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The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.

manisfestationqueen · 2020-08-23T14:51:31+00:00

To the male lurkers, be interesting or get out, you are holding up the line....

manisfestationqueen

August 23, 2020

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Title	The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.
Author	manisfestationqueen
Upvotes	610
Comments	55
Date	August 23, 2020 2:51 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/if4hki/the_men_are_realizing_we_are_leveling_up_their_2/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/the-men-are-realizing-we-are-leveling-up-their-2.169724 https://theredarchive.com/post/169724

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Back when I was still dating, I remember so many guys shaming me for having things to say. Excuse me for having life experiences and actual thoughts to talk about! But back then I didn’t know FDS so I’d be shamed into silence, and rely on them to hold up their end of the conversation instead. Can anyone guess how well that went? Not only do guys like this mostly just talk about themselves, but it’s not even interesting things either. They say stuff like “oh, I mostly just play games” and then rant about their favorite games. Or “I like to hang out at home a lot.” And of course, my favorite, “I like to laugh and have fun.” I always wanted to be like, “Oh really?? Do you?! That’s fascinating!! Most people HATE laughing and having fun, it’s so nice to FINALLY meet someone who likes that!!!” Meanwhile back then I was a professional cartoonist who got sent to dope ass industry events with a VIP badge + guest passes, and my side hobbies were doing standup comedy and cave rappelling. But god forbid I have anything to say, that would make me too talkative. Instead let’s hear Brad talk more about how much likes to laugh and have fun, and also sit on his ass.

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Funny you say they always date non-engineering women, because they look down on people who majored in anything other than engineering

They do. Absolutely sis.

meaning they want a woman they consider "beneath" them.

Yep, that's the whole gig. They want the woman to always be "beneath" them. Where I came from school/kindergarten teachers are the popular choice because it is silently considered as "women's career" (at least among the engineers I know) and they are expected to fully shoulder the house works because the logic goes since they work taking care of children, they too should take care of the house.

Some engineering men who took interest in me always suggest me pursuing teaching-related jobs - even when I stated multiple times I have absolutely no interest in teaching.

It is not just engineering women too, I notice they stay away from women in STEM-related fields - like they won't date nurses. Guess their ego can't take the hit of women being as smart as them.

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