shit because he’s a man”
“Men are visual creatures” turns into “You will be rewarded for catering to their gaze”.
“Men are uncomfortable expressing their emotions” turns into “You need to anticipate his needs and constantly communicate with him”.
“Men have uncontrollable sexual urges” turns into “If you don’t allow him to cum inside you regularly in sex that only meets his needs, he’s completely justified in dumping you”.
I could go on but yeah. Men will weaponize stereotypes about themselves and use it to apply generally to all men but then scream not all men when most men treat women like crap.

t3ddi · 2021-04-23T18:30:23+00:00

Teacher. Can confirm parents give boys way more leeway when they are bombing academics due to video game addiction.

NikiBubbles · 2021-04-23T06:42:54+00:00

In my country there's a term "wise-woman". It means that you have to swallow your pride, tolerate and adapt to "boys'" bullsh*t. I've been told that since I've been, umm, about 6 years old, and my male cousins were allowed to throw tantrums and I wasn't.

Platipus6 · 2021-04-23T00:03:00+00:00

The fangirling over grown men such as the 2 lawyers in Making a Murderer - Jerry Buting and Dean Strang, did not surprise me at all. It's become so rare to see mature, intelligent, honest, decent and altruistic men that women went wild.

The 4 men in the Behaviour Panel youtube are also a delight to watch.

The dating wasteland with crude humour, juvenile whining, demands for nudes and crass innuendo is just 😩

How long do we have to wait for them to mature?

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-04-22T22:51:04+00:00

Oooft 🤩

2021-04-23T19:56:02+00:00

According to new research from the Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis, women’s brains appear to be on average three years younger than the brains of men of the same chronological age.

That difference is present from young adulthood through senior years, which means women’s brains also age more slowly than men’s brains.

The human brain tends to shrink with age. Brains also change how they make and use the primary source of energy, which is a type of sugar called glucose.

The changes may happen to men and women equally, but men’s brains start at a disadvantage and remain metabolically older than women’s brains throughout their lives, despite any age-related shifts.

They can go fuck themselves.

yolosunshine · 2021-04-23T00:45:19+00:00

‘Girls, boys can’t help being toddlers forever.

Yes, Cheryl, that means you need to clean up after the meeting, can’t expect grown men to throw out their coffee cups.’

greatcathy · 2021-04-23T10:10:33+00:00

Ha!!

Big-Respond8481 · 2021-04-23T11:42:26+00:00

Should be like that right? Also is it actually the speed at what kids mature? Is it not more like girls go into puberty earlier but not necessarily faster?

2021-04-27T02:10:22+00:00

They can’t even control their hormones, yet call themselves the “stronger sex.” Strong my ass 🙄

Title	Stop normalizing men’s immaturity
Author	eleguagirl
Upvotes	6316
Comments	44
Date	April 22, 2021 10:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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